Breaking up with your first love, how to save yourself if you feel that you have no love?

Updated on society 2024-04-29
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In daily life, everyone hopes that they can have a sweet and happy period together, and everyone hopes that they can grow old together with their beloved. But the reality is often the opposite, the road to love is bumpy, and many couples have broken down their relationship because of this. After breaking up with my first love, I feel that I have nothing to love, so how can I save myself?

    1. Change your life situation.

    After a breakup, a large part of the reason why I feel that I have no love comes from my own life situation, and I might as well change my lifestyle at this time. Cultivating your hobbies, making yourself more "busy", etc., can make your life more fulfilling and exciting, and can save your current situation. I believe that after changing the status quo of life, life will definitely become happier and better.

    2. Do you still love each other deeply?

    After the breakup, there is such a phenomenon, which shows that they still care about this relationship, if they still love each other deeply, we can also muster up the courage to recover their own love, although the probability of success is relatively small, but we must not do something that makes us regret. To change the bad places in the past, you must learn to reflect on yourself, and then make up your mind to show your true feelings and sincerity to redeem your own love. In the end, whether it is success or failure, I believe that I can save my current state and let myself have a new life again.

    The above points are my personal opinion, and I hope it will be of some help to you to a greater or lesser extent. It is indeed very troublesome to have such symptoms after a love breakup, but we must maintain a good attitude to find the right solution, so that we can cut the grass and solve the problem, so that we can have a happy and fulfilling life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, don't have any clingy behavior, and you shouldn't stick him in the palm of your hand, maybe this is the reason for the breakup in the first place, and you need to save it, then you have to have enough time and patience, and you need to take some time to change yourself, make a long-term change, and let him see the other side of you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you still need to save if you break up with your first love, you must have enough time and patience, and you still need to take some time to change yourself, but you must be prepared for a long time to change yourself, so that the other party can change her mind.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Look for the next spring, divert your attention, and don't put your feelings on someone who doesn't deserve it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Think about it, anyway, the person you want to marry in the future won't be him, so why be sad for an insignificant passerby in your life, right?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I feel like I can distract myself. Find something else to do, to make yourself better, to look forward to finding a better person.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think since you can tear your skin, it means that the two of you may not love each other that much, so let's end it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I think that if you tear your face, then you can seek help from friends around you, and let them make an adjustment to ease your relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Well, as a person who came over, I told you that the girl ran into the arms of others, then you snatched the girl in the arms of others into your arms.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You'll find out when you meet the other one.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's okay, everyone will go through this period!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's normal to be sad, buddy time is the best antidote.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Go find one, people are not as infatuated as you, people don't treat you as one, what are you still infatuated. Find one early.

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