I ve been particularly hated studying lately, what should I do?

Very annoying? You can find some interesting topics to do.

Language, for example, look at the funny little essays, the writer and the mosquito, a comma (these are some little stories about punctuation), and these stories are very short, but they are very insightful.

Mathematics: You can find some interesting topics that are similar to those in textbooks, and we teachers often find such problems to tell us, which is both fun and knowledgeable

English This is very fun, I like English the most, such as practicing speaking, what did you do? Practice every day, and slowly you will find that learning is actually fun

You can communicate with classmates, master some good study methods, practice the piano when you are tired of studying, surf the Internet, or go out to see the green, and achieve a combination of work and rest

And I'm not very good at saying that this is my own method of learning

No one wants to learn without motivation.

And learning is so boring and hard!

I often say a simple sentence to my children: "Do you want to live a luxurious life in the future?" Then study hard now, only by studying hard can you have the opportunity to live a luxurious life, otherwise you will not even have a chance".

It's because of too much pressure, you can relax, and then calm down and immerse yourself in the learning environment... Another possibility is about the environment around you. Could it be that there are some things around you that attract you too much, which causes you to be averse to learning, so that your attitude towards learning has changed from a matter of course to having to be... Try to change

To be honest, in my opinion, I don't think the methods that others say are very practical, but for me personally! If you feel the same as me, then you force yourself to learn when you study, you must be patient, although there is some masochism, but when you devote yourself to it, you will forget the pain. In fact, people have their strengths and weaknesses, maybe you don't want to learn, but you have no choice, then hint at yourself!

Psychological Analysis: 1. Your Inner Contradictions and Conflicts I see that you really hate to study, and you really want to learn, which is your inner tendency to avoid contradictions and conflicts. Your dad said that your illness affected your studies and spent money, he kept blaming and complaining, so that you had to relate all this to studying, you think it was because you had to study to make your family relationship bad, so that you got sick and delayed**, let your father blame and blame you, so you have a sense of disgust for studying.

Because you can't allow yourself to hate your father and mother who are good to you, then your anger and depression need to have an outlet, learning is a suitable scapegoat, maybe you think that if you don't study, you won't be sick, and you won't have the blame and blame of your family, everything is good, everything is the fault of learning. I understand how you love and hate learning, learning itself is your own business, and it is a path to put effort into for your own life. But on the road to learning, because your parents are too reckless or value the study itself, and neglect your physical and mental health, you have paid too much price, your illness has been delayed, and you can't sleep well and socialize.

Later, you also had serious physical discomfort, and once again you were not valued and cared for by your father, but you were also complained that you should not be sick, and you spent money and delayed your studies, making you feel that the meaning of life is to study, otherwise you will have no value in making a scene, and you will not even be allowed to see a doctor when you are sick. 2. Learn nonviolent communication and express your heart The subject has a lot of anger and sadness suppressed in his heart, and they all need to be vented, Marshall? Luxembourg's book "Nonviolent Communication", I recommend you to read it.

Practice expressing your feelings, needs, and requests, and it's important for you to have an outlet for your emotions, start by practicing talking to yourself "What I observed happened, what thoughts and feelings I have, what needs I have, what requests I can make to myself". Practice nonviolent communication with yourself, and then apply this communication method to your parents. Whenever negative emotions come, experience the changes in your body, which part of your body is uncomfortable, describe it with one or several emotional words, and then feel your negative emotions with your heart, accept them, observe your emotions without judgment, and write down your thoughts and feelings about emotions, which will help you improve your self-awareness and relieve negative emotional pressure.

Take care of your emotions first, you can usually do mindfulness meditation, outdoor sports, follow the ** dance, and write emotional records every day, which can help you manage your emotions. If you really want to learn, focus on learning, and eventually learn what you learn is your own, and others can't have your efforts. There is nothing wrong with learning itself, it is the family's neglect of you that contrasts strongly with the importance of learning, and you feel that you can only be valued in learning, and this value condition makes you feel bored.

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Learning is a natural thing, we have to learn every day, whether we are students or not, this is the foundation of our existence in the world as intelligent beings, and if we don't learn, we will be abandoned by the times,。。 However, learning is not an easy thing, because learning always learns something unknown, whether it is an unknown rule set by an unknown person, or an objective law of the unknown natural world; These unknowns are not always what we imagined, which is why we always get it wrong because we think it wrong. That is to say, learning is for the purpose of changing one's cognition and becoming more adaptable to the world, and it is not always possible to be happy to cater to the song.

Of course, the world doesn't care what people think, and objective facts don't shift by people's thoughts (the practice after learning is to change the world with one's own purpose, that's another matter). However, learning is also happy, if you find that the world is very cognitive, you will feel that learning will come naturally, and then the practice of changing the world after learning is also happy, and you have left your own traces in the world.

As for the annoyance, I don't understand this either. It may be that you are under pressure, you can't do it yourself, and you feel that you have tried your best and failed to meet your expectations, so you may hate and fear it; It may also feel too simple (???) false); It could also be.

It is recommended to ask teachers and parents to communicate with each other about the learning process and find out why you hate it. Of course, there may be some differences in each other's views on the concept of learning, after all, life experiences are different, and sometimes it is difficult for parents to understand. After all, parents are also learning how to teach their children (laughing and crying), and they may also make mistakes.

If you are a busy student, interest in learning is not innate, it is gradually formed in the learning process. To increase your interest in learning, here are some ideas for you::

1. Gain a sense of achievement and satisfaction in learning. Mastering a scientific and efficient learning method is the key, in the process of learning, if the method is not appropriate, the learning is seriously frustrated, and there will be more and more disinterest, and even annoying emotions.

2. Take the initiative in learning, communicate and discuss with teachers and classmates in the process of learning, and cultivate interest in self-learning. Knowledge should complement each other, ideas should resonate, and learning and discussion are also very important, which can not only enliven the learning atmosphere and concentrate attention, but also enable students to exchange information and adjust their thinking.

3. Recognize the importance of learning, set a goal for yourself, and make continuous adjustments and improvements. Use various methods such as incentives and rewards to implement and complete plans and develop study habits.

The process of cultivating interest in learning is also a process of self-learning, taking the initiative to learn, and finding happiness from learning, so that interest in learning will be slowly cultivated.

First find out why you hate studying, is it because of the drop in grades? Or was it criticized by the teacher? Or did you have a conflict with your classmates?

Or because of family reasons, if you hate learning because of the decline in grades, it is recommended that you can find a learning method that suits you, learning is a slow process, you need to persevere, if you are criticized by the teacher, it is recommended that you can adjust your mentality, or find the teacher to have a good chat, if there is a conflict with classmates do not know what to do, you can find teachers or parents for help, if it is family reasons, it is recommended to talk to your parents and tell them what you think, Find out the reason why you hate learning, Kezhen Education hopes to help you!

Learning can be learned in different ways, you can usually participate in interest groups, learn together with classmates and partners, communicate and help each other, so that people's mentality and emotions will be relaxed, you can also participate in some recreational activities, adjust the rigid learning mode, exercise, listening is also a good way to relax, help to learn motivation.