Not long after we broke up, my boyfriend posted in the circle of friends to thank you for being here

If you encounter problems that you can't understand emotionally, or you don't know how to recover after a breakup, welcome to pay attention to WeChat***: Redeem the head of the group. Answer your questions, help you save your love, and improve your emotional intelligence.

When you meet someone who wants to be with him forever, you will do everything you can to have him by your side. But what I want to say is that you have to use the right method to redeem him, and don't blindly do what you think is good for him, otherwise it will only backfire and make him farther away from you. Remember, here are four things you should never do:

1.Putting pressure on his career.

I believe that as long as a man is not like a woman pointing fingers at him, especially in his career. So, if you want him to come back to you again, you have to learn not to do things that disgust him, the most basic thing is not to point fingers at his work. Since he broke up with you, it means that the relationship between you is not as good as before, and at this time, you have to pay more attention to your words and deeds, know how to observe your face, and know how to shut up when he thinks you are disturbing him.

Don't add to your relationship and keep him away from you.

2.Ask a friend to help save it.

You have to know that it is the problems between you that cause the breakup, and the most important thing you should do is to come forward and find out the problems between you and solve them. Instead of having your friend come out and pay your boyfriend, this will not solve the problem, but will make the situation worse. Figure out who is wrong among you and learn to bow your head and apologize.

Do your best to save your feelings.

3.Bear two faces under one hood.

I fancy my face, although I feel that I have a problem and that I am at fault, but I insist that I am not wrong, I don't choose what to say, and I quarrel endlessly, which finally makes your relationship more and more noisy and weak, and the breakup ends. So, if you want to save your relationship, you must first learn to be honest and honest about what you really think. Sincerity is the foundation of a couple's relationship, and being honest with each other will make your relationship better and better.

4.Keep bothering him.

When the other party is busy, all he needs is quiet. If you keep calling him at this time, texting him, so that he can't calm down, he will think you are very annoying and don't want to pay attention to you. Therefore, as a woman, you must know how to understand the hard work of a man, not to say that you love him or to love him, but to show it with actions, to know how not to disturb him when he is busy, and to prepare food or drink for him.

After a busy day, relax for him will make him more aware of your love for him. It will be easier to save your relationship.

Finally, what I want to say is that to save your feelings, you must know how to use your brain to think about it, do something for him that is truly meaningful to him, and don't do things that make him hate you more, it's just counterproductive!

You are passerby A, he is passerby B.

1. Relieve the loneliness and loneliness in your heart.

Before breaking up, the two of them were together, depended on each other, went in and out together, went shopping together, ate together, and went to a movie together when they had time. When you are lonely, you have someone to chat with, someone to talk to, even if you stay at home alone, your heart is warm and you don't feel lonely. After the breakup, there is suddenly no one to accompany you, the room becomes empty, and you are alone in everything, this inner gap is relatively huge, and you will feel lonely and lonely.

At this time, posting on Moments is a way to relieve loneliness and loneliness in the heart, happy, fun, chicken soup for the soul, sad, is a good way to dispel.

2. Attract the attention of friends and expand new contacts.

Before a breakup, you may be thinking about being with your girlfriend wholeheartedly, and it seems that you are happy to be isolated from the world. After a breakup, you can deepen the connection with your friends and attract your friends' attention by posting on Moments, and you can also interact with Moments, especially after adding new friends, to expand new contacts through Moments, which is also a good way to forget about pain.

3. Show that he is doing well and does not regret breaking up.

People have a competitive mentality, after the breakup, there is no longer any contact, but they want to show the other party that they can still live well, the other party chooses to leave, it is a wrong choice made by the other party, then, by posting something in the circle of friends, you can convey the effect that he is living well now and does not regret the breakup.

The human heart is very wonderful, and I think that since we have broken up, we should stop worrying about why my ex-boyfriend frequently posts on Moments. If you don't love it, look forward and look for the next true love, that's the most important thing.

Everyone's reaction and handling after a breakup is different, and there is no one standard way to react before grinding. However, some people frequently update their circle of friends after a breakup, and there may be some reasons for this:

1.Seek social support after a breakup: After a breakup, people may feel lonely, helpless, and other negative emotions, and want to be accompanied and comforted by friends. Frequent updates on Moments can make them feel like they're being followed and cared for.

It should be noted that relying too much on social interactions** does not really alleviate the negative emotions caused by the breakup, and can even increase anxiety and stress. If you are bothered by your ex's frequent updates to your circle of friends, it is recommended that you talk to a friend or a professional counsellor for better support and advice.

This kind of estimation is the psychology of wanting to compound. Generally, after a breakup, you will like and comment on your circle of friends, which means that this person still likes you, and now he still can't let go of rushing to lack you. People like this will be more infatuated, and there is no way to be ruthless to the ex-girlfriend who broke up.

This shows that he doesn't want to give up on you yet, and wants to let you know that he is still silently following you by liking and commenting. If you often comment and like, it means that he still wants to be with you, but I'm afraid that you will refuse when you say that you are back together, or directly block him, and now he is in a mood that wants to continue to be with you, but I don't know what you think.

In this case, if you still like this man, you have to fight for yourself, don't miss the person who is really good to you because of the temporary face, this is the recent "Predecessor 3" gave me the feeling, to cherish those who have been silently accompanying you and have never left. If you don't want to continue this relationship anymore, you can ignore him when he likes and comments on you, this method will make you slowly die, after all, we don't want to continue, so don't keep delaying others.

Another is that he is afraid that you will forget him, such a person may not be able to let go of you for the time being, he is afraid that you have your own boyfriend, and he is afraid that you will no longer pay attention to him. Liking and commenting from time to time can let you know that no matter what, there is someone around you who silently cares about you.

However, it also depends on whether he has broken up for a few days, or whether he will like and comment for a long time. If you just break up for a few days, it means that he can't forget you for the time being. If it's been a long time, I still like and comment, sometimes because I still love you, sometimes because I treat you as a friend now, and it's normal for friends to like and comment on friends before in the debate circle.

After a breakup, the person who has the most feelings will often not be able to let go of each other, and he does not dare to disturb each other, for fear that the other party will be bored with him, but he will make himself a little impressed with him by liking him. If you haven't let go of him yet, then you might as well take the initiative, give him a thumbs up, give him a little confidence, maybe he will take the initiative to come and chat with him. He didn't care:

Sometimes, even if you like your circle of friends, but the other party has no leisure to reply to you, or the reply is just a simple "um", "ah", "oh", which shows that he doesn't care about your circle of friends, no matter what you post, his mentality doesn't matter. He has let go: no matter what the reason for the breakup, there will be a transition period after the breakup, and in this transition period, everyone will have a buffer period to allow themselves to accept this reality.

If during the transition period, he did not find a new love, nor did he have an affair with the people around him, then it means that he has let go of you and started a new life. Finally, you can judge his true intentions based on factors such as the timing of the like, his attitude, and the reason for your breakup.

It's been more than half a year since I broke up, and my ex-boyfriend likes it in my circle of friends.

You can like it according to the point in time.

Fellow, I really didn't understand, I can be more specific.

It's been more than half a year since you broke up, and your ex-boyfriend may have the following possible meanings when he likes you in your circle of friends: He still likes you: After the breakup, the couple who has the most feelings will often not let go of each other, and they dare not disturb the other party, afraid that the other party will be bored with him, but he will make himself have a little impression of him by liking him.

If you haven't let him go yet, then you might as well take the initiative and give him a thumbs up to give him a little confidence, and maybe he will take the initiative to come and chat with him. He feels that it doesn't matter: sometimes, even if he likes your circle of friends, but the other party has no leisure to reply to you, or the reply is just a simple "um", "ah", "oh", which shows that he doesn't care about your circle of friends, no matter what you post, his mentality doesn't matter.

He has let go: no matter what the reason for the breakup, there will be a transition period after the breakup, and in this transition period, everyone will have a buffer period to allow themselves to accept this reality. If during the transition period, he did not find a new love, nor did he have an affair with the people around him, then it means that he has let go of you and started a new life.

Finally, you can judge his true intentions based on factors such as the timing of the like, his attitude, and the reason for your breakup.