What do you think of people who are crazing for their presence in the freshman group?

Brushing your sense of existence is not necessarily because you are lonely inside, it may be because you are lacking in some places, and then you want to use your own sense of existence to cover these defects. You have to believe that the reason why people have different personalities is because there are certain differences in the environment. You don't think everyone who brushes up on their presence is ridiculous, maybe they are the ones who should care the most.

Presence is a need for everyone. Different people, in different ways, earn and create a presence for themselves. As long as you don't interfere with others, it's okay to "brush" as much as you want.

However, sometimes because I want to brush it, I can't find the content to send, and I feel anxious, so I need to adjust it myself.

A person's sense of existence is because he feels that he is not valued, and in his heart he longs to be noticed and recognized. This psychology is clearly the opposite of the psychology of the lonely.

I've had a similar experience. Our boss lady just likes to brush the sense of existence very much in life, and likes to update the status of the circle of friends very much. Now, it's relatively convergent, updating three or four states a day, and before it was a crazy swiping of more than a dozen a day.

I used to like to record my mood by posting statuses, but now I'm not in the mood at all. Usually, I am very busy at work, and I can't keep busy with my own affairs, so how can I still have a state of leisure and leisurely and a state of looking at other people's circle of friends. But after all, our boss wife started a company at home, and her life is as she pleases.

It's probably because the space is usually empty.,So it's always crazy to brush the dynamic to find a sense of existence.。

I've also brushed up on presence. I just want to win everyone's attention, and I have a somewhat sensationalist idea, which has nothing to do with loneliness. It's just a pure sense of existence, which is always ignored in the crowd, and it's a bit difficult for a person with a fiery heart to accept.

This kind of person has a dual character of loneliness, low self-esteem and pride, that is, conceit! I feel that I am very good, and no one really praises me for being very good, so I have to desperately swipe the screen, ask for a few likes, and satisfy my vanity! In short, this kind of person lacks love in his heart and has complex psychology.

When I was just in high school, the head teacher established a group of students in the class in order to make it more convenient for everyone to be informed. At first, there was almost no one in the group who spoke, but as long as someone started, there would be some people who would not listen to the group and increase their sense of presence at one time. I remember that there was a student in the class who was like this, he would talk a lot in the group every day and speak many times.

I think his performance is a sign of inferiority, so he always wants to stand out and express himself when he has the opportunity.

It is a kind of inferiority complex, and you need to gain a sense of existence by showing others your so-called strengths. I think that the sense of presence is directly proportional to the strength of the individual. Maybe you don't have any strength in your circle now, and no one cares about you if you don't listen to it.

But you think you are powerful, your expectations and strength are skewed, and you don't have many friends, you may feel that if you don't show off, you will be abandoned.

It's a very annoying feeling, these people post some inconsequential things all day long, which not only affects the quietness of other people's networks, but also makes others look very uncomfortable, which is really boring.

You will feel very bored, and at the same time, these people are also very boring, these people may have no one to chat, so send some ** in the group to express one thing that you may be bored.

I will feel very embarrassed for them, because they want to force their presence in the group, and I feel that this will make the people in the group very tired of him and feel sorry for them.

Those people are really boring, because I think they're really idle, always posting some irrelevant things in the group, I don't know what I thought was going on, and it turned out to be a bit annoying to some relatively idle people

I feel that these people are not interesting, and some groups are used to inform, if they have been grabbing the sense of existence in the group, it will make people feel particularly disgusted, in this way, people will feel very disgusted with his sense of existence, and they don't want to pay attention to him.

They may have a sense of belonging in life, so they want to force a sense of accomplishment in the virtual world, unfortunately, I think such people are a little pathetic, they are desperate for others to know their importance, so they lose themselves.

I think it's a very good behavior to have a group of people in the group who have a strong sense of presence, because such people will make a very deep impression on them, and I think they will give everyone not only the way they remember in their brains, but also the way they feel about their presence.

I think there are always some people in the group who have a strong sense of presence, which is really very annoying, because I think if what I, what you said makes sense, you don't need to brush the sense of existence at all, and the people with a sense of presence are really very annoying.

The reason why I hate ** is because the group is very active every day, and a lot of messages pop up, but they are all chatting with a few people, and it may be that just two people are chatting very high in the group, so why not go to private chats, I feel that their behavior is simply very disturbing other people's lives.

Last night, I read an article by Li Shanglong entitled "Only the Weak Brush Their Sense of Existence", he first used the performance of several youth representatives in "Let's Talk" to illustrate that "only the weak will brush their sense of existence in embarrassment", and then he used the story of a leader of the Ministry of Education and the president of the Communication University of China to prove that "the real sense of existence is not brushed out, but comes from a strong and confident heart".

I think such a person must be very unsatisfactory in ordinary life. Or is such a person, who must be very boring in life, so it will be like this.

Literally, he is here to find a sense of existence, and no one pays attention to him in reality.

I think this kind of person must have a certain purpose to do this, is his purpose to attract attention? Or is there something he can get out of it?

I think, first.

1. Showing off is also a disguised capital, and you need to be able to show off. Clause.

Second, it is true that showing off can inspire people's hearts and expand themselves; Clause.

3. Hypocritical ostentation is only a temporary light that will soon be extinguished; Clause.

Fourth, the show-off of love and dedication is occasionally used, but the persuasiveness and appeal are not strong. Clause.

Fifth, it is not a bad thing to love to confess and praise yourself, at least you want to improve your life value; Clause.

Sixth, maybe obscurity is true, I am me, and it is still me to show off.

I think those are young people, haha, when I was young, I always cared about other people's opinions, and I posted something in the hope of being recognized by others and longing for others' attention. Slowly, the circle of friends is getting less and less, because I know that there are not many people who care about your life, and I am paying more and more attention to my inner needs and more about my own opinions.

There must be a psychological reason behind such behavior, try to explain it. The first is the herd effect, in the era when everyone is brushing the circle of friends and showing the "sense of superiority", it seems that if you don't do something, you will be kept away. The second is the need to love and be loved in Maslow's hierarchy, that is, to be noticed and recognized by others, in the era of material development, the need for spiritual pursuit is far greater than the need for material (basic survival).

The third is the dependence on the Internet, I believe the subject has also felt very uncomfortable without the Internet, many people are brushing the circle of friends every day, Zhihu, Douban, etc. to kill time, the more time in contact, the more willing to participate in it, the probability of sending the state has been greatly improved.

Turnip greens, each with their own love. People who like to post on Moments tend to be more honest. Sometimes, we also learn about some of our friends' life trajectories through the circle of friends.

Some of the content they share, even if they don't like it, that's where people have fun. If you like it, you can brush it, and if you don't like it, you won't watch it. However, I hate the kind of behavior that asks you to vote, like, or bargain through friendship!

I feel that they lack love, people are always like this, the more they want to show off, the more they lack something. Maybe that's why he can only live in your circle of friends, because you are strangers, be yourself, don't envy others, maybe others also envy your life?

Always posting on Moments, always expressing your feelings and status, there may be some problems, maybe I hope more people will see it. If I feel that the impact is more "serious", I can choose to delete this friend, after all, it is not good because others affect my mood. We can't judge how others are, we can influence our mood and behavior.

Personally, I prefer to post a circle of friends, because I live a very good life, there is no special trouble, I have nothing to do and send a few pieces of chicken soup for the soul to refresh my mind, bask in the children, travel, mood or something to share with classmates and friends, everyone chats with each other, and it is also a good attitude towards life!

In my eyes, there are generally two kinds of people in life, one is the person with low self-esteem, that is, there is no ink in the stomach, and some small achievements have been made, so they will take out the small achievements all day long and brush up on the sense of superiority. There is also a kind of people who are really good people, worthy of those who are poor or very good, and it is a norm for them. You look at them talking about superiority, when in fact they're just talking about things that they think are commonplace.

Stretching In life, when we see those who are crazy about their superiority, we must especially correct our mentality. I think that in the face of those who are crazy about their sense of superiority, the most dignified mentality is not to hate, not to be jealous, but to maintain a heart to continue to work hard.

In fact, there seem to be some people around me who are crazy about their superiority. For example, a classmate in our class has a very rich family, and then he is quite capable and studies very well. In our eyes, when he speaks, he often talks about how rich his family is, how good he studies, and how strong his ability is, but compared with other people in our class, compared with better and better people, in fact, he is not as good as others.

I think this kind of person is the kind of person we call inferiority, although I don't know where his inferiority complex is.

Generally, this kind of person who likes to show off is a person who has no strength and is just a paper tiger. I think this kind of person is more pitiful, because he doesn't have a correct understanding of himself, or he is actually very depressed and unhappy in his heart, just pretending to be arrogant and arrogant on the surface.

But those who are really good, their excellence is just their normality, such as Jay Chou. He often holds concerts, sings on shows, and sings really well, can we say that he is binge-brushing up on superiority? No, that's just his norm.

People who brush up on superiority in life are estimated to become the target of many people's complaints, and everyone should want to block such people.

From a young age, we are taught to be humble, and not to be complacent, even if you stand on a height that no one else can match. said that Hu Ge, a person everyone knows, did not take on a large number of dramas and attend various activities because of the popularity of "Langya Bang", but chose to study abroad and suspended filming for a year. At the awards ceremony of the Golden Eagle Festival, Hu Ge won the highest award of "Best Actor", he said something deserved in the ear of Mr. Li Xuejian, he thought that he was not qualified to win this award, and Hu Ge's humility has always been in our eyes.

Compared with many popular traffic niches, Hua Dan, as soon as he became a little famous, he made sky-high film appointments, and used stand-ins and cutouts for filming, which was really disgusting.

Sometimes, I feel that people who are crazy about superiority in their lives are pitiful, and they just want to hide their loneliness in this way. Those who are really doing well do not need to show off, and such behavior can only show that they are not happy. Put away the sense of superiority in your heart and learn to be humble.

I don't like this kind of person at all, I think he shows us how good her own life is, showing his own superiority in front of all kinds of people, I think I look down on this kind of person, I think their life is too low-key. In fact, life is your own, so why should you show it in front of outsiders? It's good that you live your own good life, and there is no need to tell outsiders how well you live.

I also met such a person in my life, we were classmates, and I thought she was a good person at first. But after getting along, I gradually found that he likes to show off something. For example, when we talk about small things, she has to show how rich her family is and how well she lives.

Because girls, it's easy to discuss cosmetics, and what he often says is those cheap cosmetics, which I never use, and then I asked him what is your definition of cheap? She said that I never use the kind of cosmetics that cost one or two hundred yuan, because my ** is very sensitive, and I can't use those cosmetics.

Whether it is from the aspect of speaking and doing, it shows that she is super dazzling. brushed his superiority wildly, he must make others think that his family is very rich, and she is a very rich person. So gradually I hated him more and more, I think how can he be like this, if your family is really rich, is it not good for you to keep a low profile?

Is it necessary to say all of this? On the contrary, I think that is the same in his family, because the average person who loves to show off is really not very rich in his family, but the kind of person who doesn't love to show off so much, his low-key life, in fact, there is still money in the family.

I like people who don't have a sense of superiority and live their lives quietly and quietly. I think I have a good impression of such a person, and I think he must be a very good person to get along with.