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Anonymous users2024-02-08yes, swallow a fat man in one bite, can't digest it, take your time.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Blind date,It's supposed to be together.,If you're not optimistic.,You can only give up.。。
She rejected you.,It's not that you're bad.,Only that you're not the kind she likes.。。 If she refuses your invitation every time, it means that what she says about being friends is a prevarication, if there is no embarrassment when contacting you, then her personality should be quite cheerful, and you can be friends. If you are more optimistic about her, then you can fight for the next one.
Maybe she's also the kind of slow heat.,After a long time.,I also found out.,It turns out that you're quite suitable for her.。。 Hehe.
And ha,Be generous.,Girls are generally quite passive.,You're familiar.,Maybe you can get twice the result with half the effort.。。
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Anonymous users2024-02-06This brother, the girl is already above you, to be an ordinary friend, presumably she is not optimistic about you, so be an ordinary friend first as she said, maybe after slowly getting to know your mind, it will change your mind.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Maybe she does think that you are not the type she likes, usually saying that being an ordinary friend just doesn't want to be too embarrassed, so, don't continue to understand, girls don't want to go out with you just don't mean anything to you.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Ordinary friends can, depending on the situation, it is not possible to go deeper.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03Take your time, start with your friends, and fight for your opportunities.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02People have already rejected you, hurry up and withdraw... lest you feel uncomfortable later.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01There can be two explanations for this situation: 1. You did not confess to her and the other party said such a thing, which means that the other party has a good impression of you, and you said that you are a big grin type to the defense of the enemy, which means that she is more active than you, and she is testing you. As a woman, if she has a good impression of you, and you have no intention of understanding it more deeply, then if she is frustrated, it will make her lose face, so she cleverly throws you a burden, but also to test you, if you think this is the other party's true intention to retreat, then you may miss a good marriage.
If you do the opposite, if you really have a good impression of it, then follow up decisively, and if it's a man, resist it!
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Anonymous users2024-01-31Summary. When you meet for the first time on a blind date, it's actually just the first impression of each other, and you can't be 100% sure whether you like each other, if you only rely on your appearance to find a partner, I'm afraid there will be more single people in this world, I personally think you can suggest that the other party know more times, it doesn't have to be two people together, you can also start from ordinary friends. From a girl's point of view, it is difficult for her to call when she sees you for the first time, probably because he doesn't like your appearance very much, he may not like you very much, so he wants to reject you.
When you meet for the first time on a blind date, Xun's is just the first impression of each other, and you can't be 100% sure whether you like each other, if you only rely on the appearance to find a partner, I'm afraid there will be more single people in this world, I personally think you can suggest that the other party know more about how many strokes, it doesn't have to be two people together, you can also start from ordinary friends. From a girl's point of view, it is difficult for her to call when she sees you for the first time, probably because he doesn't like your appearance very much, he may not like you very much, so he wants to reject you. Lack of Changxiang.
Can you add, I don't quite understand it.
As the saying goes, a thousand miles of marriage is a thread, and there will be a result if there is fate, so we must insist on many things, of course, then again, if you insist on going to the opposite sex a few more times he still doesn't like you, and then you choose to give up is not a good result, or you raid the boy after a few more times and find that the two of you are not suitable for the place, including yourself slowly do not like him so much, you can also go to the selection chain to choose a new object blind date, and finally wish you a successful blind date, come on!
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Anonymous users2024-01-30Let's first take a look at what might happen if you continue to be friends with the other party after your confession is rejected?
I think the movie "Gone with the Wind" can be a good case analysis, the heroine Scarlett is deeply in love with Ash's spring ceremony, she is very brave in her feelings, and she did not hesitate and entangle, and directly confessed to him at his engagement banquet, of course, she was rejected.
Scarlett, who was rejected, did not stop interacting with him from then on, but continued to regard him as her lover, and getting close to each other can also be understood as treating each other as friends.
She was rejected, but she didn't give up because of this, she was still entangled with the other party, and she had great expectations for the other party that the other party would change her mind, divorce her wife, and then elope with her.
In the end, it wasn't until Ashley's wife died that she really saw that Ashley didn't love her, and at the same time, Rhett, who loved her deeply, chose to leave her because of a broken heart.
This is a very likely end for continuing to be friends with each other, because most people will have such an obsession with those who can't get it, and they will still want to be with each other, and they will not be willing to be friends only.
If you are unwilling to only treat each other as friends, you will definitely have expectations for each other, and even feel that the other party actually likes you, which will not only delay your youth, but also may miss the person who loves you deeply in the end.
The above is one possibility to continue to be friends, of course, there is another possibility, that is, to put your feelings for each other in the bottom of your heart from now on and no longer show it.
This kind of person generally has to pay a lot, because her feelings for the other party have not changed, but she just doesn't say it anymore, and she is happy to be friends with the other party on the surface, and the other party may also regard her as her best friend, and talk about everything from now on.
In the process of being friends with the other party, the other party may fall in love, have an awkward relationship with the object, or have a very happy thing with the object, and share it with her, then it will be a huge torment and pain for her.
Because the other person is enjoying the happiness she can't enjoy, of course she will feel painful and envious, but she can only bear it silently, because there is no way, after all, they have retreated to the boundary of friends, and they have drawn a boundary between each other, and that line cannot be crossed in any way.
While being friends with him, he endured the pain of not getting it, and some noisy people may have always felt that he was very good because of the existence of this person, and then looked down on others, and since then the emotional world has been blank, guarding a person who can't get it, wasting his youth.
Either way, it's not very good, unless you can be friends with the other person, continue to move forward, and fall in love, instead of still having a crush on the other person, it will be very painful.
When men and women fall in love, one depends on fate, and the other depends on their respective efforts, that is to say, they help each other, love each other, and take care of each other. I feel that you and him are still quite fateful, it depends on how you get along in the future. >>>More
I'm glad to answer this question for you See your description of this question My personal opinion and advice to you is this: First of all, you describe whether you need to confess when you meet on a blind date, and then see your description below, You have known each other for more than a month, and you have met six times, but you feel that now, two people can't break through that layer of relationship, and they have been getting along with each other like ordinary friends, and you want to break through this layer of relationship, and you are thinking about whether you can only break through after confessing, or continue to get along with ordinary friends in this way Your description of this problem Well, first of all, confession must be a very good thing, and it is a very formal ceremony, right? Yes, you know each other on a blind date, and it proves that the two of you don't hate each other, at least, because there is still a certain difference between blind date and falling in love, and falling in love may go from a colleague, from a neighbor or from a classmate, to a good friend, from a good friend to a boyfriend and girlfriend, and it takes a process to determine the relationship, and the blind date is generally going to get married So since two people can talk for more than a month, and you have seen each other six times a month, it proves that you have a good impression of each other, and if you want to break through this relationship, it must be that you are in a hurry, so my personal advice to you here is not too abrupt, too abrupt to confess, and suddenly say, hey, do you want us to be together, then the two of you are now together Because you are in contact with each other after a blind date, you are both rushing to get married, and the two of you are going to meet now with that feeling, but what There's no real development, not even holding hands, not hugging, these are the things, I think you shouldn't rush to confess now, and don't get along with this ordinary friend, but make an appointment, don't think about it so much, just talk to him casually, don't take him too seriously, the more you take it, the more nervous you are, the more you don't know how to talk about it, talk about life, talk about something, get in touch more, let you both get to know each other, and then you can tactfully say to him, hey, you see we've been in contact for a while, what do you think of me, you go and ask him like this And then if he asks you in turn, you just say to him, hey, I think you're pretty good, and then I think you're quite suitable for me, and our values should be very compatible, and I still like you, and I like you like this, and I say it, and I think you're not bad, so you say, for example, I think you're good, then you say, well, should we confirm the relationship now, and then give me the opportunity to let me protect you, let's two of us together, one style, say this, so to confess, Ji has confession, and also expresses his feelings, this way is still relatively easy to accept So I personally think it's better for you to do this, and the above is my personal answer and advice to you, I hope this answer can solve the confusion in your mind, solve the doubt in your heart, and finally wish you life
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