Would you give up everything you have now for your first love?

Even though I am destitute now, I have big dreams and a happy family. However, my first love was an old friend, and I never even had contact with each other again. We may be friends, but we are also ordinary friends.

More ordinary than ordinary friends, we don't start as if we were nearing the end. We have agreed with each other not to disturb each other, and we can be said to be what we are today, thanks to each other's fulfillment. It can't be said that we are not suitable, and if we are really not suitable, we will not be together.

But breaking up together is fate. <>

At that time, I was like a demon, and I had to be separated from him. Whatever you may say, it's all in the past. Maybe he's sick, and to put it mildly, he needs bone marrow matching, and I won't hesitate; He is short of money, and since he has borrowed from me, he must have been forced to help him, and I will certainly be able to help him with all the transferable money I have; There is no affection between us anymore, there is just a common memory, a youth that crosses with each other.

Since the breakup, the two of us have been like parallel lines, never intersecting again. But now he told me to give up everything and go with him. Sorry, I can't.

I don't love him anymore, and I don't think anything else about him. I have the people I like, the life I want, and the goals I strive for. So, there's no reason for me to give up on what I love and go back to him.

Get back? Can you go back? He's not what he was then, and I've become different from what I used to be.

Where did the common ground come from. Maybe I will still be unbearable with him, but I'm not stupid, people always have to look forward, and they can't keep thinking about the old in their hearts, and they can't cross the hurdle in their hearts. First love, is it so important?

Compared to your future, the ex, just the past. Maybe it's cruel for me to say that, but people live for themselves. <>

Maybe I gave up the time with my family, the time to do what I like, the time to relax myself, and the time to spend with my friends, but I don't feel sorry for it, after all, these times make my life very fulfilling. What I want to do now is live well, not so much, because so. There is no need to ruin the life you have worked so hard to win for the sake of an old man.

We are human beings, people are not immutable, at that time, the greatest love was because we were still young.

I'm not an angel, and there's no need for me to be with someone I don't love anymore. My life was created by my own hands, and even though I am grateful for his care, patience and advice, it is not a reason for me to persuade myself to give up everything, this reason is not enough. After all, if I give too much, I will be afraid of losing.

I've lost him, and I find the pain I can bear. However, I have lost everything now, I am not me anymore, and what reason do I have to be with him. Well, losing him, I'm just losing a past lover, I'm losing everything I am, then I'm a complete idiot.

I really think it's hard to do, I don't know what you're talking about, giving up everything you have now for your first love, the price paid is too huge, and I think if you really like your first love, and your first love really likes you, you can choose some other methods, even if you are faced with such a choice, I think whether you give up your first love, or give up everything you have now, you will regret it in your future life. I'll break it down for you:

First of all, in fact, such a single-choice question is not easy to encounter in life, because there is often a compromise method, if you encounter such a choice, there must be other ways to go, because your first love is precious, it can be said that you want to protect everything in the future, but everything you have now is also the basis of your future life, it is for you to better protect her and love her to provide conditions, you say that you throw away bread for love and throw away love for bread, this is not advisable, You can't do such multiple-choice questions. Let me give you an example, a boy has always liked a girl, and he fell in love with her for three years in high school, and then applied for volunteering after the college entrance examination, the girl had poor grades and stayed in the local area, and the boy scored very high, in order to accompany him to choose the same university in Beijing or to go to a prestigious school in Beijing? I think this problem is still very easy to solve, of course, I chose to go to Beijing to go to college but still have a long-distance relationship with her, so that after the future work, the boy's high education will be better for the girl's life, and although the long-distance relationship is hard, but still in love.

Girls don't want boys to give up everything, she can't afford such a price, and it will be difficult to be with you without any worries in the future.

No, I am now a family person, I have a husband who loves me, I have a lovely daughter, and I will never give up everything I have now for the sake of my ex.

If it were me, I wouldn't have given up everything I had for her when I already had happiness!

Now that she has a family and children, she will definitely not give up all this for her, besides, he also has it now, and she can't be desperate to be with you.

Of course, it depends on whether the first love is worth it for me to do this for him. If that's what I'm thinking, then I probably wouldn't.

Of course, I will not give up everything I have now for the sake of my first love, after all, first love happened in the past, and we must cherish the present and the future.

When you fall in love for the first time, you often don't know how to love and don't know how to manage love, so the probability of breaking up is relatively high.

The relationship between the two is not decided by one person. Let it be.

1. My first love girl and I have been friends for eight years after breaking up, and the relationship is not far away, no one takes the initiative to disturb anyone's life, but every year when they are on a bad day, they will send a text message to each other in the early morning, and there are only four words "Happy Birthday" in the future.

A few days ago, I suddenly received her **, saying that she was getting married, and then she was silent for a while, smiling and saying that I was the first person she notified. Tomorrow she was getting married, and I suddenly didn't know if I wanted to go.

2. I was 18 years old that year, and he was a boy in our neighboring class. Tall, thin, always unsmiling, with a melancholy temperament in his eyes, in line with my vision of Prince Charming.

It was an essay contest with the same title, and his essay "Autumn Thoughts" won the first prize. Reading his essay, I was deeply moved, it is really unthinkable that a boy can have such delicate and rich emotions.

A classmate who knew him well said to me, you don't know him yet, he also likes literature and writing, and you two will definitely be able to talk.

So we got to know each other, and in the afternoon the third period was an extracurricular activity, so we met in the school's reading room and sat there to read the extracurricular books we liked to read. In my memory, that time was the happiest and most fulfilling time I ever had, because of his company.

After reading it, we went to the school playground to exchange opinions about the contents of the book, and the days slipped away inadvertently.

At that time, the sky was always blue, but the days passed so fast, and in the blink of an eye, we were about to graduate. Because of the girl's shyness and reserve, I never confessed to him, but I think he should feel it. Maybe it's because we're uncertain about the future, or maybe we're too young to know what to do, so we miss out.

Be peaceful with love and marriage. Love itself means success or failure. There is no need to force yourself, especially your first love.

Without the experience of love, there will inevitably be deviations, but this is not necessarily a negative thing. People grow in the process. Weeks, years, if you've just graduated and you're going to college, it's because first love is hard to forget.

Everyone's first love is hard to forget. You have now broken up, which proves that the love between you must break up first.

Try to live, trust me, you will find a better person, and slowly forget. If your first love is a good word, of course, it's also the first time in your life. You appreciate it for the first time and fall in love with a heterosexual, but the reality is always there and you can't find persistence after working for a long time; You're right upstairs, and it's also testing you, and when you're mature, he'll still love you.

After all, even if you can't get along day and night; At least your apples. You can only love others if you live your own life. From your boyfriend, you can tell he's right.

You can ask if it's okay to let go of your first love.

I've been breaking up with him for more than a year. That was three years ago. I talked a few in between, but I still didn't think it was appropriate or didn't like the man who gave me so much.

Advice for a married woman: Letting go of your first love is a very useful thing, I have always been in love. When he's young, maybe it's because he's handsome, has a good voice, or plays a good guitar that can get girls right.

She is a beautiful woman who is married not just for love. Now he is married and has children; But in my married life, I was not happy at all.

I just gave up on my first boyfriend and we've been together for five years. After graduation, we were together. He said he wanted one and that he needed a few things to determine if his first love was married or in love.

If so, don't worry and let someone else live happily ever after. I give up. Otherwise, I'm in favor of you looking for him and getting him back.

Still, I hope you can find the foundation of happiness.

In life, if I am incompatible with my first love, I will choose to give up, and if I can continue, it is also beautiful to get married.

First love is a good memory of the past, which can always retain the position of first love in the mind and even in the heart, but it cannot affect your life.

Shouldn't. Because first love is beautiful, and I love first love so much, I won't give up on first love.

In life, should you give up your first love? In the case of first love, some are passively giving up. Some are naturally giving up this, there is nothing that should or shouldn't, dear.

Some are white-headed with their first love. Some are because of academics. Separation.

Naturally, I gave up, and first love is always beautiful. If you can say that you can end up from the beginning, that's the best, if you can't help it, give up, it's also a good memory.

I just gave up on my first boyfriend and we've been together for five years. After graduation, we were together. He said he wanted one and he needed something to make sure of him.

This is not necessarily, it still depends on your own actual situation, not everyone will give up their first love, I should not give up.

With your sincerity. Love her! Single-mindedness! If she likes you. You give up on her and it can make people sad! Don't give up

No, because in fact, I have learned a lot from my first love, and it has also penetrated into the bone marrow, so I should not give up.

If it is possible in life, you must not give up your first love, and that relationship is the most innocent.

I said that if two people are in love, there is no other reason to intervene and choose each other more accurately, you must not give up your first love, stick to the end, so as not to regret it in the future, but if you find that each other's personalities are different in the process, and there is no agreement on the future struggle, then it is better to break up.

Whether you should give up depends on whether your first love is worth your insistence on loving, if it's worth it, don't let it go, if it's not worth it, it's better to give up early.

Hello, I gave up, I liked many years of ninja because we got used to each other when we were studying. But many of the first love was unsuccessful, because it was immature at the beginning, and then we were far away, but we still loved each other very much, not in one place, too far away, although we all love each other, but because of the opposition of the family, the woman I like, she is a very filial person, he listened to his parents very much, and said goodbye to me with tears. My heart hurts, I liked it for many years, and in the end I still didn't get together.

I tried, but I still didn't get his parents' approval. It's because of the distance.,So I can't be with a girlfriend I've been like for many years.。 It's also my regret.

I had a girl I liked for a long time and eventually gave up. The reason is a little helpless, because of the lack of qualifications. In the eyes of many people, as long as two people like love, they can be together at all costs. But that's the ideal state, and real life is real.

Everyone is different, and if you can meet someone who is willing to love you and care about you regardless of everything, you must be happy. But if you meet people, although they love each other, they care more about their families. It seems reasonable for her to choose to become a stranger to you because she is powerless to refute her family's interference in her life.

In those months, I've been wondering, why can't two people who like it be together, whose fault is it? I tried, I told her desperately that I would work hard for our future, that I would bring her happiness, but to no avail. Then I gave up because I figured everything out and it turned out that everyone was right.

It's just that the happiness of this world requires you to have matching qualifications. Even if you are lucky, you must also have the qualifications for good luck, such as the character, connections, background, etc., these various conditions are actually qualifications.

Since then, I've never questioned in my heart why the world is unfair. Instead of worrying about those, you should improve your qualifications. Whether it's exercising ability, exercising the spine and body, cultivating hobbies, learning to dress up, or working hard to make money, it's all about improving yourself.

At that time, I didn't want anything, because I was very sad and sad, I couldn't be with everyone I liked for many years, in order to escape the pain of falling out of love, I had been working very hard, and then I didn't dare to fall in love, and after a few years, I came out and started my new life.