Which should come first, love or career?

If you let Xiao choose, Xiao Ke will feel career.

Xiao can give an example, two examples, first of all, let's talk about love first, if love first, then when you are still just a small ordinary employee, the object you are looking for must be a level with you, that is, the other party may also be an ordinary employee, at this time, you can't get in touch with excellent people, and this ordinary boy may be the best person around you, so you can only choose him.

And when you choose love, then you start to work hard, and when you succeed in your work, you may not look down on the ordinary boyfriend at this time, because your eyes are opened, you see more excellent people, you yourself are excellent, there will be many excellent people like you around you, and at this time you will feel that your current boyfriend, he is not the right person for you. At this point, you may be undecided whether to break up or continue, but eventually you will choose to break up.

Second, choose the case of your career first. If you choose your career first, then you will not be distracted by the love around you, you will put all your energy into work, and you will be more likely to succeed than others, and you will be better than others.

When you are successful and excellent, the friends around you must be some excellent people, at this time, you have experienced from ordinary to success, more mature in mind, you know more about what you want, what kind of talent is more suitable for you, and it is easier for you to find the right person.

So Xiao Ke can say that choose a career first, because if you choose love, then this love will slow down your time to success, and when you succeed, you may not look down on this person at this time, people's horizons are broadened, and the person you like is different, at this time he is the best person, but when you stand at a higher level, you feel that he is so ordinary.

If it were me, it should be the career first, although some people say that starting a family first is starting a business, in fact, starting a family represents responsibility, and it means that you have to take care of more than just you.

If it's not the right person, the person you are destined to be, falling in love is a waste of time, energy, and money, and when you are in love, others are working hard and others are moving forward, you can only look up to the height of others. <>

If I do meet the person I think at a glance is the person I'm looking for, I'll also put my career in the back row for love.

But the probability of such a thing happening is 1 in 10,000, that is, the probability is so low that it is disappointing, in this case, then devote yourself to the cause, no matter how long, no matter how far away, the one who really belongs to you will definitely appear.

Women in love have a very low IQ, and sometimes boys are a little better, but girls are different. Maybe for a boy, falling in love will make him more motivated and focused in his career.

This is just a small number of people, if two people quarrel, or something happens to your girlfriend, and you take a list about your fate in this company, who will you choose, some people may swear that girlfriend, but when you really make a choice, it is still work. That would hurt a girl's heart.

You may say that she should be considerate of me if she loves me, but have you ever thought about how urgent a situation can be when a girl really needs you?

There are also girls, girls who are in love will become suspicious, become less shrewd than before, will have a lot of things to worry about, and will not have much energy to focus on their careers.

Standing on the side of girls, I think that career is in front of love, behind every successful boy there is a woman who pays silently, and behind a successful woman, you may say that there are many men, there may be such girls, but more than boys pay more energy.

Commonly known as a female man, which successful girl is not single, that is, because she can experience this hardship, so she does not want her object to quarrel with herself because of her career, thus hurting the feelings of two people, it is better to work hard alone.

In our lives, in addition to being able to give us spiritual satisfaction, love does not have much impact on our material life. It can be said that love is not everything in our lives, and that having love may only be spiritually pleasurable. Love cannot eliminate hunger, poverty, or cold.

Our food, clothing, shelter and transportation cannot be provided by love.

When a person can't even solve the most basic problem of food and clothing, what can he talk about love? We are alive in this world, and if we want to live, we have to work. Only when we are well fed and warm, and we do not feel cold and hungry, will we feel empty on a spiritual level.

That's when we think about falling in love. When the material level is satisfied, the spiritual satisfaction will be sought.

Career can be said to be the foundation of our survival, and everything we need can be obtained through career. If we work hard, we will have money and capital, and then we can go and develop. Go buy good food, go buy beautiful clothes, go live in a big house, go on a trip, go shopping, do something that you can do with money.

Career success is especially helpful for us, and we can solve many of our needs from our career, whether it is spiritual or material.

The view of the ancients was to start a family first and then start a business, but in this era, it should be a business first and then a family. Because only if we have a successful career, we can support a family. So in my opinion, career is more important than love.

In fact, the two are not in conflict, real love is that two people will fight together for their common life and run towards a better tomorrow together. So career and love are not completely in conflict. But no matter what, there are many more things that business can solve for us

Personally, I believe that the career should come first. Career can guarantee our lives, or bring us a better life. Without a career, nothing else will go well, and a career is the foundation.

Love is an accessory to life, while career is a necessity of life. Especially for boys, girls are basically reluctant to find a guy who doesn't have a career, which is too risky.

Love is for marriage, marriage needs a material foundation, where do these material foundations come from? Part of it is from parents, and the other part is on your own. After getting married, people are more willing to find a husband with a good career, which has nothing to do with power.

Everyone wants to live a good life, and ordinary people will choose to have a career. If you don't have a career, how do you support this family?

Of course, we are generally in our twenties when we are in love, and it is a bit too early to talk about careers. But 20-year-old boys, you have to be fighting and self-motivated. You can't get by, so that your future life will not be good, first sweet will inevitably be bitter, God is fair.

You may not have a successful career, but what about your self-motivation? Lost in the game? How sad.

Not only boys, but also girls should be ambitious. Love is not everything, only career will not abandon you. If you are a girl who wants what you want and what you can give yourself, then there will be no dilemma of marrying love or marrying material.

No matter when, career should come before love. Don't plunge headlong into love and become irrational. If you don't have a career, how can you love each other?

On this issue, I don't think everyone has a coherent relationship with this kind of problem. Because these two things are the two most important things in our lives. I don't think anyone would make a coherence between it, right?

Of course, for some people, there is a difference between love and career, and of course I think this thing is divided into age groups. If we're a high school student, I think yours. Career should come first, love should come later, and our high school career should be our academics.

The most important thing for us high school students is our academics, so most students should put their academics before we fall in love. Only when we achieve success in our career can we develop our career in the future. <>

If you're a college student, I think our relationship and career should develop at the same time. Because college is the most sensitive period of our youth, I think it's a pity that I don't fall in love in college. So, if you are in college, I think our love and career should develop at the same time, I think in this way, you can not only achieve something on your love path, but also in your career.

Because college is supposed to be a turning point in our lives, we feel that we should break through in some aspects.

If you are a person who has already been employed, I think we should first get our career up so that we can develop on the road of our love, after all, you have already been employed, if you put these things in the top priority of your life, then it will be difficult for you to develop in this career.

Of course, this is just my personal opinion, and everyone's opinion is different.

Look at your choice, some people give up love for their careers, and some people give up their careers for love. There is no right or wrong choice of whatever. Some people think that career is more important, only with a career will there be better love, as the saying goes, life needs love and bread, and none of them will work.

And some boys will feel that their careers are more important, after all, they are still young. Some people and some boys always hope that they will fall in love again when their careers are successful. Because in this way, he will feel that he can give the person he loves what he wants, and he can give his lover happiness.

But in fact, many girls are willing to accompany us to work hard and succeed together.

In my eyes, love is more important than career. As long as you work hard for your career, there will always be something in the end. And love is often missed, it is missed, and it can never return to its original state.

Again, everyone has their own choice. Everyone has to pay the price for their choices, some people give up the opportunity to study abroad for love, and some people tear off the bonds of love in order to go their own way. <>

In fact, which boy doesn't want to meet his other half when he can hold up a piece of the sky, in reality, we often meet their lovers when they don't have the financial ability, and they don't have the right to choose, but they can only say something about the so-called future. Many people work hard to earn money for their wives and children, and many abandon their wives and children when they have money. Sometimes money is more reliable than love, so people have their own ambitions, no matter what choice you make, it is right, as long as you have your own ideas, no matter what you choose first, you can be happy in the end.

Love and career are very important in our lives, so I think different people have different ideas about this issue, and it varies from person to person, so it is still necessary to analyze the specific situation.

I'm a girl myself, and I think my career is a little bit more important to me now. Because I have not fought for my ideals in my early twenties, and I have not left some achievements on my own life path, I always feel unsteady, I have so many opportunities, and I am still young, of course I want to be able to achieve something in my career. In contrast, of course, love also hopes to be happy, but if it conflicts with my career, I should prefer more career, after all, love can't be eaten, or need a certain material foundation, if I choose love, then I will wander on the streets.

Of course, I also said that this thing varies from person to person, like if you reach a certain stage, your career has almost reached a good height, and your material life is not bad, if you meet a good love at this time, then choose to grasp it. Because no matter how much time you spend in your career, you can't reach a stage where you are satisfied and experience happiness in life, people still need the nourishment of love, you can't be lonely for a lifetime and only struggle for your career, so that life is not interesting. So if you feel that your career is not bad and the economic conditions are okay, why not cherish it when you meet a good relationship?

For example, one of my junior high school classmates gave up all his struggle for love in his teens, gave birth to a child and got married in his teens, and completely gave up his career, and the result was unsatisfactory. Because she is still so young, she is not financially independent, she has no savings and no ability, how can she give up the struggle and choose love completely, so of course there will be no good results in the end.

In short, different people of different ages will have different choices on this issue, and others cannot say who is right and who is wrong, because only the person concerned understands whether this choice is right or wrong. If you want a stable family, you choose to fall in love, and if you want to achieve success in your ideals, you choose a career, no one is right or wrong, it is only about your own heart.