I never order food when I go out to eat, I always let others order it, isn t that very unassertive?

I think that when you go out to eat, you have never taken the initiative to order, you have never taken the initiative to order, you are always asked to order, I don't think you can say that you have no assertiveness at this time, it may be that you feel very inferior, you have never been rich, and you have never taken the initiative to invite others to eat for me, so sometimes I take the initiative to like, a little embarrassed. When eating, you have the initiative to order food, so that you can be particularly generous, I think you can invite others to eat a few more meals, and when you eat, you can count the accounts a few more times, I think the next time you order food at dinner, you will have the initiative, and you will be embarrassed to open your mouth. So when you say what you do, first of all, you should take the initiative to pay first, and then you can give me the qualification to do something, if you never pay, and take the initiative to eat other people's things, I think it's not easy to say.

Not necessarily, it's also a sign of politeness, you can also try to order food, it's normal, there's nothing particularly bad about it.

This is not to say that you are not assertive, maybe you are an introvert and don't like to come forward, and this is a kind of politeness! Just let someone else order and do whatever you want. My girlfriend is very dependent on me, and every time she eats, she says it's okay, whatever, the same dish as me, what if she doesn't have an opinion?

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You are a person who does things unassumingly. Think for others. Do things with respect for their ideas. That's good. That doesn't mean you're not an opinionated person. Whether you are assertive or not depends on how well you deal with problems.

If you don't want to order it, you won't order it, so you may not have your favorite dishes. This is a reflection of your lack of opinion to a certain extent, but it also reflects that you are very respectful of others.

Sometimes it means that you are very humble and you don't want to order, but sometimes it does mean that you may not know much about anything, you don't have much knowledge, and you don't have an opinion.

This is not entirely unassertive. It can only be said that you are thinking about others everywhere.

Yes, you have to try to learn how to order food and be assertive.

You're the same as me, I'm like this when I go out, I never order what others eat, I can do it, I don't pick, I think it's very easygoing.

It's not necessarily that you're more polite, so you always ask someone to order.

When you go out to eat, it depends on what kind of friends you are with, and ordering a proper dish is also a kind of respect for the guest.

In fact, this approach can also be thought of in a different way of thinking, indicating that you are a kinder person and will be very polite to others.

Such a character is still good.

Since it is said that someone else has a treat, then we go to eat for nothing, people don't let us order, they don't let us order, I personally feel that this is a matter of indifference, since we eat for nothing, do I still pick and choose? If I have a strong self-esteem, I may feel that it is disrespectful to me that others do not let me order food, but I think that since I eat for nothing, why be so hypocritical?

1. Treat others and respect others' practices

Looking at the strange and said, Fu Seoul said that if there are big money, ** doctors, and elementary school class teachers among the classmates, then they must climb over, because I don't need to take money when I eat and check out, and I can go here to establish a relationship, which is a very meaningful thing for me, so I can go to the class reunion sometimes. When others invite guests to dinner, it is okay to respect other people's opinions. Others spend money to entertain guests, we just go to participate, go to eat for nothing, what is there to be hypocritical!

2. I don't need to spend a penny, and it doesn't matter if I don't ask me to order

Since I say that others have a treat, I just go to have a meal, and I eat whatever others order, and it doesn't cost me a penny anyway. Fu Seoul said in the strange story, we can be thick-skinned. What's the use of being thin-skinned, everyone else has a treat, others take money, spend other people's money, we can go to eat with our mouths, what if you don't invite us to order?

Some troubles are created by oneself, and some troubles are imagined by oneself, and when someone invites us to dinner, it means that he has us in his eyes. He didn't let us order, maybe he had already ordered, or we didn't know how to order ourselves, his taste is similar to ours, so don't worry too much about the little things. That will make people feel disgusted with us, do you want to attend the next party?

I would think that either the person who was inviting me didn't really want to invite me to dinner, or that he didn't respect people at all, and that he was used to being the only one in the family.

Generally, when someone invites you to dinner, it is a sign of respect for you to let you order your own food. Once someone treats you and doesn't let you order your own food, then you will feel that the other party does not respect you, and you will have very unpleasant emotions, and you will even wonder if he has some opinions about yourself.

It's like a controlled child who can't express the will in his heart, and it's really very uncomfortable, and he feels a painful feeling in his heart.

Anyone who didn't let Lao Tzu order was cut off.

The third feeling is that I am too self-righteous and do not take the people I am invited to account. If this person genuinely invites someone to dinner, he will definitely respect his friend's opinion and order the food, rather than ordering the dish in advance. Because in the process of ordering food, it is also a form of social expression.

You can see the character and the grade of your friends in the process of ordering. So those who order the dishes in advance really don't know if their emotional intelligence is really low, or if they have other purposes. It will make the person being entertained feel that his purpose is not pure.

I feel a little uncomfortable, but I have to think that after all, it is someone else's treat, and it is okay for him to order, maybe he knows what specialties this restaurant wants to recommend to you.

It's awkward, and I feel that the other party is not very sincere, so it becomes a very unpleasant meal. If it's a dish you like, it's fine, but if you don't like it, it's embarrassing.

I didn't feel respected at all, and I really wanted to leave at that time, and I didn't want to eat this meal anymore, but I was not too embarrassed.

This feeling is a little uncomfortable, after all, the guest should be happy to eat, and if you don't let the order, you feel that the person who treats me is afraid that the food I order is too expensive, and I am afraid that I will spend money to have this kind of thought.