How do I get my money back if I lend money to a friend?

Updated on society 2024-04-20
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The first thing is to find out whether your friend intends not to pay you back the money or is it true that you can't pay it back for the time being, and then whether you are worried about getting money from your friend or are you in a hurry to use the money now. If your friend intends not to pay it back, then you need to say anything, ask for it directly, and you don't need to add any reason, such a friend can't do it; If your friend is really in trouble and you need money urgently, you should tell him the truth and ask him if there is anything he can do. You take the advantage of discussing with your friends, so that your friends will also be anxious and try their best to repay your money, so that it will not hurt your friend's self-esteem and can get the money back, and it will not affect the continued friendship.

    Hopefully you will have good results.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't learn the plot in the sketch, it's not necessary! Since you've said you're friends, and you can't be a stranger to lend money, right?

    Just say it. If it's you who borrowed the money. You won't blame that person if someone else wants you, right?

    What did not borrow money was the uncle's statement.

    Just talk to him

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends on the relationship and the amount of money borrowed

    If the relationship is average, take him shopping. Then pretend to look at a piece of clothing and say, "Wow! I want this! Get the money! "If he returns the money to you. You hesitate and say that the clothes are not good, and you don't buy them.

    If the relationship is good, jokingly say: I have no money this month! Funding points!

    But if the number is small, it is not necessary. I usually forget about it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Frankly. Money I lent to a friend. Very honest to return. Because since it's a friend. Don't worry too much about that. There's nothing to be embarrassed about. Here's what I want to give you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Tell her directly that she needs money now and that it's no big deal.

    If it's a good friend, you won't hurt your feelings at all because of something like this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Lending money to people should have a bottom in their hearts, how much money is not worth asking, how much more can be opened, and it is necessary to establish a principle, so that the mouth is opened.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Tell him that you have an urgent need and want to borrow money, and pretend that he suddenly remembers that he owes you money and asks him to pay it back.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Find an excuse to say you need money urgently and ask him to borrow some!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Do you know the way to turn a friend into an enemy, is to borrow money from him and then collect the debt?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Well, I want to ask this question as well

    I don't know the amount please downstairs De (

    Am I stupid?

    I borrowed thousands of dollars to others, and I didn't have a penny to pay it back.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    How do I get back the money I lent to my friends? Teach you how to subtly urge a friend to pay back.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    So what to do? Upstairs means not borrowing money from friends?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The following methods can be taken to recover the arrears:

    1. Open directly when it expires;

    2. Look at the right time to ask for it in person;

    3. Reverse borrowing;

    4. Legal channels: If the negotiation fails, you can claim your own creditor's rights through litigation, and pay attention to providing relevant evidence of borrowing such as IOUs. If the other party fails to perform its obligations after winning the lawsuit, it may apply to the court for compulsory enforcement.

    The parties may give priority to the settlement of debt disputes through negotiation, and if the negotiation cannot be resolved, the parties may choose to file a lawsuit with the people's court to protect their rights and interests. The Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates that a lawsuit arising from a contract dispute shall be under the jurisdiction of the people's court at the place where the defendant is domiciled or where the contract is performed.

    Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

    Article 671: Where a lender fails to provide a loan on the agreed date and amount, causing losses to the borrower, it shall compensate for the losses. If the borrower fails to collect the loan on the agreed date and amount, it shall pay interest on the agreed date and amount.

    Article 672 The lender may inspect and supervise the use of the loan in accordance with the agreement. The borrower shall provide the lender with relevant financial and accounting statements or other materials on a regular basis in accordance with the agreement.

    Article 673: If the borrower fails to use the loan in accordance with the agreed purpose of the loan, the lender may stop disbursing the loan, withdraw the loan in advance, or terminate the contract.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. There are several ways to get money back borrowed from friends:

    1. Call ** to ask the other party to repay and ** record.

    2. Collect money through WeChat voice. The purpose of WeChat voice dunning is to let the other party reply by voice, voice and text are not the same, voice belongs to audio-visual materials, essentially the same as the above ** recording, there is an identification function, if the other party denies it, you can conduct judicial appraisal of the voice, as far as the identity of the other party is determined, and it also confirms that the WeChat is used by the borrower, so that even the authenticity of the WeChat chat record is confirmed.

    How can a friend borrow money and get it back.

    Hello dear. Hello.

    I lent money to others, without writing an IOU, dear, friends borrowed money can be borrowed in the following ways: 1. Call ** to ask the other party to repay and **record. 2. Collect money through WeChat voice.

    The purpose of WeChat voice dunning is to let the other party reply by voice, voice and text are not the same, voice belongs to audio-visual materials, essentially the same as the above ** recording, there is an identification function, if the other party denies it, you can conduct judicial appraisal of the voice, as far as the identity of the other party is determined, and it also confirms that the WeChat is used by the borrower, so that even the authenticity of the WeChat chat record is confirmed.

    3. Notarization of evidence preservation on WeChat avatars. I just said that everything else can be changed except WeChat, and I am not sure if the other party will change the avatar by then, so it is necessary to notarize and collect evidence, and fix the avatar to prevent the other party from changing the avatar**, so as to confirm that the *** is used by the borrower. It is possible that the borrower used my avatar on WeChat for someone else's theft, this defense is not wrong, there is such a possibility, but the evidence in civil litigation is highly resentful, and it is difficult for the judge to accept a small probability of the matter.

    The above is my answer to this question, I hope it helps you, thanks.

    It's okay if you don't write an IOU, you can record your conversation, and then hand it over to the Public Security Bureau for processing, I can use the method above, of course, it depends on how much money you lend to your girlfriend.

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  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. How to ask a friend for the money you borrowed back.

    1. The method of borrowing money back from a friend is as follows:

    1) The creditor and the debtor settle the matter through negotiation and remind the other party to repay the debt as soon as possible;

    2) the parties may mediate through arbitration, which requires both parties to enter into an arbitration agreement;

    3) If the debtor refuses to repay the loan and the negotiation between the two parties is invalid, the creditor needs to prepare an IOU in advance.

    2. Legal basis: Article 502 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

    A contract established in accordance with law shall take effect upon its establishment, unless otherwise provided by law or otherwise agreed by the parties.

    In accordance with the provisions of laws and administrative regulations, if the contract shall go through formalities such as approval, follow those provisions. If the failure to go through formalities such as approval affects the effectiveness of the contract, it does not affect the validity of the provisions of the contract on the performance of obligations such as reporting for approval and the validity of the relevant clauses. If a party who should go through formalities such as applying for approval fails to perform its obligations, the other party may request that it bear responsibility for violating such obligations.

    Where, in accordance with the provisions of laws and administrative regulations, the modification, transfer, or termination of a contract shall go through formalities such as approval, the provisions of the preceding paragraph shall apply.

    2. What should I do if my friend doesn't pay back?

    The solution for friends not to pay back is as follows:

    1. Keep relevant evidence, such as a copy of the other party's ID card or ID number, contract, email, mobile phone text message, recording, remittance record, etc., and sue in time to repay the money;

    2. You can contact the lawyer in time to guide how to further obtain evidence, and do not miss the statute of limitations, otherwise you will not be able to win the lawsuit. to safeguard legitimate rights and interests;

    3. If it is found that the other party has property before filing a lawsuit, it can apply for preservation.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Friends are also good and bad, some friends are still more honest, borrowed money will not be long after the repayment, but some friends do not keep their promises, some friends even default, for such friends, after taking other measures, if still do not repay the money, in this case it is necessary to take legal measures.

    If you have not repaid the money you have lent to a friend for a long time and want it back, you can directly find some urgent reasons in this case. For example, you can make up a certain relative, because you are sick and need money urgently, in this case, the worse the better, for some friends who are still sympathetic, they will generally return the money.

    If a friend has borrowed money and has not repaid it, and he is not very urgent, but he wants his friend to repay the money on time, in this case, you can ask the friend in the form of a text message when he can repay the money, and by the way, find some reasons why he needs money urgently. If the time is up and the friend has not repaid the money, take other measures. In this process, keep the messages you send to your friends and the messages they reply to.

    This can also prove that a friend borrowed money from you.

    A friend borrowed some money, if the amount is not too much, and you want to come back, in this case, you can ask your friend out to go to the mall together, and then buy some things that you like and need, and then find some excuses, such as forgetting to bring money or your own money is not enough, just let your friend pay the money, and the friend borrowed not much money, you can take this opportunity to offset the money.

    If a friend has borrowed some money from him and has not paid it back for a long time, and wants the money back, you can find the friend's wife or the friend's parents and ask for the money back. Generally speaking, a friend's parents or wife will basically pay back the borrowed money because of the relationship.

    If you want to get the money back, in this case, it is best to go to your friend's unit to make a fuss.

    For some friends who are not honest, if they borrow money for a long time and do not pay it back, in this case, if they want to get the money back, they can use the soft grinding and hard bubble to get the money back. If you are particularly in urgent need of money, you can take a few days off, and your friends will follow you until the money is coming back.

    A friend borrowed some money from himself, and if he didn't pay it back for a long time, in this case, he could make up all kinds of excuses and reasons to borrow more expensive things from his friend, such as watches or jewelry, and borrow these more valuable things.

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