Would you rather choose an older or younger one to marry? Why?

Well, I chose to be smaller than myself. I'm a year old but I was born in August and he was born in September. But his mental age is older than me, he is more like a boy in the late 80s, and my mental age is at most a high school student.

Basically, I can accept that I don't have the feeling of being controlled by my uncle, and I don't have that kind of father-love plot. The main reason is that the two people have a large mental age difference, and I have talked about the youngest before with 94 years. 93-94 is about the same psychological age as me, and there may not be much pressure to communicate together, but my parents don't agree that it is too young, so in the end I get married and choose a boy of the same age.

For me, boys who are mentally older, there may be some poor communication because everyone likes different things. The scope of life is different.,It's not easy to understand yourself when you're too old.,I'm okay.,But he doesn't know much about some things.,It's going to quarrel.。 On the contrary, the younger ones take more care of me, can speak sweetly, and prefer this kind of warmer boys, and the feeling of psychological age balance is more talkative.

If you are too old, there is still a generation gap. Even my sister in the building next door to me said that although she looks a little older and has talked about a boyfriend in his thirties, to be honest, if she gets married, she will find a boy who is at most a year older. The children we met at the beginning of the 90s were all looking for people of the same age, and they may not be too old to accept it.

Personally, I think it's still about meeting the right people. As long as it is in line with your three views, age is not a problem. The most important thing for two people to be together is to get along, regardless of age.

The person who thinks each other is right can be with him for a lifetime, and the person who is worthy of his love and trust. Age is only superficial. Different personal experiences will make people of the same age have different experiences and different mental ages:

Some people think that the older half of the other half will hurt people, mature and steady, and there is also a saying that the female junior holds the gold brick. No, that's not necessarily true! Some people who have not experienced ups and downs before, and some people who are not enterprising are not enterprising, his psychological age is generally much younger than his biological age, do you think you love him or he loves you when you look for such a person?

Nowadays, many people who have been pampered since childhood are very self-centered, thinking that all people and things revolve around themselves, and under normal circumstances, such people will pay very little for their other half. Some people think that the younger half of the other half will be more obedient and coquettish. At home, they are all spoiled by their parents and grandparents, which one is not very assertive?

Looking for a young one to find a puppy? Maybe it's a little wolf dog? Age is not a condition for choosing a significant other, as long as two people can live happily together more than anything else.

May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married, and the person who accompanies him through the rest of his life is the one in his original heart.

I don't think there is an absolute answer to this question, for example, before I met my husband, my standard was that I would never find someone older than myself, but after meeting him, these principles no longer exist. In the choice of love, maybe you won't mind finding a boyfriend younger than yourself, but love is not a game, as a girl you play, but you can't afford to hurt, once this relationship enters the palace of marriage, after the baptism of the years, in the end it is possible that this relationship can not continue because of the age gap, and in the end it is the girl who is hurt, not a momentary impulse when choosing love, but in order to let this love take root! Let this person grow old with you!

Of course, it's bigger than yourself Although I can't be called an uncle, I still feel more secure than my own talents. Find someone who is older than yourself, he has already walked the road you want to take, he can give you experience, take you to avoid the wrong way, he knows how to give you a sense of security after a thousand sails. The longer the wine lasts, the more mellow it becomes, and the older you get, the more attractive you become.

Personally, I like to be more mature, so my wife is older than me, and there are many benefits! Take my wife! First of all, in terms of makeup, mature women (my wife), she began to know how to take care of herself from the inside out, and the appearance of heavy makeup is becoming less and less, and they are more accustomed to facing life with their true selves, giving people a fresh, down-to-earth, elegant, and noble feeling.

Young girls like to put on makeup to be mature and beautiful, and even many girls don't go to see their boyfriends without makeup. In terms of living habits, the focus is on maintenance, and I am more and more accustomed to going to bed early and getting up early. They also like this way of beautifying themselves more and more, and the various benefits to the body are self-evident.

My wife drove me to bed early, but it didn't work, so I couldn't get busy! ）

In my first marriage, my wife was three years younger than me. I remember when I first got married, I didn't think about age at all. Because in my circle of friends, most of them have an age difference of plus or minus three years.

Either they are friends who have played since childhood, or they are former classmates and classmates. has an eye for each other, age is never a matter of consideration, they are all the same age, right? Before stepping into society, the subconscious will automatically exclude the development of friendship with some people who are too old or too young.

Later, in society, the reality is that these friends, colleagues, or business partners are contacted around work. Most of them are a bit competitive or utilitarian. Regardless of my age, I never thought about falling in love with a female colleague at work, and I never minded their age.

Generally, men like to find a wife who is a few years younger than themselves, but I don't think it matters how old they are. So the woman is a few years older than me, and I think it's acceptable, but the age difference is not too outrageous, and I think it's a bit bad if I'm more than five years old. Sometimes when I see a difference of more than 10 years between marriages, it feels like a generation apart, and I can't communicate.

For people with too much age difference in marriage, differences in ideology and living habits will cause more contradictions in life, which is not conducive to the stability and happiness of marriage. The fact that a marriage can be truly happy has little to do with the age gap.

The first base point, a man is a few years older, which is conducive to giving birth to a healthy baby.

Men also have the best age to have children, and if the husband is too old or too young, it will have an impact on having a healthy baby. Therefore, the woman is within 30 years old, and the man is in his thirties, which is the best time to give birth to a baby, which is conducive to giving birth to a smart and healthy baby.

The second point is that men's economic conditions are more stable and their family lives are happier.

If the husband is a little older, he is basically relatively stable in terms of work. Although the economic conditions of a family are not the only measure of quality of life, we should not forget that poor couples mourn everything. After all, we are all ordinary people, and no one can live without money.

Therefore, a stable job and economic income are the basic guarantees for a happy life.

Third, the husband is more responsible, and the marriage is more stable and happy.

When men are young, they are also more fun-loving. Men who get married relatively early, after marriage, if the mind of play does not change, the marriage is very unstable. Therefore, find an older man who is more mature in thinking, more responsible for the family, and knows how to feel sorry for and take care of his wife.

If a man wants to stabilize, it is the best age to get married. A man with a mature mind is suitable to be the father of your children.

Men generally choose to be similar to their own age, and they will generally find a few years younger than themselves, because women themselves mature earlier than men, women are a few years younger than men, and the two are stupid and have a similar psychological age, and they will be more harmonious together. Late accompaniment.

I will choose a woman who is less than me to marry, and I will not learn from a woman who is much less than me to marry, because I feel that although the two tenants are young, as long as there is not much difference in the age of the two people, there will be more common language. It's also easier to pretend to get along better.

It's possible, because in terms of love, age has never been a problem, but I also have the principle of self-discipline, and I will never look for the kind of woman who is too different from my age.

I will choose a woman younger than me to marry, because then I will have a stronger desire to protect her, cherish her, and take care of her. As long as the two people like each other, the age of the group is not a problem.

If there is a regret of the origin of the dust, I will definitely choose a woman younger than myself to marry, you are a little younger than yourself more youthful, more lively, more lovely, I will choose to choose the split sail to pamper Bichan her, take care of her.

No. Because accepting a marriage envy group younger than yourself means that you have to pay more to take care of each other, brother Sakura to love each other, and when you are a person who is not willing to love to give, you like yourself more and can enjoy being taken care of by the other party. Gesture.

And some boys will like to marry women younger than themselves, because they think it is normal for men to be older, while women are usually more gentle than the rotten and gentle birds.

Basically, men will choose a girl with a small mold on the nose and a base beam to get married. Because of this kind of man, he will have a sense of conquest and achievement, and will protect girls younger than himself.

Generally speaking, as a boy, most of them will choose a girl younger than him to marry, which may have something to do with our traditional thinking.

I'm an adult male myself. Of course I will choose a woman younger than me to marry, God Li Tang!

This is a very normal marriage choice! What's more, in the tour group, most of the marriages that disturb the points are a little older than the woman.

Yes, sometimes it's not normal for a rock woman who is younger than herself to get married, because as long as you like the spring or the woman is willing to marry you and marry yourself, this kind of feeling is just going with the flow.

Yes. Young people need to be more cautious and wide to take care of me, mature women are too realistic, few men can withstand it, so the sedan chair and young girls live together, and life will be smoother.

I would choose a woman younger than me to marry. If it's a woman older than me, she will always think that I'm not mature enough, so it will make me lack confidence in myself.

Yes, because young age does not mean that this person is young, her mind is small, and the heart of the average girl is three years more mature than the boy Luqiao Slim, so I think even if she is a little smaller, it doesn't care about the Chinese system.

You will choose a woman younger than me to marry, so that I can better protect her and make me work harder.

Of course I would choose a woman younger than me to marry!

This is because all the married couples around me in the source of the gods are all older than women, and none of them are older than men.

Age is not a problem, as long as the relationship between two people is relatively rough and exciting, then it can be accepted. The two of them are talking about feelings together, and age is not as important as old bent socks.

I will choose a woman younger than me to marry, because such girls are more lively, and very cheerful, and they are very interesting together.

I will choose, as long as the relationship between two people is good, I don't think age is a problem, young women are more interesting.

Of course, I will choose, because in this way I can take care of each other, and I will also make the other party feel safe enough.

Yes, I will choose a woman younger than me to marry, because a younger woman is more gentle and considerate, and then she is still young.

I definitely want to choose a woman younger than me to marry, because women are smaller than me and look young, simple and cute.

There is still a market. Girls are also more inclined to find mature men. Because that kind of man will give people a lot of security.

And the economic strength is sufficient. Therefore, older male artists will have a better market to target. But that's not the case with female entertainers.

As they get older, if they don't accept their age well. Wear very gentle clothes and you will look old. Few female artists can age and become elegant.

Because they have been beautiful all their lives. Can't stand getting old.

It has nothing to do with age, but she doesn't love this woman. If you really love her, you will do your best to put up with her. If you don't love her, even if she's in good shape, she won't aim to get married.

It's okay to fall in love, but be careful when getting married. Love knows no age, geography, or even gender. As long as two people invest hard, this feeling is uncontrollable.

But imagine what would be left if the passion of love burned, and what would be left if the enthusiasm of life calmed down.

You can think about it first and then say whether you want to get married or not. At the same time, if others say it well, you will also have good and bad. If you want to, you know that if you're him, you can try.

All in all, your choice depends on your type. Don't care what other people think. If you think it's valuable, drop everything and enjoy life.

It's your own, not for others to see. Even if you are talked about by others, as long as you are happy, it is a good thing.

Whether a man is in a relationship with a young woman or married, he doesn't have to worry too much. Young women are mostly single. Because young women have no experience in love, some men are robbed of the opportunity by previous women and occupy them, and young women are not liked by others.

They like young men as much as they like women. As the saying goes, turnips and cabbage have their own love. As long as they suit themselves and truly love them, what's wrong with being young.