Do you want to throw away the items left by your ex?

<>I don't usually throw it, this kind of thing varies from person to person, and how to do it depends entirely on your psychological capacity. Personally, I think boys will be better than girls, and they won't be so extreme and throw them all away, especially like me, as long as it's not waste, keep it and treat it as your own. Girls are different, it's very interesting, I'm inexplicably sad when I see my ex's things, I recall a lot of these things, and then I go up, throw away all the useful and useless, send a circle of friends, cut off the past, may the world be gentle with these words, if you just graduated from college, or know a lot of seniors and seniors, a month before and after graduation, carefully go through the circle of friends, probably this content, the same.

If you're in school, it's more interesting, you can see a lot of boys, who have nothing to love and take a rag doll, drifting bottles, crystal bottles, all kinds of feminine decorations, which are all graduation breakups to get things from your girlfriend, and then you basically don't throw them away when you get to the dormitory, some stay for your own use, some stay for your next girlfriend, or younger brothers and sisters, this is what I have seen with my own eyes, so female compatriots don't think how uncomfortable it is for boys to break up, how sad it is to see these things, on the contrary, I am quite happy, The money was not spent in vain, and it was possible to laugh secretly.

Therefore, after talking for a long time, I still talk about what I feel a normal person should do in the face of this matter, at least it will not make the other party feel embarrassed or angry, this kind of thing is not handled well, and it will make others look down on it.

First, there is the thing that has residual value. For example, belts, bags, cosmetics, mobile phones, etc., items or that item, but someone else gave it to you, and it was not damaged, why throw it away? It's a bit of a waste of resources, the money is not blown by the wind, you can return it, you can also give it away, but don't throw it away.

The second, contrary to the previous one, is something completely useless. You can't do a dirty rag doll, you have to return it to others, or carry it home, which is a bit extreme.

The third is something that has life. When two people break up, you kick a dog he gave away with a high heel or a cat that just picks up the skin and stews it, it's a bit too much.

It is not uncommon for someone to break up with their current current because they kept their ex's belongings. In fact, many people care not about what the current ex left behind, but what the current ex took away!

Do you want to throw away the items left by your ex? The answer to this question is not complicated, the answer is very simple, of course one is to throw away, and the other is to keep. Here's when to throw it away and when to keep it!

1. Several situations of throwing away

1. When you see it, you will remember the past

If there is an item left by your ex, when you see it, you will remember the experience when you were together, whether it is pleasant or unpleasant, in short, as long as it can bring back that memory for you, it is better to throw it away, because this will not be conducive to the development of your next relationship. No matter what story you have with your ex, your emotions will cause displeasure in your current one.

2. Useless idle things

For some things that have no value, still take up space and need to be managed, it is not a pity to throw them away, and why take up space and experience it, isn't it more worry-free to throw it away! For example, a diary, a vanity case and other small objects.

3. The current one makes you lose it

If your current one is entangled in why you want to keep this thing, why don't you lose it, is it that you still can't forget your ex, in this case, it is recommended that you lose it decisively, so that the other party can see that the clearer you cut off your relationship with the past, the happier the future.

II. Several Cases of Reservations

1. It can still be usedHousehold items

On the premise of ensuring that this item does not remind you of unpleasant things, it doesn't hurt to stay, let alone continue to use it, for example, if you were in love, the mobile phone you bought is still in use, similar consumables.

Keep it for now, and it's okay to throw it away when you can't use it.

2. You want to redeem the other party through this item

Some things are not used indiscriminately, but they are very meaningful between lovers. There was once a friend who quarreled with his girlfriend and broke up, but he always wanted to get back to each other and made all kinds of efforts, so he left all his girlfriend's belongings, including his girlfriend's diary, the ** of the two, the girl's umbrella, Hello Kety's pajamas, and later the girlfriend who was moved by these behaviors, and the two reconciled.

3. Pets and other living animals

Regardless of the final outcome of the two people, the small animals that the two people once raised together are innocent and need someone to raise and care for them, such as pet dogs, just like children whose parents are divorced.

Pet cats, even if they are little turtles, should not be thrown away in any case, but should be taken care of. Valuing life is our basic quality!

<> the items left by your ex, why should you throw them away, there is no reason at all.

First of all, even if you break up with each other, even if it's because your ex has something to do with you, you can't use items to get angry. There's nothing wrong with the items, and they're not temperamental like their predecessors. Moreover, the items left by the predecessor should definitely have something that can be used for himself, so why throw them away.

Secondly, the items left by the ex should be divided into whether the ex himself or the ex gave him. If it's his predecessor's own things, then see what he can use for himself, and if there is, he will continue to use it, and if not, he will directly put it in the "salted fish"** to exchange for money. If you don't, then you've lost too much, and he's hurt you anyway, so why don't you use his last bit of value to get some compensation for yourself, wouldn't it be stupid.

Also, if you don't want to put them on the "salted fish", then you can also donate those things from your predecessor, so that you can not only help others, but also want to have peace of mind, and you can also get the title of "donor", why not.

If the items left by your ex are what your ex gave you, then it goes without saying. Of course, you have to continue to use it, isn't the thing he bought for you to buy just for you to use, the thing can still be used, why do you have to throw it away, besides, if you throw away all those things, don't you have to buy them out of your own pocket, why should you be so "wasteful"? If you can't get over it and feel a little sorry for yourself, then think that this is the bill he paid for "wasting your youth and wasting your time".

Therefore, the items left by the ex do not have to be thrown away. If you don't throw it away, you can still have some "huge uses", but if you throw it away, it really can't create any "economic benefits", it's just a pile of waste.

My first love gave me a ring on my birthday. After we broke up, I gave the ring to my grandmother. I didn't throw it away, and I didn't keep it for myself.

This relationship has given me the ability to love, a heart that melts for you at any time, and is as hard as a stone at any time, a mind that can recite poetry and taste tea, and the courage to leave the past self behind for you and run towards you. With you, even if the ending is unsatisfactory, I am still very content. I still remember the ring you gave me, I can't put it down, and you see me happy, relieved, that's why I like it.

We broke up, just to show that we weren't very suitable. It is not to deny that our relationship has no meaning, a place in our hearts. This is no small ring, it is a gift that once made me happy with the boy I liked.

I don't think I need to throw it away, it's so cruel, but I can't keep it, after all, I can't wear it either, and wearing this ring shouldn't be me, and it won't be me. There's no way I'm going to give it back. He used to say, you can throw it, I don't blame you, but you can't give it back to me.

I also answered him, and I have reached the point where there is no need to discuss with him the whereabouts of this ring anymore. <>

Now, to be precise, I'm its owner. I decided where he went, and I loved it. This ring is a symbol of our affection for me, once so shiny, now full of scratches.

Actually, I also thought that I couldn't keep it, after all, this was given to me by my ex, doesn't it mean that I still have nostalgia if I keep it? Am I not reminding myself to remember him? What I have to do now is to forget about him, for better or for worse, and there is no need to punish my own scarred heart.

My grandmother lost one of her rings, so I gave it to him. Well, actually, I thought about it for a long time. However, I still can't let go of my struggle, and this first step is very difficult to start.

Grandma asked me, it would cost a lot of money to make such a good ring. I was struggling and perfunctory, so my grandmother kept wearing it on my hand. At first, I felt quite eye-catching, it turned out that giving up a relationship, this relationship given by the ring is very difficult, it doesn't matter, it will pass.

Slowly, when I saw the ring on my grandmother's hand, I didn't feel it at all, a little. <>

If you say that your ex gave you something that you were reluctant to throw away, then you put it there. Don't remind yourself that one day, you will forget that you once had such a token to keep your relationship together. The things he left behind, no matter how bad they are, are also good memories of you, and if you throw them away, it won't be long before you will be sad.

It's better to just put it up like that, and one day when it is full of dust, you open it and look at it, and there are no waves in your heart, only the trembling of your heart from the past, gently.

If your boyfriend still has his ex's belongings, it is very likely that he has not put them down, however, it is also necessary to analyze them specifically.

For example, did you accidentally find these objects, or did he never deliberately avoid you and just put them where you could see them.

If he deliberately hid it, afraid that you would see it, then he must not have put it down, and if he placed it at will, he might just forget to throw it away.

In fact, in the face of this kind of thing, I believe that you actually have the answer in your heart, but you don't want to admit it, I personally suggest that you can ask him directly, or take a time to sit down quietly and talk to him.

After all, you are his current girlfriend, if this matter, you yourself hold it in your heart, girls are cranky, even if you don't ask him, this matter will always linger in your mind, and in the end it will definitely affect your relationship, if it is a misunderstanding, it will be solved, if it is true that he has not let go, then he does not love you much, you should be glad that you found out in time and left someone who does not love you early.

It can also be like this, for a day, you unintentionally pretend to clean up the house in a tentative tone, pick up his ex's belongings and pretend to throw them away, ask him if he can, you look at his reaction, if he is very casual and says that it doesn't matter if you throw it away, then you put it down, if he behaves very angry, or asks you not to touch it, you must leave that thing, then it is recommended that you reconsider the relationship.

After all, love is exclusive.

Yes, being with you means that he and his ex are over, if his heart is not empty, it is too unfair to you, and besides, such a relationship cannot last long, no girl wants to be a substitute, and no girl can accept that her boyfriend still has her ex in his heart.

So, don't be afraid, don't run away, face it directly, and no matter what the outcome, be sure not to regret it.

Personally, I think this kind of behavior varies from person to person, some men have delicate feelings, gentle personalities, if they keep the items, they may still have nostalgia for their predecessors, and some men with more straight personalities act decisively and decisively, and keeping the items may not be emotional, but because the item is still useful to him.

I don't think it's because I haven't let go, but because I keep some of my old youth memories. Because these are not only the items of the ex, but also represent the youth that I once ignore. So don't worry too much about your boyfriend's behavior.

Not necessarily, sometimes keeping the ex's belongings may be a kind of memory, a tribute to the feelings you once had. Besides, it's already in the past, and the real letting go should be kept and seen, and there won't be too many thoughts.

Yes. hasn't put it down yet, which means that he is an emotional person. If he's okay with you, let time fade away.

I think my boyfriend hasn't let go of his ex, because since he has started a new relationship, he should forget about things related to his past relationship, so as not to make his current girlfriend more troublesome.

In such a situation, you must communicate with the other party in a timely manner, and then you should also tell the other party what you think, you should tell the other party that you mind these things very much, if the other party still does not make any reaction, or still does not throw away the ex's things, it means that the other party has a ghost in her heart, and the other party still misses the ex, and should break up decisively. Socks stuffy.