We always say that the right person is the right person, so what does a real right love look like?

I think that the real match is very compatible both materially and spiritually, and the two people can get along naturally and without constraints.

The real match, whether it is from the family aspect or from the personal ability, is not bad, so that it can be called a good match.

When it comes to the door-to-door pair, the first thing that comes to mind is love with the same economic strength. It is undeniable that money is indeed used to measure the right condition. But what is hidden in the door is the consistency of the education level of the two people, the consistency of the spiritual world, and the consistency of the pursuit of the future.

The love of parents is the result of the right matchIn the family, two people take responsibility for each other, the mother will not be a vase for nothing, and the father will not leave everything to the mother. The two of us shared the responsibility of raising and educating me, my mother had her job and hobbies, her friends, and so did my father.

The two of them formed a family, but they didn't completely overlap their lives with each other。The two of them are like the two of them raised their eyebrows as the book says, and their father would make a cake on their mother's birthday. His mother would also fill in a new dress for his father's birthday, not because of the value, but because of his heart.

My mother loved to read and my father loved to ride. Both people are respectful of each other's hobbies. The mother would also take the father back when he was drunk, and take care of him carefully instead of losing his temper.

They take me seriously and educate me, whether it is spiritual or material, they will do their best to satisfy me, so that I can maintain myself in every relationship, I will not lose myself because of the material gifts of others, I will not be addicted to material desires and unable to extricate myself, and I will not fall into the world of desire because of the lack of my spiritual world. While respecting every relationship, you will also maintain yourself and not lose yourself in love. More than 20 years of teaching by my parents have also had a great impact on my outlook on life.

The right love is when two people can look at each other at eye level and seriously examine their loversRather than blindly looking at it with admiration or contempt. It doesn't have to be two people doing the same thing. It's that two people can respect each other's hobbies, and it's the same spiritual world of two people.

The real family pair does not have to feel humble in love, there is no sense of separation, and there is a like-minded person who speaks freely.

The door is not to prove the power of love, but to open a window for two people to breathe in the future.

The door is right"It is a traditional concept that refers to the social status, economic conditions, family background, etc. of both parties to a certain extent matching or commensurate. However, true love does not depend solely on these factors, but is based on mutual respect, understanding, support, and mutual development.

Consistency of values: Do the core values of both parties coincide? Do you have similar views and pursuits about family, career, lifestyle, etc.? Alignment of values is an important foundation for building stable and long-lasting relationships.

Communication and understanding: Are you able to communicate openly and are each other able to understand and support each other's needs and feelings? Good communication is key to building trust and solving problems.

Matching interests and hobbies: Although interests and hobbies may not be identical, sharing some similar interests and hobbies can increase the opportunities for interaction and shared experiences, and strengthen the bond of feelings.

Supporting each other and growing in stance: Are you able to support, encourage, and help each other achieve their personal goals and growth? A true door-to-door relationship is built on mutual growth and mutual assistance.

Understanding and respect for family background: While family background can sometimes affect the development of a relationship, are both parties able to understand and respect each other's family backgrounds and be willing to face challenges that may arise together?

To sum up, the true love of the family not only depends on the matching of social status and economic conditions, but also on the basis of mutual understanding, respect, support and common development. The most important thing is whether you truly love each other and are willing to experience life's joys and challenges together.

I feel that true love is spiritually matched! If the family is right and only pays attention to the background, then the short and poor and the dead fat house, the rich and handsome and the white rich and beautiful, are they a pair made in heaven? Can their love last forever and the sea is rotten?

Don't tear up too much.

The core of the family pair is not actually the family and background, but the values.

We can't ignore the impact of the family of origin on a person, the famous American "family master" Satya believes that a person and his family of origin are inextricably linked, and this connection may affect his life. The living habits of family members, the way of communication, the way of thinking to solve problems, etc., are all subtly affecting your outlook on life, values, and worldview.

And those who look the same or similar to you become your friends and lovers.

In this way, is there no love fairy tale of Cinderella and the prince in the world? No. To a certain extent, birth affects a person's values, but this is not the determining factor, there are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same, even if they are twins, there will be huge differences in personality and concepts, especially, after experiencing social activities such as study, work, and socialization, the influence of the family on us will gradually decrease, our values will be dissolved, reshaped, new circles will be formed, and new love will come.

It determines how the two people look at love, marriage, money, success, and happiness.

Writer Liao Yimei once said: "In a person's life, it is not uncommon to encounter love and sex, but it is rare to encounter understanding." "Throughout our lives, we are looking for people who are on the same frequency as ourselves.

Whether a relationship can last or not, to a large extent, is a game between the two, I understand your world, you can also interject in my world, we grow together, face life at the same pace, shout the future with the same voice, I can keep up with your rhythm, my voice, you can also understand, evenly matched, in order to go to the end.

Love is a game, an opponent who is too strong is tired, and an opponent who is too weak is tired. Only when they are evenly matched can they support each other and grow together.

The relationship between two people who are not in the right household refers to the large differences between two people in terms of family background, cultural background, social status, etc., which may have a negative impact on the relationship between the two people. Here are some analysis and recommendations:

1.Analyze the basis of feelings: If two people have a good fit in terms of personality, interests, values, etc., then the difference between the door and the wrong household may not be fatal.

But if there is a big difference between two people in these areas, then the problem of the wrong door may be more prominent.

2.Analyze the development of the relationship: If the relationship between two people is already deep, then the problem of not having the right door may not have much impact on the relationship.

But if the relationship between two people is still in its infancy, then the problem of not being in the right place can become an obstacle to the development of the relationship.

3.Consider future development: If the differences between two people may have a negative impact on future development, such as large differences in family background, cultural background, social situation, etc., then it is advisable to carefully consider whether to continue the relationship.

4.Suggest communication and compromise: If two people decide to continue the relationship, it is advisable to strengthen communication and compromise, try to understand each other's culture and background, and tolerate and support each other.

In short, the relationship between the door and the wrong household needs to be analyzed and judged according to the specific situation. If two people have a good fit in terms of personality, interests, values, etc., and the relationship is already very deep, and the future development will not be greatly affected, then you can consider continuing to stick to this relationship. However, if there are big differences between two people in terms of family background, cultural background, social status, etc., it may have a negative impact on the relationship, and it is recommended to carefully consider whether to continue to adhere to this feeling.

I would give up on someone I liked because of my family background.

1. I think it would be a pity if two people love each other, but they are separated because of their family background, but I still choose to separate, and the most important reason is my parents. Because your parents are your dearest relatives, everything they do is for your good, and it is very inappropriate not to do what you want without considering their feelings. Marriage is a big event, you can not listen to friends, you can not listen to relatives, but you must not listen to your parents, parents do not agree, there is a reason why they do not agree, you have to believe in your parents, it will definitely not harm you.

Isn't there a saying that is particularly good, a marriage that is not blessed by parents is generally not particularly happy.

Second, if the door is not right, two people who are not in the right household will not be happy. There was once a TV series called Mendi, in which the heroine was the daughter of a rich family, and the male protagonist Liang Zhisan was just an ordinary family, although the two were together, their lives were not particularly happy, because the woman's family looked down on the man in their hearts. Why do Chinese families pay attention to the right family since ancient times?

This is very reasonable, if the man is strong and the woman is weak, the girl will be easily bullied, the man may not respect the girl and the woman's court, and the woman is strong and the man is weak, the boy will have a strong sense of inferiority and feel that he is eating soft rice, so it is better to find a good person.

3. Family equality is the best marriage. No matter what rank you are in, Yongjing should not think about climbing, and certainly not about descending. What kind of person are you looking for, what kind of person are you looking for, if you are rich and handsome, go to Bai Fumei, of course, if you are just the daughter of an ordinary family, don't think about Gao Pan being the daughter-in-law of a wealthy family.

Recognize yourself and find someone who is comparable to your own family. Ordinary life is the best, as long as that person knows and respects each other, even if the family is ordinary, it is happy.