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Because parents now have higher expectations for students, and they are more stressed, so it has led to the current situation.
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This is all related to the way children are educated now, and excessive spoiling is related to children, and children make children unable to accept difficulties, and they can't think about it when they encounter a little difficulty.
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Because children are too stressed nowadays.
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I want to say a little bit more that this conversation is real.
The background is that my student committed suicide, elementary school student, jumped off a building at home. When I told my mom about it, that's how she reacted.
I actually expected her to react this way, after all, since I was a child, I was not allowed to express negative energy, as long as I complained a little, my mother would come up with this set of rhetoric.
How old are you, what is your grievance?"
What do you think is the big deal? ”
The psychological quality is so poor, what will you do in society in the future? ”
What do you think it would be like for a sad person to hear such words?
It was success that made him even more disappointed in the world.
I'm so sad today, and I won't get better in the future. It turns out that it will be even more sad when I grow up.
Then I might as well leave it at that.
There is a difference of 108,000 miles between children and children, and some children just can't get by when they hear this, but I still come here after listening to it for so many years, that's because I'm actually very rebellious in my heart, the more you say that I can't go to society like this, the more I think my tomorrow will be brighter, what's not to do? I'm going to do it.
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Personally, I feel that the reason why the probability of students jumping off the building to commit suicide is so high on the one hand, because they are under more pressure, and on the other hand, they do not know how to relieve their own pressure, and their mental endurance is relatively poor. The pressure is accumulating more and more, and you don't know how to get rid of it, so there will naturally be times when you get into the horns.
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In fact, the current study pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and then, primary and secondary school students can be better than their minds, but they are not perfect, and they are easy to think about when they suffer from some difficulties and setbacks.
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The probability of a student committing suicide by jumping off a building is not high, and you can't generalize. There are indeed individual students who live and have high pressure to study, so they choose to commit suicide by jumping off a building. But this is just one example.
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Because today's children are used to it, they can't stand a little control, and they are in a rebellious period, and they can't think about it when something goes wrong.
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Because no one understands what they really need? Everyone cares about their academic performance and how many points they score, they don't understand the pressure of their study, they don't want to study, they don't like to study, and when the pressure reaches a certain level, it's easy to think about it if they can't bear it.
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There are two situations of jumping off the building, one is the desperate type, their suicide is deliberate, and all aspects are clearly considered.
The second is impulsive, which is caused by impulsiveness in a specific situation.
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Today's students generally have too poor psychological tolerance, and when they encounter problems, they will do things out of the ordinary, and even commit suicide.
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It may be that the current parents have higher requirements for their children than him, and the pressure from the family, the pressure from the school, and the pressure of competition between classmates, the pressure is too great for them to bear. That's why they have a lot of suicidal thoughts.
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Because the self-control ability of today's students is very weak, and their psychology is very fragile!
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Judging from the entire news content and the statements of his relatives and friends, there was not much unusual about the college student before he hanged himself, except for one point, the college student locked himself in his house during the summer vacation and hardly went out。This should be the only anomaly, and if it weren't for the suicide of this college student, it would not be strange not to go out.
After the college student committed suicide, he really learned the truth when investigating the cause, which turned out to be related to online loans. Let's talk about the details of the incident.
There was also an incident where a primary school student chose to jump off a building before, but this primary school student chose to write a suicide note, at least he knew why he chose to jump off the building, and it is difficult for us to understand the reason for this student.
In this suicide note, the primary school student wrote that he was very tired every day and didn't even have time to rest, so it can also be seen that he was in a high-pressure state, so there was this desperate mood, let's not put too much pressure on the child, so that he could not feel the beauty of this world and make him feel terrible about the future.
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People who can commit suicide by jumping off a building should have suffered unspeakable or unbearable pain psychologically, and it is not a short period of time, most of them in a short period of time, how many days and nights or moments when they think of this unbearable thing and fall into contemplation and pain.
Life is not easy, living is a kind of practice, and you can do it and cherish it. But it backfired, and it exceeded the lower limit of his own bearing, in loneliness, helplessness and regret, he could not see hope, and at this time, he did not get great support from the people around him, or it was difficult for him to enlighten himself, and finally caused a tragedy.
This is not an exception, and it will not be the last, sad, sad, pitiful and hateful, but more of it is actually a lack of responsibility, people live a lifetime, not only for themselves, not to mention their wives and children. Even if it is not for yourself, but for the people around you, then you should also have difficulties and face them with your wife, because as long as you dare to turn around, you will find that there will always be someone behind you who is silently accompanying you, it may be your parents and brothers, or it may be your wife and friends, but it is certain that you are definitely not alone, you can fight alone to make a comeback, and you must not be self-decadent and lie down directly, life is endless, and the struggle is endless.
May all the good things in the world come as scheduled! In the end, it will be the best!
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Jumping off a building is a very dangerous act that can result in serious bodily injury or death. If a person decides to jump off a building, they usually go through the following processes and feelings:
1.Decision to jump: This is the initial decision, probably due to extreme mental stress, anxiety, depression, hopelessness, etc.
2.Climb to the top of a building or window: After deciding to jump, you may climb up a building or window at a high place.
3.Fear and restlessness: During the climb to the heights, you may feel extreme fear, restlessness, and nervousness. At this point, people may begin to feel their bodies tremble and their hearts beat faster.
4.Despair and determination: When people stand on a high place, they may feel a sense of despair and feel that they are in a situation of no return. Some people may decide that jumping off a building is the only solution and decide to jump in.
5.Momentary feelings: At the moment of jumping, people may feel extreme pain, fear, and despair. However, because the process is so quick and extreme, some people may feel numb or calm.
It is important to note that jumping off a building is an extremely dangerous act that can result in serious bodily injury or death. If you or someone close to you feels the same way, I strongly recommend that you seek professional counselling or seek help from a mental health practitioner immediately. Psychological intervention 24 hours**:
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I saw this real-name report: Xu Yushu is 17 years old, since the beginning of the junior high school, he was escorted to study in Chongqing No. 2 Foreign Chinese School (the school is located in Huang Jueya, Nan'an District, Chongqing), this year is in his third year of high school, on November 13, 2019, he jumped from the fifth floor of the teaching building at about 7:10 in the morning, and the child's father received a notice to go to the school infirmary at about 8:10 and said that the child was injured, and the child was sent to the hospital for first aid at about 8:20. It is said that the child has been talking since he fell, and his consciousness is clear.
It has been six days since the child's accident, and on the fifth day, the first vice principal of the school came forward and offered 150,000 yuan in compensation, and no one in charge of the school came forward to solve it. Life is priceless.
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Anger, low self-esteem, anxiety.
Pain 1 minute 1, fear 2, pain 3, can't die more painful!
It means suicide by jumping off a building.
Suicide is irresponsible.
Don't do that.
Listen to the mainstream and keep your head above water.
If you are concerned about the facts of the case, you may pay attention to the ** news and participate in the trial in accordance with the law.
Paying attention to the results belongs to the scope of judicial information disclosure, and can be known by applying on the official website of the people's court.
I had a problem with my husband. I heard that her suicide day was his ex-husband's birthday, and she jumped off a building in someone else's house.
Both of her marriages were unhappy. Before committing suicide, I was going to divorce my future husband.
After she died, her husband went to the funeral.
Because Guoan won the championship.
This may be a lot of people who can't bear the pressure of life, choose this way to end their lives, but you can't harm others, after all, there are still other people downstairs, so let's hold on.
Bang Fall to the ground and die, nothing to experience With the gray screen of the screen, you are dead and are being reborn.
You can regret it before you jump, but you don't regret it after you jump. It was the stupidest experience of a lifetime! Just imagine that life is only once, in this world except that you are alive, what can be more valuable than your own life?
The Buddha said that the bell must be tied to the bell, the bell in this life has not been unsolved, and you will always have to go through such a life in the next life (if you choose to die by yourself, it will only enter the cycle of eternal reincarnation), the sea of suffering is boundless, and turning back is the shore! There is no fear of death, what could be more terrible than death?
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It can be said that this behavior reflects the psychological problems of teenagers nowadays, as well as the problems of school management and the education of parents. Because of such a thing, the first reason should be considered from these three aspects.
The first thing that can be reflected is the psychological quality of the students. Nowadays, students are too likely to have some distorted mentality, collapse mentality, etc., which are very many because of excessive psychological pressure, in fact, because the psychological quality of students has become low. I don't think the previous students had such a good mentality.
In fact, it also reflects the reason of a school, and this kind of thing is inseparable from the school. The school must not have done a good job in terms of student safety, or did not supervise the students properly, which led to this incidentSchools also have a great responsibility. There is a large part of the reason on the part of the school.
Whether it is from the perspective of campus safety or whether or not the obligation of school education has been fulfilled.
Finally, there are the educational reasons of parents. Parents usually put too much pressure on students, and today's parents can say that they want their sons to become dragons and daughters to become phoenixes, and force their children to a certain realm, so this kind of thing is really common. Today's parents are very strict with their children's education.
It's really common for this to happen sometimes.
Whatever the reason. This phenomenon has happened. We should take this as a warning.
Schools should strengthen education on students' psychological qualities and strengthen the management of campus safety. Parents should create a good atmosphere for students. To be a warm harbor for students.
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There is a lot of pressure on learning, and the pressure exerted by parents, teachers, and society is enough to crush a person, let alone a child whose mind is not yet complete.
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There are many reasons for suicide, such as study pressure, parental pressure, emotional pressure, and if they are not comforted and relieved for a long time, it is easy for them to think about it.
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It may be because of unfair treatment of teenagers by teachers, corporal punishment, verbal abuse, etc., or bullying among classmates.
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In fact, when these students encounter criticism from teachers, criticism from their parents, or hindrance from learning, they easily choose to end their lives.
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Parents put too much pressure on their children, coupled with teachers' criticism, some children with weak mental capacity will choose this practice to end their lives.
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Children have little experience, and their psychological tolerance is also limited, and it is easy to think about some small things.
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Stress alone does not lead to suicide, and suicide is rarely motivated by impulse, but I think the key point is despair of one's own living situation. In the face of great blows and excruciating pain, people do not choose to commit suicide, except for high ideals (which are only a very small minority), and it is probably the inertia of life that prevents them. Anyone who is not desperate will hardly choose to commit suicide.
And the nostalgia for life in normal life can't keep them, how sad it must be!
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