Can you help me analyze this kind of emotional experience, can I start from scratch?

For love, true love, I don't think there is any need to care too much about the outcome in the future, "I don't care about eternity, I only care about what I once had", this sentence may be self-comforting, but it is not an incentive.

If you love her, you will be brave to pursue, even if you can't get together because of the final personality or other reasons, but you have worked hard to pursue what you love, and you have no regrets.

In fact, the factor of personality is not the main problem, does a strong man necessarily like a strong woman? More often than not, I like small birds. Behind a successful woman, I think she also needs a lover who silently supports her, understands her, and truly loves her.

Judging from the character and current situation of your classmate, she has a good chance of becoming a saint in the future. And you, it's hard to say, men are more variable, 22 years old, there are still many possibilities in your life. You can go after her and the results are nothing more than two, success or failure, that's all.

I hope I didn't hurt you, looking at the characters of the two of you, I think if it is the other way around, you are still possible, but the fact is that you have no quarrel with the world, she has a fight with the world, do you think you will be happy in the future? If you are not happy, will she be happy with you? I still want you to think about it.

Since you can't forget each other, then give each other a chance, even if you fail, at least everyone has worked hard, and there will be no more regrets and no more worries.

I think you'll be happy to come together and be happy in the future, but you may need to take the initiative and wish you happiness.

I see!

First, you've never been in a relationship and you're a girl, so you're not proactive enough!

Know that initiative is the lifeblood of everything!

Think about why people who like you don't want to confess to you! It's because you're giving them a cold signal that they think they're going to be rejected if they confess to you!

On the contrary, those girls who are not as good as you give people the illusion that they have a high success rate in talking to her, and they are not easy to be rejected by her, and even if they refuse, they will not be ashamed (she is ugly).

And you don't have to be too enthusiastic, you just need to get along with the guys and get along with the girls! If you have the opportunity to meet boys, you should also take the initiative to introduce yourself so that you can have an impression in the hearts of the other party.

Secondly, you are not ugly, but people rely on their appearance and dress up for three points, which is also the premise for boys to chase you Eye-catching!

So you have to put more effort into beauty, dressing, hairstyle, look at fashion magazines, and dress up tastefully!

If you do what I say, you'll be a big improvement in less than a month!

In fact, I want to find a girl like you to be the guardian of your life, you are a very precious kind, cherish yourself, you are still young and there will be many opportunities!

I feel that you may be a person who is indifferent and almost numb on the outside, not much angry, and gives people the impression that you are boring, so you can't attract people. Second, you may never approach anyone, including women.

So I would like to give you two suggestions:

1. Spirit, at any time, the waist is straight, the head is raised, the pace of walking is faster, the initiative is a little more enthusiastic when greeting people, and the corners of the mouth are a little smile, giving people a warm and cordial feeling. Just imagine, a woman who bends over all day long, slumps her back, and is listless, who likes ah.

2. Be proactive in doing things, don't wait for others to come to you for everything. For example, taking the initiative to make an appointment with a friend, taking the initiative to invite someone to dinner, taking the initiative to think about things for others, and solving other people's problems, will leave a good impression, and people will be happy to introduce you to friends.

The more you try to find it, the more you can't find it? Why is that? How do you go about going about the process of finding a boyfriend?

For example, your clothing, dress, speech, etc. When you deliberately want to find a boyfriend, do you care about the small changes that occur in yourself? For example, you have a strong desire for self-expression, deliberately change yourself, etc.?

Needless to say, it's better than you, how many times has your boyfriend changed? How do you deal with these people? I propose to treat everyone around you with your normal heart, don't change yourself just because you want to find a boyfriend, maybe many people like you and dare not confess.

Just because when you know he likes you, you'll have a little bit of a change. Analyze it yourself, right? No matter who analyzes you, it is not as clear as you are to analyze yourself.

Don't worry, be confident in yourself, I am who I am, and I will not change my personality because of anything, any environment. I believe it won't be long before you find a boyfriend of your own.

How to analyze.

Sadness is not a curse, and joy is not a blessing.

If you don't want to continue, you learn to forget.

If you want to continue, learn to cherish.

Nothing to analyze.

It's because Nian's personality is not cheerful enough

Only wisdom will cross you out of the sea of suffering; Good at distinguishing the surface of things.

There is no real value in love

If you really like it, you won't care about the gains and losses. If you really like it, no matter how many grievances you have, you will endure it.,If you really like it.,Then even the shortcomings are liked.。。。

If you really want to, tell her for so long, pursue your own happiness, and if you can't convince yourself, then give up decisively.

Give up this relationship, if you can influence her, you will be reformed a long time ago. Women are sensitive, you treat her like this, I believe she must have known that you like her, but she told you that she has someone she likes, and she clearly treats you as a doll, to put it mildly, you are her spare tire. She never liked you at all, what did you spend your time, energy, and money back for?

Have you ever thought about it? If you don't have diamonds, don't do porcelain work. You can't play with such a girl, go find your own feelings.

You're going to be her boyfriend, not a dad or a psychiatrist.

Comeuppance.

Everything is involved, any move at this time can change the development trend of future events, people have no way to ** the future, but to cherish the present and cherish the blessings.

I have an IQ of about 70, and I know all these words, but I don't know what they mean.

Not to mention the emotional connection.

Chain Reaction It's normal for feelings to be like this!

Two seemingly unrelated things can be united

There are many passers-by in a person's life, and the important thing is that you know how to cherish it.

The landlord is too long, I didn't finish reading the back, you can know from the front, the sooner this kind of person leaves, the better, he used to read to understand, even if a good man can't let his wife live a good life, at least he can't use his wife's money all the time, he is now sucking your blood, I suggest leaving him, what is this kind of waste going to do, if you really get married, you suffer, long pain is not as good as short pain.

After listening to your story, I can deeply understand your feelings I am really moved by such a person who pays silently and does not want to reciprocate I am moved even by a bystander like me I don't know what your boyfriend thinks Why is a girl who is so good to him He doesn't cherish it I dare to tell you for sure He will regret losing you Regret not cherishing you in the first place Don't be sad Since he has treated you like this Then you have nothing to worry about him People who really love you will not treat you like this And your biggest mistake is to be too tolerant As the saying goes: what kind of temper is used to it It will be difficult to change it in the future If he really has no money, you can help him, but you can't blindly get used to him and spoil him You have to drink him Men should be self-reliant, they must work, and they must take their due responsibility for women You are right to do this Let each other calm down You also have to see clearly Whether this person around you is worth your life.

It's not that I said, your boyfriend is so cheap, you have to regret marrying him, a scum, I know that you are reluctant to invest in the relationship for seven years, but in order to be ruthless to yourself in the future, this kind of man really wants it.

Tell you that when a person asks for you for a long time, it becomes his habit, in fact, this can be said indirectly, most of the reason is caused by you. Also, I can't see how kind he is, can he be kind to a woman who loves him so much? Hurry up and share it with him!

If you get married, it's going to be a bottomless pit of pain. Hurry up and divide !!

Such an irresponsible man should have stayed away a long time ago, because he didn't think about his future life, how could he have children in the future? ? When will you look for money if you are young?? Rely on you to support your family for the rest of your life??

The long pain is better than the short pain, and if you think about it yourself, such a person is not suitable for marriage

Maybe it's because you love him too much that your in-laws have a heavy burden. You just have a chance to talk to your in-laws.

Parted. There are really yours, you can stand such in-laws.

As the saying goes, the heart of defense is indispensable, this kind of thing can't be too hasty, think twice, contact for a while, and see the truth over time.

This guy should be quite flowery.

After all, there must be pity for the poor.

Flash Wedding??? Time can test a lot of things, and good things are not taken in the busy.

If she really loves you, she won't make this excessive request, your family's conditions are not good, the 30,000 yuan gift money has been borrowed, and their family still wants you to give 50,000 yuan, it's too unreasonable, and she insists on saying that you lied to her, this is just not telling her, how can it be called cheating, and your parents didn't let you pay back the 30,000 yuan, even if she wasn't moved, and said that you lied to her, what else do you have to give, it's a joke. This kind of people who only need money, let's stop here! Second, if it's just the opinion of the little girl's family, then come out to meet you, her family is not there, why do you only buy coffee for yourself at McDonald's, it's so selfish, how can people who only care about themselves get along with you and your family in the future?

A person's character and virtue can be seen in the smallest details! You've been out of touch for two months now, and if she doesn't want to reconcile, you don't have to reach out to her.

You can ask the introducer to ask her whether she will talk about it or not, and return the gift money to you if she doesn't talk about it.

She misunderstood and tried to explain.

Alas, the two of them have no money.

I look at this marriage, it doesn't matter if you don't get married, you will regret it if you get married.

didn't say anything, she was told by her parents, and she was rain when the wind blew on her back, and she didn't have an opinion. Hehe, you can see from your feelings that she doesn't love you very much. My sister was not bad at all when she got married, and my family was a little bit of it.

The key is that the young couple love each other. You'll have to talk to her about this, and she can't do anything if she doesn't change her mind. Now these parents are really always delaying their children's youth.

She's been misled by the family, and you can't blame her entirely. Tell more about your parents. Stupid.

Give a gift or something. Honor and honor other people's parents and ensure that there is no problem.

I hate to use money to cloud my feelings. I hate to care so much about these numbers. In a family like hers, I think there will be a lot of conflicts after marriage.

Deceived about feelings for more than a year? I'm sorry, looking at the landlord's narrative, I can't see that there is ** involved in emotions here. The landlord's newlywed house was bought by his parents, and the dowry was borrowed from his uncle.

It wasn't from other people's mouths that I learned about it afterwards, but the landlord said it to the other party himself.

Well, even if the landlord didn't explain the origin of the bride price to the woman first, there is no need to be so angry even if he knows? The landlord's uncle passed away, is the 30,000 yuan already in the hands of the landlord, and has it been transferred to the woman? If not, does that mean that the 30,000 yuan dowry is in vain?

In general, if you really want to be with each other, you don't care if you have 30,000 yuan, after all, the biggest problem, the house has been solved So why? I think that this reason can only be answered if the landlord asks the other party in person.

is not allowed to mention breaking up, but refuses to take a step back, does the other party want to save the relationship or has other plans?

What exactly do you want? "Maybe it's the most important question for the landlord to ask, and it is recommended that the landlord ask the woman out, and everyone will spread out the questions, your thoughts, her thoughts. If the other party's ideas or conditions are not acceptable to you, it is up to you whether to get married or not

Let's be honest, landlord, according to what you said, the person who cheats on feelings is not you, but the other party.

To sum up, it's just my opinion, the landlord refers to the reference, after all, feelings are the same thing, the final decision is still in your hands, not to mention the happiness of a lifetime.

You really have to think twice!

Haha, what a simple thing you think, do you want to find a woman who loves you for a lifetime, just spend more money, or do you want to find a woman who doesn't love you for a lifetime and spend less money Actually, if you can say it, you can say it, and if you can't say it, you don't want to be managed by a woman for a lifetime, especially a woman who doesn't love you, how to cough in the future now, the landlord thinks twice.