My boyfriend has been talking to his college girlfriend for four years, why did he break up because

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You shouldn't be happy, landlord.

    Sorry to say that, landlord.

    It's not that I want to hit you, it's that I'm afraid that you'll suffer in the future.

    Of course, we don't know your specific situation, hehe.

    If their personalities are obviously not as suitable as the two of you.

    If their upbringing, thoughts, family environment, and prospects are obviously not as good as yours.

    Then your union will be logical.

    Anyway.

    I wish you happiness

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because your boyfriend is such a person.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because that's who he is.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I feel like I'm seeing you, the environment is right, I feel right. Don't look for you, look for that.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't know what kind of person he is, but I'm sure he's a selfish person! Maybe he doesn't have such a deep relationship with his girlfriend as you said, maybe four years of college is lonely, two people can warm each other together, four years so long he understands her, understands her body, no freshness, no feelings, it's normal! He doesn't want to be alone, he's used to two people, he's waiting, waiting for another girl to break in, so he can let go of the new one, so you don't feel like it's going well, it's a trap that the hunter has already set up waiting for you!

    Hehe, this is just my guess.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Personally, I think there are two reasons:

    1.Your boyfriend likes you more than his former girlfriend.

    2.You look prettier than his previous girlfriend, and your boyfriend is very attentive, and if you don't meet a more beautiful person in the future, he will leave.

    Pure personal speculation, no malice!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, you have to believe in fate, maybe you like each other very much, but it is in vain to have fate, there is nothing to be reluctant to give, maybe separation is the best choice, to remember: the road taken, the things experienced, the people encountered, the regrets left, are all should be experienced, right and wrong can not be helped, gathering and scattering is not up to people, do not have to be sad, the mountains and rivers are a journey, each has a destiny. Secondly, time will prove that everything is like a stove, no matter how much obsession you have for a person, you can't stand time, who cares about you when you are uncomfortable.

    Be yourself, dress up well, and there will definitely be a better life waiting for you.

    Finally, have an optimistic mindset. It's more regrettable than liking but not being together, and you breaking up when you're together. It's enough for you to be together and have good memories, the adult world needs decency and relief!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, Zhen Yinkai, you broke up with your boyfriend who was in love with the princess in college, this is normal, in fact, many people will break up in college when they fall in love, because it is difficult for people who are not in the same place to stay together for a long time, and there is a great chance of a long-distance relationship breaking up in the end.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I broke up with my boyfriend who fell in love with college, and I still have some entanglements in my heart. I broke up with my boyfriend in college, and I broke up with my boyfriend during the summer vacation instead of dragging the hatred behind. If you break up with your boyfriend, you have to face it with gratitude, try to work in the same city as your boyfriend, and break up with your boyfriend in the college entrance examination, so you don't need to care too much about separation.

    The cost of living and tuition for college as a boyfriend mainly depends on your own eyes! The ability to judge things makes me determined to break up with my boyfriend. Judging from the eight characters, you are in the same class with your boyfriend, and at the same time you are in love with someone else, so as to avoid the pain of struggling or getting lost in love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1.Don't fall in love with someone who is far away from your family. I've always felt very accommodating, but when I ate white rice in the morning at my ex-boyfriend's house, I had a hard time swallowing.

    Because we have a full variety of breakfast here, I haven't eaten breakfast for more than 20 years and eat rice. His mother told me to put some boiling water if I couldn't eat it. And when you get married, you will realize that the social connections of the locals in the city will make you feel helpless when you just leave school, and sometimes even help you.

    However, I also don't recommend that you purely look at the conditions, many people with good conditions are very proud, and they look down on the object in their hearts. Not cost-effective.

    2.Don't look for people who aren't positive. When you are a student, you will think that it is fun to be a person who does not work hard every day, but after graduation, there is a high probability that the mud will not be able to support the wall. In order to avoid encountering this kind of person, don't look for it from the beginning, so that people don't say that I haven't changed, but you have changed.

    I'm going to go into a little more detail about this.

    Don't look for the kind of man who will especially show fitness and study in the circle of friends, I have met one, let's put it this way, others work so hard to fitness, take pictures and retouch, not for you as a woman.

    Many boys who look ordinary are actually very hard-working and need to understand them in detail. It's best to go to the library often to observe which people have almost the same goals from freshman to senior, don't look for the kind of people who want to take the graduate school entrance examination in the freshman year, want to take the civil service exam in the sophomore year, say they want to take the teacher exam in the junior year, and submit their resumes in the senior year, of course, if they are all successful, you can find them.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's normal for two people to fall in love and break up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Find out why your boyfriend will bring up the breakup.

    There must be a reason why the boyfriend will propose to break up, and if he doesn't know it at this time, then it will be difficult to get back to the other party. Therefore, you must calm down and think about why the other party wants to break up with you and whose reason it is. If it's your own reason, what should you do, these are all things to think about, as long as you think about the problem clearly, you can take corrective action, and only then can your boyfriend turn back.

    Change your personality.

    Some girls have a bad temper and like to be angry with their boyfriends. When two people first dated, boys will be very tolerant of themselves, but as time goes by, after the relationship between the two people is stable, boys are not as considerate to girls as before, so many girls will lose their temper indiscriminately, and if boys can't stand it, they will naturally choose to break up. If you still want to win back your boyfriend, then you need to change your personality and not be very demanding of the other person.

    Improve your dressing taste.

    Of course, sometimes the boyfriend will propose to break up not because of the girl's temper, but also for other reasons. As a girl, you must let yourself live a wonderful life, so that more boys can like it, and don't let yourself be too sad about emotional things, which is very bad for yourself. Know how to dress yourself from the outside, so that you can be more beautiful, boys like beautiful things, as long as you are attractive enough, then your boyfriend will come back.

    Improve your inner self-cultivation.

    As a girl, you must not only be beautiful on the outside, but also on the inside, so that you can make your boyfriend regret it and then pursue herself in turn. The improvement of inner cultivation requires a process, and you should read more books and learn more about how to be a more beautiful woman, so that your boyfriend will regret it. When a woman is internally improved, she will naturally be able to attract the attention of more men, and her vision will not be very short-sighted, and she will not let go of those who have no fate.

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