How to approach a relatively silent and cold boy

Silent and cold boy, can I understand being a cold boy? Such an understanding reminds me of a lot of episodes in idol dramas, hahaha. Maybe every cold boy who likes you will be different.

Some will like girls who are similar to him, and some will like girls who have the opposite personality to him.

This reminds me of the Naoki Xiangqin couple who give people a sweet crit! Naoki was also a cold boy at the beginning. But then I was chased by our simple and lovely Xiangqin hahaha! If possible, the subject can also consider taking this method.

If you like it, you can confess, the big deal was rejected. Even if he was rejected, he didn't give up, and he always insisted on confessing. Let his life have your presence, and even slowly become a habit.

I don't know what type of girl the subject is. In case this boy happens to like you too, isn't that the perfect ending (:

The subject can also approach him as a good friend at the beginning, so as to avoid the embarrassment after the confession is rejected. If you want to get close to someone, you must first get to know himAnd the two of them have more common topics, so they are more interested in continuing to have a deep relationship. However, cold boys are generally not so easy to approach, in fact, the subject has nothing to be afraid of.

This kind of boy may also want to be approached, hahahaha (: It's just a cold appearance.

All in all, go give it a try and follow your heart. If you don't try, you won't have a chance, and if you try, you might have a chance. That's all I have to say.,Everyone has a way to hurry up and add it.。。 _

For this question, you can refer to Chen Xiaoxi's pursuit of Jiang Chen in the recently popular online drama "To Our Simple Little Beauty". Or it can also be the stupid Xiangqin's stalking of Gao Leng Naoki in "Mischievous Kiss" (or never give up).

Personally, I think that the silent and cold boys are probably cold little brothers with their own ideas, they seem to be very smart, but in fact, they are a blank in terms of feelings. What you need may be stalking, taking the initiative and then taking the initiative, and remember, the initiative will have a story. You have to get him used to your presence first, and you can share some small things in life with him every day, even if he ignores him or shows boredom, don't be easily discouraged.

It is still useful to care more about him, pay attention to him, understand his preferences, and do what he likes, so that he will slowly notice you. If he's a top student, you can ask him questions, in front of the desk, two little heads next to each other, how cute. If he likes sports, you can buy him water.

Just imagine, a sunny teenager, sweating on the basketball court, when he gets off the court, a gentle and lovely girl, that is, you, hands him a bottle of water, when he takes it from your hand, his heart will beat faster, and he can't suppress his smile.

He will find that he slowly likes to listen to your chirping voice, likes to see your bouncing figure, likes your shy little face, likes your silly appearance, just likes you. He will find that he no longer wants to leave you, wants you to be by his side all the time, and you have succeeded. The cold male god fell in love with a confused girl, and when he thought about it, it was very sweet idol drama.

Of course, the process of pursuing may be a bit hard, and his performance may make you very sad, but believe that persistence is victory, and if you work hard, he may like you. Look at Xiangqin and Naoki, Chen Xiaoxi and Jiang Chen, happiness is sometimes like this, although the process is a little painful, but the end is always beautiful

The way to approach a more silent and cold boy:

1.Face each other with a broad mind

In the process of falling in love, the two parties are slowly becoming closer and closer, and it will also lead to becoming more and more calculating, at this time we can have a "role transformation" If you regard your boyfriend as an old friend of Jiuwei, when you treat your boyfriend or husband as a bosom old friend, you will naturally account for the essence of the content of his taciturn conversation, if you want to open it, you will find the main reason why he became reticent, This way, you will naturally get along with each other, and the chances will be much easier.

2.Find out what the other person likes

Once you find a man's interest, find out what he likes and dislikes in his life, whether he likes basketball or football, which movie star he likes to watch when he watches movies, and what movies he likes to watch in his daily life.

After we understand clearly, we can follow each other's preferences, for example, if he likes to watch action movies, we can see if there are any action movies that have been launched recently, so that when all the movies are finished, the two people can carry out **, shorten the distance between each other, and these two parties can slowly get closer and break the embarrassing situation of reticency.

3.Let the boy take the initiative to speak

When you like a man who is more taciturn, you should be psychologically prepared accordingly, and we try to find some ways to improve the little problem of men who love to be taciturn in life, so that men will slowly start to become talkative.

People who are silent in life are characteristic, and they are still willing to become a talkative person, such a character is generally very afraid of speaking in public, if you want him to speak, you must encourage him more, we can say "you are right" and "very good" when he speaks, and then he will gradually become talkative.

4.Be patient

Be a little patient with your boyfriend when you're trying to get him to open up, and it's also important to know why you want him to open up. Do you think he's not talkative enough with you, doesn't always have much to say, or just feels like he's lacking something?

You want a guy to open up to make the relationship between you better, not just for your own desires. Of course, your desires are also important, but forcing others out of their comfort zone is not good for anyone.

5.Show weakness appropriately

Many boys have a strong sense of self-esteem, if you want to get rid of the other half of the taciturn personality, it is recommended that you can be more coquettish to boys in life, reflecting the gentleness of girls, so that boys slowly open their hearts and start talking to you freely, and talk to you about some of the content you are very interested in.

On the contrary, if you are very strong in front of boys, the introverted personality will become more reticent under your control, and may even become a temperament.

I think this is a very normal reaction, if you are a man, he is very enthusiastic about you, but a little embarrassed, if you are a woman, very enthusiastic about you, you will feel that people have bad intentions, unless you like him, you will feel that he is cold, and mobile phone chat conveys feelings differently, can only account for about 10% of real feelings, are more.

This man is really awesome!

I don't feel a trace of warmth and enthusiasm, and the cold language and words are like robots.

Since his things are stored with someone else, how can he have such an attitude?

Gratitude and gratitude, there is no such word in him.

This doesn't mean that he is cold, maybe people are really busy and don't have much time.

I can't tell that he is cold, I can only say that he may be a little busy in the past two days.