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You need to communicate this well, depending on the specific situation. Marriage is nothing more than love, sex, and responsibility. The way husband and wife get along with each other and the way of social relations and friends are no different, tolerance, understanding, and communication.
Reflect on why you divorced, you must solve the root cause of the original problem that led to divorce, if you don't solve it well, it is not recommended to remarry, or it will be a new reincarnation.
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If your husband is now a man with a conscience and a sense of responsibility, you should remarry.
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Remarriage or not is a matter of the relationship between men and women, both parties, and what does it have to do with whether they have children?
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If you meet a suitable one, don't remarry, after all, it's hard to break the mirror, if there is no more suitable one, when you are old, you can remarry, after all, young lovers, old companions.
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If two people really love each other, children are not a problem!
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This should be considered clearly, think about why you left before, and the same problem will not occur in the future.
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Does having children have anything to do with whether or not you remarry? It's mainly about feelings.
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Adults should not use children as tokens as a tool for marriage reunion.
1.Twisted melons are not sweet.
As a parent, I understand the feelings I have for my child. However, when the relationship between the husband and wife breaks up, one party is bound to make sacrifices and give up, which is best for the child and both parties. Children are very sensitive, and the couple's emotional discord is only reluctantly together because of the child, so that the child can feel it in the family, which is easy to cause the child to leave a shadow on the parents and marriage.
2.Stay sane and accept reality.
It is wise to find a way to make the child better accept the fact that the parents' relationship is broken, which requires the child's parents to negotiate and work together, please calm down and return to reason after the emotion, and think of a compromise solution. In the face of a broken family, the child must be hurt, so the parents' solution is crucial, and the premise of the parents' solution must be for the sake of the child's better, so you must restrain your emotions, don't produce excessive behavior, and let the child have a process of acceptance.
Everyone is an independent individual, you can force your feelings for the sake of the child's impulsiveness, but you can't force it for a lifetime, and the reluctant family will not be truly happy, but delay each other.
3.If you want to save your marriage, do so with sincerity.
If one of the husband and wife really wants to save the marriage and family, then first think about whether they really want the other party to continue the second half of their lives, don't naively unilaterally imagine how the other party will change according to what they want, it is unlikely, they are all dozens of years old, and their personalities and tempers have already formed individual words. The decision is made after a lot of thought. If the decision is to redeem it, then what you have to think about is how to make up your mind to change your bad habits, how to improve yourself, and how can you live a positive life and be a good role model for parents, so that the other party will not look back.
Please remember to find more reasons from yourself, reflect on yourself, don't always blame others, a slap can't make a sound, do your part. Redemption is not an overnight thing, it is equivalent to re-falling in love after divorce, please be prepared for a "lasting station", this is also true sincerity, respect each other, understand each other, the two are a lifetime after reuniting, and there are children in the middle, don't remarry on impulse, otherwise the consequences for children will be even worse. A loving family is a truly happy home.
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I don't think you should choose to remarry for the sake of your children, because your own happiness is the most important thing, and if you remarry in such a vague way, it will actually cause some harm to your children in the end.
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I don't think it should be, first of all, since you have divorced, it means that the two of you really have no feelings, so even if you remarry, you will only be tied to each other, and you will not be really happy. Secondly, even if you are divorced, you can give your children all the love, so there is no need to grieve yourself for the sake of your children.
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Shouldn't. If you have no feelings, it's best not to remarry for the sake of your children, so life won't be easy.
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No. Choosing to remarry for the sake of children is not worth it, and even remarriage will repeat the mistakes of the past.
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Remarriage should not be chosen for the sake of the children, because a marriage without feelings is not good for the children. It is not conducive to the development of children.
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Legal analysis: Remarriage, the act of entering into a marital relationship, can be carried out as long as the premise of the consent of both parties and other conditions are met. Not affected by the end of the marriage and children.
Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1046 Marriage shall be a complete self-destruction of the wishes of both men and women, and it is forbidden for either party to coerce the other party, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere blindly.
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For the sake of their children, many women would rather choose to stick to a marriage that is nothing but a fictitious marriage and suffer a lot.
There are also people who, for the sake of their children, will remarry even if they are divorced.
Do you think you should remarry for the sake of your children after divorce?
Do you think you will be happy after remarriage? What should I pay attention to when remarrying?
After remarriage, will the children be happy? Actually, I don't think there is a standard answer to this question. Matter.
If you knew this was the case, why bother in the first place. You have to think about why you got divorced in the first place.
If you choose to remarry just for the sake of your children, I don't think it makes much sense.
If your essential problems are not resolved, you will still be unhappy after remarriage.
An unhappy marriage is harmful to the growth of children. I think that regardless of whether you remarry or not, the most important thing is how much love a woman is willing to give to her brother! A discordant marriage is not conducive to the growth of children.
And some will also bring a shadow to the child. This is a particularly heavy topic! If you love your child, guide him correctly, tell him how much you love him, and care about him all the time, you need to do a lot of it, and you have to think about whether you can stick to it.
Many people may be mistaken, the best love parents give their children is not to give him a seemingly complete family.
Only when your husband and wife have a harmonious relationship, the family will be warm, there will be love in the family, and the children can get better physical and mental growth. A real complete family is not renting Minxi's parents are there, but that parents love each other.
Saying that blindly remarrying for the sake of the child will bring more serious harm to the child.
The growth of children is inseparable from the love of their parents, but it is also inseparable from the surrounding environment. Endless bickering, frequent cold violence, stranger selfishness, and more! Regardless of the environment, it will change the fate of the child, and become extremely selfish, irritable and withdrawn, and inferior and cowardly.
Therefore, children are one of the important factors that need to be considered in the matter of remarriage, but they must not be the key factor in remarriage.
The most tragic kind of remarriage is none other than this one. chose to remarry for the sake of the child, but after remarrying, he not only ruined himself, but also ruined the child.
In a sense, the harm caused to the children by an unhappy family is often greater than the harm caused by divorce.
After a divorce, can a husband and wife remarry for the sake of their children?
You can choose to remarry, but not just because of or for the children. It should be because they still have each other in their hearts, and they still want to maintain that home, and finally give their children a truly complete home.
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Legal analysis: The divorce with the ex-wife has been officially completed. In other words, in terms of legal relationship, the two are already unrelated, and they are two people who are completely independent of each other. Citizens have the freedom to marry, and so is remarriage. As long as marriage is the true will of both parties.
Legal basis: Article 1083 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China After marriage, if a man and a woman voluntarily resume their marriage relationship, they shall go to the marriage registration authority to re-register the marriage.
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Analysis of the legal consumer:
You and your ex-wife have officially gone through the divorce process. That is to say, in terms of legal relationship, the two of you are already unrelated, and they are two people who are completely independent of each other. Citizens have the freedom to marry, and so is remarriage. As long as marriage is the true will of both parties.
Legal basis: Article 1083 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China After marriage, if a man and a woman voluntarily resume their marital relationship, they shall go to the marriage registration authority to re-register the marriage.
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