My husband and I are in an AA marriage, what should I do if I have no income after I get pregnant?

If you still adhere to the AA lifestyle after marriage, and the woman is unemployed and has no job due to pregnancyOf course, you need your husband to be the breadwinner of the family and cover most of the expenses of pregnancy or future parenting.

Money has now become a big problem between many couples and couples, and they can't pay money to each other, and they care about every bit of their own pay, and some have even formed an AA system and a five-point relationship modelI really don't agree with this way of getting along.

The two choose each other as life partners, and spend most of their lives together, and they must know each other and believe that Ren is the most basic emotional foundationNo one can predict how many obstacles, how many accidents, how many sideways on the way to live together, no one's life is all planned, and husband and wife are the community in life, it is you and me and I have your survival mode, it is not a river on both sides, and individuals are responsible for their expenses, in that case, what is the point of a family?

I don't recommend getting along with couples and couples, let alone in the case of a woman's pregnancy. It stands to reason that raising the next generation is by no means a woman's own business, and pregnancy and childbirth are a process of suffering and suffering for women, as a husband and a father of a babyIt is also necessary to be more responsible, responsible, and conscientious than usual.

Can we still hold the hypocritical banner of our AA system of life, get rid of ourselves clearly, and let the heavy responsibility of raising children fall on the woman? What's more, women lose their jobs and income when they are pregnantIt is absolutely appropriate for a man to do his best to afford the life of the family, wife and daughter, and the family is coexisting, not you and me in the Chu River and Han realm

Most of the time life is changeable and bitter, and the other half we are looking for is the life assistance, spiritual support and spiritual support for the rest of our lives, which is responsible for ourselves and each otherIf we have a calculating heart and consider every payment, it is not a family, nor is it love.

After a woman is pregnant, because it is a husband and wife who want a child, first of all, the cost of pregnancy needs the husband to be more responsible, and the cost is that the husband needs to pay more, and the husband and wife want to have children, including raising children in the future, it is a matter of two people, if the AA system is obvious, it is planned in advance, and the cost is to be explained.

I think you should have a good talk with your husband and explain the situation to him, and he will definitely understand.

Marriage or AA system, why do you get married? It's just like raising a child yourself, tell him, the child is not yours alone, although women are now practicing to earn money, but in the case of a woman's inability, his wife and children are raised by him.

When you have a child, you are a family. Of course, the cost of pregnancy is more for the man.

The child is not yours alone, even if it is an AA system, as the father of the child, you should also take responsibility and communicate with him rationally, if not, you can only defend your rights.

Later, the wife and her husband mediated, and the husband also said that he would slowly change, and the two of them are currently living very happily.

Fu Xinbo and Ying'er sparked heated discussions on the whole network because they insisted on the AA system in their lives, but Ying'er was pregnant and stopped working at the time, and had no work income at all, so she didn't expect Fu Xinbo to insist on the AA system. Fu Xinbo once said in public that Ying'er changed her blind personality and liked to be alone, and after having Ying'er's company, she knew how happy her married life was. Now the two have a little moon of love, and they are living a happy family.

In 2018, Yinger successfully gave birth to the crystallization of two people, "Little Moon", and now "Little Moon" is almost 3 years old. The two men are still in love. After the birth of his daughter, Fu Xinbo instantly grew into a man with a greater sense of responsibility.

Now he spends more time at home, spending time with his wife and children, playing with his daughter, and cooking for his wife. With the continuous improvement of Xinbo's cooking skills, Ying'er has also been nourished by love.

Later, the two of them still lived happily and happily, although it seems that the girl is more entrusted, but in order to maintain the married life in the family, they will also make some forbearances.

In the end, Ying'er argued that she would return to work to earn money without finishing the month, and it was really unlucky to marry such a husband, not only did she not enjoy love, but Yanque's life after marriage was even harder.

This is very incorrect for the husband to do so, and the AA system should not be implemented in marriage. Otherwise, there will be a certain gap between the husband and wife.

Although many families are now more and more fond of the AA system, I think this is still quite emotional, and it is still necessary to bear it together, especially after the wife is pregnant.

Of course, you should do this, after all, the child belongs to the two of you and needs to be raised together, and it will be very troublesome if you still choose the AA system, because there are too many things that the child needs every day, and there is no way to divide it so clearly.

It is true that the AA system should not be continued, after all, the child is two people, so they should be raised and funded together, and it is very inconvenient to continue the AA system.

Such a family will not be happy at all in the future, so get a divorce as soon as possible.

The wife's request is not too much, the husband should agree, after all, the child is two people, and two people need to pay for the child together, and it is not appropriate to continue the AA system.

First of all, there is a problem with your marriage model, you should share the expenses of the family, if you still use the AA system in the future, then it can be seen that the marriage is not easy to last for a long time, and it is not suitable for China's national conditions.

I think this husband's idea is particularly difficult to understand, and he still implements the AA system after getting married, so I hope you can communicate about it.

I think your husband is very selfish and doesn't have you and the children in his heart at all.

I think that if there is such a situation, I should divorce directly, because my husband is too stingy, and this will affect family harmony very much.

I think such a husband has no responsibility and no responsibility, he doesn't love his wife at all, and he is more selfish.

If it were me, I would just knock out the child and divorce immediately,!! Such a man doesn't want to spend money for his children, let alone for you, why do he have to have children and suffer himself,?! Selfish man? Resolutely not, living your own life is the last word!!

Divorce directly, and the children are left to him. It's so simple and asks.