Can you lend me a pair of wings and help my angel regain his self confidence? Help me!!!

Be clear about what you want most.

A fable tells that in the past, there were two identical stones on the same mountain, but after three years, they changed in a completely different way, one stone was admired and worshiped by many people, while the other stone was reviled by others. The stone said in a very unbalanced way

Dude, three years ago, we were the same rocks on the same mountain, and today there is such a big gap, and my heart is very painful. Another stone replied: Brother, do you remember Three years ago, a sculptor came, and you were afraid of the pain of a knife on your body, and you told him that you only need to carve you simply, and I imagined what the future would look like, and I didn't care about the pain of a knife on my body, so it was different today.

The difference between the two: one is focused on what is wanted, and the other is focused on what is feared. In the past few years, perhaps they were childhood friends, studied in the same school, served in the same army, and worked in the same unit, but after a few years, I found that my childhood partners, classmates, comrades-in-arms, and colleagues had changed, some of them had become "Buddha statue" stones, while others had become another stone.

How do you expect yourself to live in this world What kind of person do you want to be in the future What do you want most If you have a supercar without a steering wheel, even if it has the most powerful engine, you will still not know how to run **; In the same way, whether you want to have wealth, career, happiness, or something else, you must be clear about its direction. Why do I want to get it, and what kind of attitude and action will I take to get it? Dale Carnegie, the "father of life education," said, "Let us not look at the vague things in the distance, but the clear things around us." "Suppose God gives you a chance to choose five things you want today, and all of them make your dreams come true, what is the first thing you want If you had to choose one, what would you choose?

If your life is at stake, what is your biggest regret in life that you haven't done or haven't done? If you are given a chance to be born again, what do you want to do the most, and if you find what you want most, make it clear immediately, and clarity is power. It will be ingrained in your mind, imprinted in your mind, and let your subconscious mind help you achieve what you want.

There is nothing in this world that cannot be done, only the unthinkable, as long as you can think of it and make up your mind to do it, you will definitely get it.

See her more! What is distance?

When I was in college, my girlfriend and I were not at the same school, and it was very far away, so I often went to their school to see her, and basically didn't show up at my own school, and I didn't go to class or anything!

What are you afraid of, who cares about you in college!

Lad... There aren't many good people like you these days ...

It must be due to an illness, and it is better to see a doctor!!

I can introduce you to some of the books You Are the Strong, Be the Best of Your Own Parchment Roll A phrase that changes the world

Treat the disease first, and of course your care is also essential.

Well, I also want to help you I think maybe I'm also a girl, from this point of view, I think she may have no activities at school, a little empty, I also have this kind of time, find more things to do, don't let yourself be idle, maybe go back better!

She may have a mild depression and it is recommended to visit the brain hospital in her city.

Solve from keeping up! Know his headache.

To be honest, no one will inevitably fail, others see that I am living a very comfortable life now, but sometimes I still feel that I am just a failure, but I can't be disappointed in myself, even I look down on myself, who can pay attention to you? Usually have more energy, give people a positive and optimistic feeling, work seriously and rigorously, and believe that you will succeed

In a word, no self-confidence cultivates self-confidence. Learn to smile first. A smile is a source of self-confidence.

Learn to affirm yourself. I'm actually pretty good. What's wrong with being upright and upright?

If you can't live wonderfully, it's better to die. Your parents raised you so much and want you to be happy, so you must be confident in yourself. Don't think that the world wasn't created for me.

It's always been the world that has changed me and made me stronger. Mentality, change mentality. Think of it this way:

Maybe I'm just a speck of dust in this society, but I'm the whole world to those who care about me. Believe in yourself and find your own value. It's the value that counts.

There is also a goal, find a goal that you want to pursue her, because the goal is half of life, and there is no meaning without a goal.

To refine: it is nothing more than affirming yourself, reflecting your own value, changing your mentality, implementing your goals, and smiling!

Break down the goals and set their own material rewards for the achievement of each small goal.

1 can't say forget the past, at least face up to your past, everyone has a bumpy past, but the right treatment is wealth for you, not facing up to you is a burden, and the past doesn't need to be recalled. 1.You can give yourself a start every day.

Give yourself a chance and tell yourself that this is a new beginning and that you can be yourself again. 2.Communicate more with friends, socialize, and open your horizons.

3.Cultivating a hobby can regain self-confidence. 4.

No matter how much parents do to their children, it is also a love, no matter how immoral they are, they are also parents who gave birth to you and raised you, don't blame, don't feel inferior, change your mentality if you can't change the reality, self-confidence is easy, and it is also very important, with self-confidence you will have good luck. When you're not happy, exercise and open your heart. The sunshine of life can shine into your heart, and the smile full of sunshine has **, but you can rest assured, as long as you are aware of the problem, and you don't give up, one day you will become the person you want to be, come on!

Hello landlord.

Everyone will not be perfect, and imperfection is the reason why everyone is not confident.

So it's normal for a person to be unconfident.

So if you want to get rid of this state of self-pity.

I suggest you wake yourself up quickly and think about what you can do to improve yourself, starting with the easiest points to improve.

Get yourself moving.

Little by little, it is getting better.

It doesn't always mean that you will regain your self-confidence right away.

But if you have a small goal in mind and a direction, you won't be confused anymore.

First of all, you have to think that you are the best, you have to be confident in everything, start with simple little things, and give the best in everything, so that you will have a little self-confidence, and just accumulate it all the time, so that you will soon have self-confidence. If you have a question about the parents, you can ask again.

Find it with your heart. And keep working hard. Absolutely.

Discover your own strengths and do what you are strong at, you will find that you are more capable than others, and your self-confidence will gradually increase, mainly because you were often hit in the past, and now you lack encouragement, so you need more people to encourage you, say that you can, and talk to good friends more.

Hello, I am a confident, optimistic senior in high school. When I was just a freshman in high school, due to the unsatisfactory high school entrance examination, I went to a school I didn't like, and because of this, I didn't like my own class and my own teachers, and I even began to get tired of studying and was depressed. In the midterm exams, my grades were horribly low, and I was ranked very poorly in the school I looked down on, and I began to reflect on myself.

Everything I didn't do was as good as I was, because of my low self-esteem. Because I didn't get into the best high school in our city, I couldn't get into the best high school in our city, I despised my school because I despised my grades, I looked down on school because I looked down on myself.

After learning from the pain, I felt determined to recognize the current situation and work hard again. I try to understand the beauty of my teachers and classmates, discover their goodness, and no longer look at the students in the first middle school, but only focus on my own progress. In the second year of high school, I quickly caught up because of the good foundation.

Through my example, I think that the first step in finding self-confidence is to love the environment in which you live, and even if it is flawed and dissatisfying to you, you must use a loving heart to discover its beauty. At the same time, you should be kind to others, do your best to help others, and when others feel warm, the warmth will be returned to you. Over time, your optimism, positivity, and the trust that others have in you will make you feel confident.

Discover your strengths, even those that others don't seem to be useful.

Accomplish something, even the most insignificant, under your own strength, and once you succeed, you'll be more confident.

If there's something you haven't been doing well, stop and break him down into steps, one step at a time, and ask for help from others.

Confidence is always cultivated slowly, set yourself some easy-to-achieve goals first, and when you accomplish them, you will take a small step forward.

From self-confidence to non-confidence, from unconfidence to self-confidence - this is the trajectory and law of our psychological changes. There are two sides to our psyche at all times and in all places, but the other side is not revealed. It's not strange to say it's strange, it's really strange to say it's not strange, it's just that our spiritual wealth is in debt, and occasionally there is a little crisis.

The economic crisis can be seen, but the spiritual crisis cannot be seen! So it is often despised. The night has come, will the day be far away?

Low self-esteem has come, will self-confidence be far away? After the storm is the rainbow! This is the best way to reap happiness in life.

Happiness is a day, and so is sorrow. A bottle can be filled with honey or poison. A person's heart can pretend to be disappointed, but it can also pretend to be hopeful.

What is in the heart of man? The choice is yours! There are troubles every day, and if you don't pick them up, you won't have them.

If you can draw inferences, life will be a big place. Take inferiority complex as a hurdle for long-distance running, as long as you have it, life will be more exciting. Learn from Liu Xiang, not afraid of pain, and run towards the ultimate goal!

The most fearful thing in life is that people are still alive, their self-confidence is dead, and they are tormented in pain every day. To see hope in adversity, most successful people grit their teeth and persist in moving forward when they are desperate. Life is about knowing yourself, changing yourself, appreciating yourself, and encouraging yourself!

Self-confidence is the driving force for rising up; Self-confidence is the driving force of life; Self-confidence is the medicine for a new life! Everyone comes to earth for a reason; Everyone is a masterpiece created by the sky; Every human being has endless treasures in life; Every human being has infinite value ......It's just that you can't see these treasures of life when you're confused. It's like a priceless gem buried in the sludge and its dazzling light is not visible.

Wishing you happiness and happiness, and when your self-confidence is re-established, the sun will be new every day!

Your esoteric question suddenly made me lose confidence.