Please ask the emotional expert to point out one, two, and add points

Your story is very long and tortuous, help you analyze it, I hope it will help you:

1. You can be sure that this man is still interesting to you, after going through so much, he found out that the person he likes is you, maybe he is regretting that he didn't grasp you well. But just because he likes you and you have a boyfriend, he won't confess to you, and he's afraid of hurting you. can only be when you are a confidant, and I will confide in you when I encounter anything.

2. In fact, you still have a vague shadow of him in your heart, and you can't let go of your troubled thoughts, after all, this man is your first love, and you were so simple to like him in high school, so you can't let go of him. But life is life after all, you haven't lost your mind, and you don't want to hurt your current boyfriend, because your current boyfriend is so innocent and down-to-earth.

3. It is recommended that you cherish your current boyfriend, don't hurt the innocent, keep a proper distance from that man, and don't let your current boyfriend doubt you, so that things will be worse.

In short, you have handled this matter well, I hope you will be more careful in the future, live a peaceful and real life, and don't disrupt the originally quiet life because of some things and some people.

Bless you.

It's better to stay away from this man (but I guess you're not reconciled).

This man is at most an ordinary friend, and it is better not to have intimate contacts.

He seems to be a never-changing ** symbol when you are the object of confiding or can be played when you think about it, commonly known as a spare tire. He keeps calling you ** because he's used to it. Habit is not love.

This man is uncertain, and even if you're together, he might suddenly disappear one day or tell you that he has a girlfriend.

Don't have any illusions about him, think about it and make up your mind, and live well with your current boyfriend.

The quick knife must cut through the mess, and you can't let such a person affect your life anymore. For the wrong person, you can only skip it, don't be emotional.

There's a friend called a confidant.,LZ should know.,Each has another preference.,But the two of them still talk.,Maybe the character.,Maybe the feeling.。。

It is suggested that friends of the opposite sex who are better than ordinary friends, and boyfriends and girlfriends have the same status as the other middle, feeling a bit like brother and sister.

Can fall in love with each other.,You can also talk to each other.,But it's not recommended to talk to each other.,Personally, I think that once you talk to each other.,You'll lose each other forever.,And there's a high chance of being able to combine.。。。 Maybe LZ has another understanding, after all, everyone's experience is different, brain cells are different.

However, it is important that both parties can live happily without worries, so they are honest with each other when appropriate.

Do you like him? How much do you like it? Is it love?

Love enough to spend decades with him? Or is his affection for you worth waiting for him? Think about it and you'll know what to do.

Judging from your narrative, I feel that this man is dragging mud and water, and he is not to be troubled.

Proper distancing is a must.

What can wash everything away except tears is time, and time is used to change feelings, and the longer the time, the lighter the conflict, like a constantly diluted tea.

Life is short for decades, don't leave yourself any regrets, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and suppress yourself meaninglessly.

Root. There are very few women who men feel that they are suitable for themselves before marriage, and many women who feel suitable for themselves after marriage.

True love is not about liveliness, pomp, prosperity, and howling.

Love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love.

Loneliness is not something you are born with, but it starts the moment you fall in love with someone.

If you like someone, there will be no pain. Loving someone may be painful for a long time, but the happiness he gives me is also the greatest happiness in the world.

The origin and extinction of the fate, the strong fate and the weak fate, are not something we can control. What we can do is to cherish that short time when we meet by chance.

We may be able to love and be loved by two people at the same time. Unfortunately, we can only stay with one of them until we get old, so please make your choice as soon as possible.

If you were not loved by others, you will cherish the person who will love you in the future.

If you truly love someone, you will love yourself.

Love is not a refuge, and if you want to take refuge, you will be kicked out.

I love you, not because of who you are, but because I love how I feel when I'm with you.

If the people who love you don't love you the way you want them to, it doesn't mean they don't love you with all their hearts.

Love has always been a matter of a thousand turns. If you have never been forsaken or hurt, how can you know how to love others?

Love is an experience, and I hope it lasts a long time.

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Ten-day period. Empty: Noon.

Tatsumi. Noon.

戌海. Redemption Palace: Jishan Qian.

Dui Palace: Water and Mountain. Six gods. Submit.

God. Root. Hexagram] [Change.

Hexagram] Gou Chen. Brother Decay Gold.

Descendants of Wuzi water. Suzaku.

Descendants of the Guihai water.

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Parents of Wuxu soil. Green Dragon.

Parents are ugly.

Brother Wushenkin. Shi Xuanwu.

Brother Bingshenkin.

Brother Bingshenkin.

White tiger. Wife and wealth.

The official ghost is a noon fire. Should.

The official ghost is a noon fire. Snakes.

Parents Bingchen soil.

Parents Bingchen soil.

Ying was restrained by the sun and the moon when the 1st Yaohai water was launched, and was turned back to the throne, and the idea of the hexagram master was not practical enough; 2 should be built by the noon fire official ghost empty moon building, leaked by the sun and the moon, and the wealth of the wife and wife is hidden under it, the other party should have other people, and the other party is not sincere; 3

It is difficult to have a result, and the hexagram master should take precautions in advance, otherwise it will be the hexagram master who will be hurt;

Although the hexagram master is very active, he is actually very self-egoistic;

I believe the landlord has heard a sentence: people are very cheap, the more you cherish her, the less she cherishes you, and once she loses you, she will know your benefits.

I'm a girl I believe in your girlfriend's psychology I can guess a little People are often like this The more you treat her The more she doesn't know how to cherish it But she takes it for granted It doesn't matter to you I suggest that the landlord's attitude towards his girlfriend Don't say anything but have a countermeasure Since she ignores you You are also a little cold to her Don't always take the initiative to contact her Be sure to hold back your thoughts about her Until she can't help but contact you Don't be unbreathable It's ugly Sometimes love also needs to play tricks Why some couples between one party will grasp the other party firmly and pinch to death This has a certain relationship with the conditions of both parties in all aspects But the skills in love are also quite important In short, the balance of feelings is always uneven Either you pay a little more or I pay a little more It is recommended that the landlord try to be cold to your girlfriend If she likes you Then I promise that it will definitely have an effect.

What's better for your girlfriend Try to move her and so on will only be counterproductive Your girlfriend will only feel more and more that you are good to her and take it for granted, and aren't you both already ml This can't make your girlfriend die and it's useless for you to be obedient to her There are many examples of this around me One side is obedient to the other and is very dependent As a result, people ignore it and look like they don't care Anyway, whether it's a man or a woman, you can't be too good to your girlfriend or boyfriend Often people don't know how to cherish it).

Not an expert, but trust me to give you some important help and advice.

It could be that your girlfriend is a strong woman, or it could be that she is fragile and afraid that she will be too dependent on you and will get hurt.

This kind of confession of yours will make the other person think that you just want to have fun.

Let's try to date first, or she figured it out You don't suffer anyway.

There are two reasons why you are so stupid.

1: She likes you, but he has a boyfriend, so she also wants to save face to outsiders, so she deliberately said that you were (note, generally women will not easily say others as their younger brothers) She doesn't want others to give her a split-leg name.

2: Back then, you got to know each other more deeply by participating in the audition, so that because some aspects of you (such as money) were not good, you didn't give enough strength and aroused her motherhood, which is why she didn't want you to be wronged and hurt, and would rather be hurt yourself, at the beginning of the girl will think that this is love, but this is not love, it is obvious that this is the pure mother's feelings for the child.

First of all! You are lucky to have met her and have been helping you like that without regrets! She loves you, and it's the kind of love that doesn't ask for anything in return, the most selfless, the simplest!

She's older than you! I may be afraid that I will not be worthy of you, so I have always hidden my love in my heart! You don't even notice it!

Maybe you didn't even think about loving her! Now that you're older, I'm sure you won't be with her! So I want to find someone to marry!

Sober?

She has mixed feelings for you, she is like instinct to be so good to you that she can't be more like, and that instinct is love. But she is also afraid of worldly prejudices, after all, it is risky to love a man younger than herself, there is a celestial old Zhuhuang and he is still young, will he still love her? Maybe she has all kinds of concerns, maybe you should also think about whether you can give her happiness from the beginning, and then talk to her openly and honestly.

Confidante. She likes you, but older than you. There is a burden in my heart. No, who can help you like this.

She's not sincere with you anyway.

Maybe this girl cares a lot about other people's eyes, but in fact, she has a very complicated heart, and you should talk to her more.

Don't treat you like anyone! If your company is booming, talk about it.

You should work hard. Be a good person.

It's also possible that she really loves you.