What does it feel like to help someone you like to get back to his ex boyfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-12
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's a very uncomfortable experience, but I can't say it, I can only endure it by myself, it's like breaking my teeth and swallowing it in my stomach.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's a very uncomfortable and very contradictory feeling, because the person you like can't be with you is very unhappy, but you think that the person you like can catch up with her and the person you like can become happy, so she becomes very happy again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's a very uncomfortable feeling to help someone you like chase after her ex-boyfriend, although she is very reluctant to do this in her heart, but for her happiness, she is still willing to go to the soup.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I feel very sad, but I also hope that she can be happy to do what she wants to do, and I hope that he can leave a little place for himself in his psychology.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Helping the person you like to get back her ex-boyfriend, I have a mentality that I want to wish the person I like happiness, because if I like others, I want to watch her be happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I want to get my ex-boyfriend back, but now he has someone he likes, what should I do?

    Is it your business to get your ex-boyfriend back? Does he have a favorite person is her thing? Before he got married, any of your behaviors, any pursuit behaviors are reasonable, if you don't work hard, remember to chase it, how do you know that you can't catch up, and even how do you know that he and the person he likes can happily enter the palace of marriage?

    If you don't chase them together and break up later, you don't contact each other, and he finds another person to be with, will you regret dying? So it doesn't matter if he has someone he likes or not? You try to chase it, this is to give yourself an explanation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Those who recover their ex-boyfriends will later have two situations, one is very happy, and the other is separated again. But most of them still haven't found their happiness.

    When you are a couple, there will always be some reasons why you propose to break up. It could be because of a quarrel that was said suddenly, or it could be a deliberate choice. If it is a quarrel, the possibility of breaking up is still very high.

    And because the two of them get along very sweetly, it won't have much of an impact. But if two people break up after a lot of deliberation. Even if you are trying to redeem each other, the relationship between the two people may not go back to what it used to be.

    When getting along, they may not be as good as strangers, so they will slowly be separated again.

    Probably everyone has experienced this situation, regretting it after a breakup and wanting to redeem the other person. Because I used to love each other so much, I feel very sorry to be separated. So I will try my best to get back together with each other.

    But after getting back together, I found that the relationship between the two people was not so deep. Sometimes I speak carefully. In fact, what we can't forget is not necessarily this person, it is often the sincerity of our own efforts.

    And after a breakup, girls often regret it first. Because of the impulse, I made a decision that I regretted.

    There are also some people who live happily after recovering their ex-boyfriends. Such boys are generally very responsible. It's a very lucky thing to have encountered.

    When two people are together, as long as they feel that they are cherished by each other, then even if they are separated, they can be redeemed. But if two people are not cherished when they are together, and the other person will not care about your feelings, don't redeem it. Because you deserve better, don't waste time on people who don't love you.

    It takes a lot of effort to get someone back. You may slowly lose some of your dignity in the process. So as long as you choose, don't regret it, just look forward.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The vast majority of them still end in a breakup, after all, the personalities of the two people are incompatible, and no matter how they get along, there is no way to go on.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The personal situation is different, so the results are not the same, some are reconciled as before, and some still have rifts and can no longer develop and embark on the road of breakup.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I have people around me who got back to their ex-boyfriends and then got back together, but they broke up in the end, and the reason for the breakup is the same as before, and sometimes there is really no need to get back together after a breakup.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Those people are living better now, because she touched her ex-boyfriend with her sincerity. Let his ex-boyfriend feel that this woman loves him very much.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The person who recovered her ex-boyfriend did not have a particularly satisfactory life later, because after the breakup, she found out that her ex-boyfriend was the best for her, but her ex-boyfriend was hurt because of this, resulting in a man who was not as good to her as before after getting back together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Later, it was very sweet and happy, because the two of them will change for this hard-won relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In my eyes, these people are not very happy, at least in terms of initiative, they will not be valued as much as before.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Later, they broke up, because the two of them were not suitable at all, and it was useless to make up their minds no matter how they made.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    For, ex-boyfriend. I chose to recover it. Moreover, I don't think our relationship can end like that.

    I don't believe it. When he said the word "separation", I went and chose to recover. At that time, the main thing was to feel so many years of feelings.

    I really don't want to give up, he's my first love. In my heart, I feel that I must only get married with my first love in this life. However, I didn't expect us to break up.

    He broke up with me very ruthlessly. No matter how much I try to keep it, it's useless.

    So, when you go to get him back, think about whether there is any hope for your relationship? Do you think there's still point in being together? Are you really still fit together?

    If it really doesn't fit, in fact, it's a good thing to let go early. After all, love is going to go a lifetime. Neither of you is fit to do anything together.

    Do you think you have so many memories from before? Do you feel that you can't let go of it after a long time? Ask yourself in your heart, do you still love him?

    Have you ever thought about him getting married, or having a future. If not, then give up, right? Don't struggle in such a senseless way.

    It's not worth it. Because only the person you love is necessary to keep it.

    Actually, it just felt like a long time at first. I can't put it down. However, it was a wise choice to break up in the end, so that it was good for both of us.

    There are no regrets. Actually, I'm really grateful that he left me. I think it's really good for me to break up, after all, it's really unhappy to be together, so I should think about it early.

    Oh, is there any point in being together? Is it because of love together? If not, an early breakup is really good for each other, don't dwell on it.

    Ask your heart more, think about it more, and don't feel that the relationship has been going for a long time, so you will get back together. There's really no need for that.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, I won't choose to eat back anyway, even if we broke up peacefully, or maybe I was broken up, no matter how much I love him and how hard I can't let go of this relationship, I won't choose to chase my ex-boyfriend back.

    There are also many people who are willing to eat back grass and have a good ending, I can give an example, maybe this example sounds particularly unrealistic, it feels very similar to ** or the plot in the movie, but this is the story of me meeting a pair of lovers. They have a good impression of each other since elementary school, at that time they didn't know what real love was, they just wanted to be good to each other, and when they were a little older, they were still in the same class, and the feelings of getting along were getting deeper and deeper, and the boy couldn't help but confess to the girl, and the girl agreed, and the two of them became a couple, but the good times didn't last long, and when the two went to different high schools after graduating from junior high school, they naturally became less because of the long time apart. But fortunately, both of them broke up peacefully, no one cried, and then the boy and the girl each had several new relationships, but they never forgot their ex, so the girl mustered up the courage to send a message to the boy to express his thoughts, and finally the boy agreed to the girl, and the two of them are now married and live a very happy life.

    Although there is such a beautiful experience, but I still think that if this appears in my life, what a nonsense thing, not to mention how I broke up with my ex, how unpleasant it was, it really makes me feel embarrassed to be back together, as if the previous quarrel was like child's play, I take the relationship very seriously and never drag the mud and water, and it is really so troublesome that the moment of breaking up is definitely the two sides do not get along.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Generally, girls will not take the initiative to recover their ex-boyfriends after they really break up, girls are very thin-skinned, and they are unwilling to pull down their face to recover their ex-boyfriends, if they mention it to others, they may feel very embarrassed, generally in love, girls and boyfriends quarrel and say let's break up, generally boyfriends coax girls, if boyfriends don't coax girls, girls will think a lot, is it not that they don't love me, then I don't want to continue with him. So it's all her ex-boyfriend, and she won't chase it back, unless this girl really loves this boy so much that she can give up her dignity.

    Is there a big deal about breaking up, you can talk about it again after you break up, and it's not just a man like him, do you have to hang yourself on a tree like him, there are still a lot of people waiting for you in front of you, isn't there a saying that good horses don't eat back grass, we should still learn from the experience of our predecessors, this man didn't look for you again for a period of time after the breakup, and when you see him, he lives very well or is in an ambiguous stage with a certain girl, then don't chase it back, It's meaningless, and there is another kind of breakup caused by your boyfriend's split, why do you chase it back, I didn't know to cherish you at the time, and I won't in the future.

    We must be rational in terms of relationships, don't chase back our ex-boyfriends, the future is still long, and there are still many good men waiting for you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I won't bother him anymore, I won't forgive him, I can't let go of the past, just punish myself, after all, the two of them once really loved each other, after all, he was the boy I loved and hated. My ex taught me a lot, taught me how to protect myself in love, taught me how to love others in love, and also made me understand that it is not that you can be together if you love each other, and it is not that you can be separated without love, and the final letting go is the attitude that two people should have.

    There are so many problems and so many differences between us, so I'm not going to chase him back. For me, he is a past, an unspeakable pain, a memory that cannot be mentioned. It's not that I still love it, but I can't forget the painful self at that time, I can't forget the scars one after another at the beginning, and it's not easy to face it again, and I can't face him calmly and calmly again, facing the most familiar strangers.

    After breaking up, I thought of him countless times, and when I was with other people of the opposite sex, I would also think of him, knowing that we would not have a future, but I still couldn't control myself. I had the urge to contact him, but in the end I was pulled back to reality by reason, because facing the past, it was another torture, and returning to him was also a sad past revisit for me. Now, for him, my ex-boyfriend, perhaps, should be regarded as letting go, already trying to enter a new relationship, no longer thinking about him, thinking about all that he has.

    It's too difficult to turn back, it's too difficult to fall in love, the reason why it's called an ex, it's because it's become a stranger, let it stay in the past, and then force it, the pain can only be each other, and from now on away from his life, it's my last fulfillment of him, I hope he can be happy, but don't let me know.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    First, I think we have different outlooks, especially values and outlook on life. As a boy, he went to a military school after the college entrance examination, I thought he was a good man who wanted to serve the motherland, who would have thought that he was just to have a stable job after coming out of the military school, and to be able to allocate civil servants to the state, I went....Such an idea is too materialistic, and as a boy, he only thinks about doing a job like a pensioner in the future, which is simply no pursuit of life.

    Second, the pain he inflicted on me was indelible. After all, it was the first love, how naïve I was at that time, I really thought that what he said would become a reality, and thought that he would go to a school with me, but then it was all fake, and in the third year of high school, he invalidated all his promises, although I was calm on the surface, but my heart was particularly sad and desperate, after breaking up with him, I once lost 88 pounds, and the harm he caused me, I will never forget it in my life, and naturally I am not willing to get back together with him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think so, since I am already an ex, if I hadn't been cornered, I wouldn't have chosen to break up, and the nature of the country is easy to change.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The key is that you broke up because of what you shared, how long you have been breaking up, otherwise how to ask you to recover your boyfriend, if you break up for a few days, then say hello online, the more he comes out to talk about it, and talk to him when he is coquettish, and try to get rid of his shortcomings, so it's good, I hope you can come together, and finally come to the palace of love and marriage

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