Love is often defeated by reality, why is your love separated?

My love is because of distance.

And detached. Because we were in a long-distance relationship, it was difficult to maintain, and we ended up breaking up.

My love is because two people have different values in life, and they will always quarrel over a little thing.

The two of them should have also lost to reality, which is why we had a different place as an excuse at the time, but if there is a sufficient material basis, I don't think this will be the reason for the breakup at all.

My love was defeated because of money, and it was difficult to stick to love without money, and my parents couldn't accept finding a boyfriend with poor family conditions. After all, what you need to live a life is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

My love was also defeated by reality, because I didn't have enough financial strength in the relationship to give the other party a desired family.

It may be that you have high fantasies about this relationship, it may be that your expectations for each other are relatively high, but the other party makes you particularly disappointed, it may be that your parents do not agree with this relationship, it may be that the distance between the two people is relatively far, it may be that the door is not right, or there is no money.

It may be that the distance between them is relatively far away, it may be that the family does not agree, it may be that it lacks economic ** or material foundation, it may be because the two people are not firm, it may be that one party's fantasy of the other party is better, and it is difficult for the other party to achieve their ideal state.

The relationship between the two people is not particularly political, or they have encountered some problems in life, which have caused a lot of pressure, or they have been hindered a lot, so they will be defeated by reality.

The relationship between two people is not sincere enough, they have not encountered any difficulties when they are in love, they are beaten down by the economy, or they choose to let go because they are too tired in life.

Love is defeated by reality, and it has become an almost indisputable fact in today's society.

When we were young, we all felt the sacredness of love from the story of "Romeo and Juliet" and the legend of "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai".

For the sake of our so-called love, we can ignore it, we can break through all kinds of shackles of the world, just for pure love.

But when beautiful love finally exists in our lives in the form of marriage, love is like a soap bubble, which is burst.

Whether there is no real love in reality at all, or whether love is lost to reality, this is indeed a very worthwhile question.

In the past, the carriage was slow, and there was only enough love for one person in a lifetime, but now what is love? With the progress of the times, the differences between urban and rural areas, regional differences, the narrowing of family differences, and the broadness of the marriage system, love has also transitioned from the previous simplicity to the era when the weight of love is measured by economic foundation.

And the most important standard for building love is the car, house, and ticket in reality, it seems that with all this, it is equivalent to having love and marriage security.

What causes this kind of consciousness in people, in my opinion, is as follows:

First, the times are developing too fast, life is uncertain, there are many unstable factors, high housing prices, low income, resulting in many families may not be able to buy a house with all they have.

2. In today's society, there is a huge disparity between the rich and the poor, 80 percent of the wealth is in the hands of 20 percent of the people, the economy is in recession, and people generally feel that it is difficult to earn money.

Third, the pace of society is fast, prices are constantly shrinking, and the difficulties of life cannot meet the romantic attributes of love.

Fourth, the firewood, rice, oil, salt, and trivial life in the real marriage have made the two partners who had both longed for love completely disappointed in love.

The above points may be the real reason why love is defeated by reality!

Of course, there are also many loves in the world that still exist in real life in some form, such as the love of their parents, such as the old people in our lives who grow old together and love each other.

When love reaches a certain time, it will naturally transform into family affection, and the so-called "young couples, old companions" is also this truth.

From a broad point of view, when love is defeated by reality, this point of view is only a superficial understanding of love, and it can only be regarded as a step in the process of life.

From love to marriage, itself is a process from romance to reality, as long as we persist in this process, then love will appear in another form in our lives.

This is the stay after entering old age, accompaniment, dependence, someone stands at dusk with you, someone asks you porridge can be warm, isn't this the deepest love?

And whether love will be defeated by reality, this answer, I think everyone should be clear at a glance.