Can you be friends with your ex boyfriend after a breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think you think you can let him go yet.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It can only be the most familiar person among strangers!

    Can't be a stranger, after all, once loved!

    But they can also become friends, and they should have hurt each other!

    So it can only be the most familiar person among strangers

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It varies from person to person, but it is possible to be friends after a breakup.

    However, it is rare to be friends, even friends may only be ordinary friends, because if they are separated, they will have their own lives and partners, and it is not excluded that there is a kind of breakup that is very good and reconciled.

    If you have loved each other deeply, at least one party will feel deeply hurt, he may be reluctant to contact again, he may be more hurt when he sees each other again, and it is better for the other party not to force it.

    It seems that after the breakup, everyone must understand the reasons for the breakup, learn a lesson, and recover as soon as possible in the next time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think it's okay, he and her other half will be jealous, at least that's how I am, so I think it's better to be good, it's just a personal opinion.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Well, there is this possibility I'm the third now, and I was full of trouble when I just had the first meal, and after half a year, the relationship was very good, and now it's the best friend ......The second is because I split my legs, so it's inevitable that there will be some of that, but now the relationship is not bad......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you both let go of each other in your hearts, you can be friends calmly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I can't, I can't stand hearing him talk about his happiness together. Now I haven't been in touch with him again. I hurt him deeply, and he hurt me deeply.

    I may still have him in my heart now, but that's out of the question.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes. I'm good friends with boyfriends who broke up before.

    It's up to you how you get along.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's say you and your ex-boyfriend have both broken up. If you want to be good friends with your ex-boyfriend now, I think this is mainly to look at each other, since you have this idea, then it must be okay, then it depends on whether the other party also has this idea, it is definitely okay to be a good friend, and couples can be friends if they can't do it, the main thing is to look at the meaning of the other party.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After a breakup, you can of course treat your ex-boyfriend as your best friend.

    Because the two of you have been together for so long, you know each other very well, and although love is gone, friendship still exists.

    And if the relationship between the two people is relatively good, they can still continue to be together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After the breakup, I couldn't treat my ex-boyfriend as a good friend of my own, because I felt that there was no way for the two of us to cross paths anymore, no matter what kind of identity we had, there was no way to get along at all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No. Because after a breakup, you will treat your ex-boyfriend as a good friend, your ex-boyfriend will feel very embarrassed, he will see you every time, and he will be sad when he sees you, so he can't be a good friend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I can't treat my ex-boyfriend as a good friend of mine because our breakup wasn't particularly pleasant, plus someone who used to be so close, there's really no way to treat him as a regular friend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can treat your ex-boyfriend as a good friend. If the two communicate happily and smoothly together, there is no previous embarrassment. Then you can be friends, because it is normal for many people to do this.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's definitely okay, I'm afraid you can't do it, because many people will have a mentality of never getting along after breaking up, because they hate each other very much, and it is impossible for two people to become good friends.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After the breakup, you can't treat your ex-boyfriend as a good friend, because if you keep in touch with your ex-boyfriend after the breakup, if you have contact, it is not only not conducive to both parties to start a new life, but when they find their other half, if they continue to contact, the other half will know that it will be very insecure.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think that since I broke up, it is impossible to treat my ex-boyfriend as a good friend, after all, that person has been completely separated, and the past relationship will be over forever, and it may return to the way it used to be, so it is impossible to be a friend.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it is a peaceful breakup, then you can continue to be friends with your ex-boyfriend after the breakup, but it is only limited to being ordinary friends, not good friends, and you should pay attention to keeping your distance.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    can't be a good friend, don't have this idea of being a good friend with your ex after a breakup, it's unrealistic at all, you have already broken up and care about each other like a friend, it will inevitably make the current psychological imbalance.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's okay for both of us to calmly let go of being friends, and my lover and I have become very good friends after breaking up, and he usually helps me a lot, and I'm really grateful to him. One more friend, many roads, besides, after all, there have been feelings, and if you have difficulties, he will definitely help you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This can't. Because your ex-boyfriend knows too much about you, if you continue to treat him as a good friend, it is difficult to guarantee that he will not deliberately hurt you once for something, which is irresponsible to yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After a breakup, many situations can be made into good friends, if both parties don't mind, you can be friends after the breakup, everyone can just be ordinary friends, if you are good friends, it will definitely not work.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's hard to think of your ex-boyfriend as your best friend after a breakup, because two people used to know each other best, and if you were good friends, you would feel a little dangerous.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you break up peacefully, it's definitely possible to become good friends. After all, the two of you used to be the closest partners. And you know each other's temper and character. When you have a problem, he will definitely be the first to help you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, if you just feel that you don't love each other and break up, it's not a big contradiction, then you can be friends, and the other party knows you so well, being friends can also help you with some things, such as if you find a boyfriend in the future, he can also help you see if he is reliable or something.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    After a breakup, I can't treat my ex-boyfriend as a good friend, because after having a previous relationship experience, I can't get along like before, and there is always a weird feeling in my heart.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    No, since you've been boyfriend and girlfriend before, it's better to be a stranger after a breakup. This is good for each other, if you break up, you may become friends over time, and the old relationship may be regained, which is not a good thing for each other.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    After a breakup, you can't treat your ex-boyfriend as a good friend, because the relationship between the two of you is over, so the friendship between friends will also disappear.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    After a breakup, you can treat your ex as your good friend, but you must correct the relationship between the two people, and never have the idea of repeating the mistakes of the past.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No. Boyfriends will develop new relationships after breaking up, girls are stingy, and continuing to be friends in such a relationship will make the people behind mind.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    No. Now that you have broken up, then you have to break up simply and thoroughly, and don't be good friends anymore, otherwise your boyfriend's current girlfriend will also be unhappy.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course, it depends on what you think, or whether the other party is willing to continue to be friends with you, if both parties don't want to be disturbed, then don't be friends and cherish love and give, it is very uncomfortable to see the other party restart the next relationship.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course, the relationship between two people after a breakup is actually very delicate, and there are still feelings between them, and they can still be friends.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I feel like it's best not to treat your ex-boyfriend as a friend, because you've broken up and you're dealing with a new relationship, wouldn't your new boyfriend mind if you and your ex-boyfriend continue to be in a relationship? It will definitely be unwilling, and it will affect your future life.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Generally speaking, after a breakup, the two parties can no longer become friends, so if you treat him as a good friend, there may be some strange feelings, because after all, we used to love each other so much, and it has completely become ordinary friends, so it is obviously not appropriate, so there will be a lot of problems in this, which are generally unsolvable.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you broke up before, then you can treat your ex-boyfriend as a good friend.

    If you break up with each other very unpleasantly, then you will definitely not be able to be friends again.

    So this one depends on what kind of attitude your ex-boyfriend has towards you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you have these three situations after a breakup, don't be friends with your ex-boyfriend.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    have already broken up, and both parties have found their other half, I ask you, if you see that your former lover is happier than you, will you be jealous? The former lover introduced his current girlfriend to you, can you do it clearly? Obviously, no, then why do you have to find yourself guilty?

    If his life is unhappy, will you be overflowing with sympathy, will you rekindle with him? It's really hard to say, after all, girls are very soft-hearted. And everyone has a new half, you continue to be friends with your ex, what will your current one think, if it were me, I would definitely not accept it.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Some men and women do let go after breaking up, and they don't think it's a big deal, besides, one more friend and one more way. In such a situation, you can still be friends, as long as you don't feel embarrassed and don't feel like you are uncovering the scars.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    In reality, there are still many intersections, and we have to continue to maintain the relationship with each other, such as work and business, and there are many things in common in hobbies, or the residence is close to each other, and it is impossible to look up and see each other, and it is impossible to be a stranger. If your new lover is also aware of your past, trusts you, is a more confident and open-minded person, and doesn't care much about some normal interactions between you and your ex, then why not?

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    First of all, it depends on the personality of the two people, if both parties are more rational, cultivated, and have a relatively high comprehensive quality, they will not feel very embarrassed and awkward to become friends after breaking up, and they will not feel that the other party is their enemy, and they will feel more comfortable and comfortable to become friends; Secondly, the reason for breaking up is not because one party has a bad character, it is not because it is illegal and undisciplined, but because one party has a new love, parents strongly oppose it, personality incompatibility, etc., it does not violate some basic principles of being a person, it is just a person who can't be a lover but can become a friend, and he is a person who is still worth dating.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Breaking up and not being friends with each other is the best way for everyone to get rid of it by no longer giving both parties hope, not giving any chance, and letting go. After a breakup, don't be friends because we've hurt each other; We can't be enemies, because we have loved each other deeply, and being the most familiar stranger is the best choice, and we will no longer interfere with each other's lives, just let us be two parallel lines that will never intersect.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Being able to be friends after a breakup is just talking, it's good to live your own life with each other, there's nothing to regret, there's nothing to wait for, he's not someone you can wait for. Never keep what you should give up, never let go of what you should cherish, and don't be friends after breaking up, because you have hurt each other!! and not to be enemies, because they have loved one another!!

    Let's make each other the strangers you know best.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I once read a sentence that says that if two people love each other very much, it is absolutely impossible to be friends again after separation. If you can be friends, it means that the two of them have not really loved each other.

    Of course, on the other hand, it is impossible to be like enemies after a breakup, if two people can still be friends, but this kind of friend is actually only in name, and the two of you don't have any topics to talk about when you meet, and you don't know what to talk about with each other. It will seem very embarrassing on many occasions, although this kind of friend says that it can be done, but in fact, it can never go back to the past, and it can't go back to the time when the two of you were together. So I think it's okay to be friends after a breakup, to keep a connection.

    At least everyone knows how each other is doing.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Some people say that people who can still be friends after a breakup must not have loved each other deeply. If one day, as a friend, he or she introduces you to his (her) new object, and looks at her in his arms, won't you think of you in the past? If you are still in love with the other person after the breakup, then don't be friends with him.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    I don't think it's a good choice. Will you be friends with the person you love after a breakup? Would you like to see him do better than you? Would you like to see him with someone else? Then I'm so hungry, sorry, I'm stingy. If you can't get it, just give up.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Whether two people can still be friends after breaking up is a relatively boring and complicated question, and there are many factors to consider. Here's how I see it:

    1.The reason for the breakup and the subsequent relationship status are the key influencing factors. If it is a peaceful breakup caused by a weakened relationship or a distant set of values, and both parties still retain a certain affection for each other, then it is more likely to be friends.

    But if it's a bad breakup caused by betrayal, injury, etc., it's hard to be friends.

    2.The frequency of interactions after a breakup is also an important factor. If the life circles of both parties still overlap after the breakup, and they often meet and socialize, then the possibility of gradually becoming friends will be high.

    But if there is little contact after a breakup, it is more difficult to regain friendship. Familiarity with the unfamiliar needs to be cultivated in the course of communication.

    3.After the breakup, whether the two parties still retain a certain amount of good feelings and concerns. If you can still sincerely care about each other as friends after a breakup, showing a certain amount of trust and tolerance, then the foundation of rebuild friendship already exists.

    If you have opposite positions after a breakup, you have no feelings for each other, and it is difficult to rebuild a new relationship.

    4.The maturity and rational attitude of both parties is also crucial. If both parties can look at the termination of the relationship calmly and rationally and accept the transformation of old lovers and new friends, then it will be more likely to be friends.

    If both parties have low maturity and emotional intelligence, and are easily carried away by negative emotions, it will be more difficult to rebuild the friendship rationally.

    5.The influence of the external environment cannot be ignored. The attitudes of friends and family around you can affect the thoughts of both parties. If everyone understands and supports this change, then the chances of being friends are a little greater. But if there is opposition from the outside world, it will be more difficult for both sides to hold on.

    Therefore, in general, whether two people can be friends after breaking up still depends on many specific situations. Ideally, if both parties have enough maturity and rationality to retain a certain amount of affection after the breakup, and have ongoing interactions to rebuild a new relationship, then the omenous positivity of being friends is still relatively high. But it also requires a concerted effort on both sides, to evaluate rationally on the basis of reality, and not to be swayed by impulses or outside ideas.

    This is a complex path that needs to be validated and manifested in time and a new relationship.

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