Why is it himself who proposed to break up, why is he even more uncomfortable than him to death

Updated on psychology 2024-04-18
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

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    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

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    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

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  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, this is called love

    Because the depth of your love is true Although it is you who propose to break up, it is not that you really want to break up with him in your heart

    You still care about him in your heart, and you still love him. Actually, I'm feeling the same way I feel about you right now. However, I advise you: don't think too much, think too much and hurt yourself. Because even if you think about it, it's still impossible to recover the loss after being uncomfortable

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since you are very uncomfortable, why do you want to break up, is it a momentary anger or emotional, take other people's opinions of him too seriously, and now there is nothing. I believe that we will have everything through our own efforts, it is only a matter of time.

    Hope you find your own happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm too, and I really want to break up when I mention it, but I still think about him, I don't understand, I've been together for a long time, and I'm not used to it just after we separated.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe it's because of the reason for your breakup and the problem of determination.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because you still love each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The woman said that breaking up was not her intention.

    Because you love him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because the woman said to break up.

    It's to be retained.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The reason why the person who broke up is more uncomfortable is that the person who broke up is more psychologically stressed. Because there is a break in a relationship. The person who first brought it up had to overcome his own psychology and was reluctant to accept this situation. They broke up, so he was going to be more uncomfortable than the other person.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It should be a breakup, and I think about it more!

    Maybe the person who mentions the breakup, considering that the two people are together has no result, maybe the two people are hurting each other together, so the person who mentions the breakup will consider the breakup.

    I also mention that people who break up will be more sad!

    Maybe I can't even believe that I've come this far.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, unless you have never loved him or her, you will be sad, because you have lost the person you once loved, the memories are still there, sad because the happy memories are more profound, only time is a good medicine to solve your troubles, as long as you think about the end also means the beginning. I am coming again. Maybe there will be a lot less pain.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you have broken up, but you may feel very painful, your boyfriend will not be particularly painful, mainly because you have invested a lot in this relationship life, and the other person no longer loves you, so the other person will not be painful at all. So you must be a smart person, if the other party no longer loves you, everyone must leave each other quickly at this time. Demolition or absolute.

    If you are very involved in a relationship and you take the relationship very seriously, if you break up, you will feel very painful at this time, because you feel that you have put in a lot of effort, and now the relationship is not having a good ending, so you will feel very sad, but the other person will not think so. Because the other party is not so devoted, so the other party may feel very happy, and the other party will not feel very painful, so everyone must also be smart, if you don't feel love, at this time you will definitely leave each other.

    We must be rational in our love life, and feel that we don't need to invest too much, otherwise you will find yourself in special pain, so these problems need to be paid attention to, so that you can become better, and you will not let yourself be so miserable. If the other person doesn't love you anymore, you must leave the other person at this time, because in this relationship, you will become very miserable, and you may also feel very uncomfortable.

    These problems are necessary to attract everyone's attention, so everyone must care more about themselves in life, and they must also care more about their other half. If the other person doesn't love you anymore, you don't need to do it at this time. So you must persevere, and if you don't feel love, you must leave quickly at this time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is because I can't see the pain of the other party at all, so I feel that only I am in pain, and it is also because I can't let go of the other party.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This is because I have invested too much energy in this relationship, and it is also because I have paid more, so I feel more painful.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, the other party is in pain, but you can't feel it, after all, you have loved each other quietly in Pie, especially those who have been talking for several years, this also depends on the time to judge, because some people are lucky and he is sad, but he will not show the dust, especially if he is well disguised, just like Scorpio.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This situation may be due to the fact that you care too much about the relationship, so you are the only one who suffers after the breakup.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The closer the relationship is, the fewer other goals you can choose from, and the more painful the breakup will be. Constantly create your own independent personality and gradually improve your three views, only if you have a relativity of the established three views and the same view of love, it will be easier to find the same, and the pass rate will be much greater. You still have to figure out that the items included in love and affection are different, and you can finally live together and feel comfortable with each other, which is the most likely to achieve positive results.

    Falling in love is just an experience, you don't need to decide what work pressures are associated with this life, whether it makes you painful or makes you develop depends on yourself, and emotional happiness is in your hands and you can fight for it. Falling out of love indicates the end of an intimate relationship, and the whole process of this relationship is that you are integrating into each other.

    It's like being accustomed to eating the special food of a certain restaurant, and suddenly one day the restaurant closes down and disappears, and so much money is invested in this unsuitable relationship, and I can't find my home after investing in the past, which means that all my capital investment has been wasted and will never return. Now that this person is no longer associated with you, you will no longer have any contact. What a lonely heartache it must have been.

    The gradual development of all a relationship is happiness, and human nature is nostalgic for good things, even if they break up for various reasons, it is equivalent to losing the opportunity to find happiness, so sadness is also a matter of course.

    If you can't be together, then usher in a new life, and treat the past relationship as an experience or a dream, and you can gradually develop it! I am the best teacher. Only you know when you can get rid of the heroic step.

    Try to enjoy the randomness that comes from separation. Gratitude also gives you the opportunity to self-reflect. Now that your life has shifted its focus, you may even discover new hobbies or learn about old forgotten hobbies.

    This is also an experience in life, and there will be many hurried passers in a person's life, telling themselves that this is only a part of life. Being diligent and kind to yourself is the most important thing to do now.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Breaking up is like disappearing. Because it is estimated that people are in a bad mood during this period of time, they don't want to update anything, they don't want to update WeChat, they don't want to update, they don't want to update, they don't want to update, and they don't want to update all your kind of platform screen names. But your focus is wrong, you broke up, why do you still pay so much attention to other people?

    Broke up like a stranger. That is, old and dead do not get along. Some people also say that if you fall in love and break up, you will break up if you leave a souvenir.

    Why should you pay attention to people?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I already regard each other as my habit, so it will become very painful when I break up, but I know that I don't love each other anymore.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is because he has not yet walked out of this relationship, and he is also very unwilling. That's why I feel uncomfortable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It may be that you feel very unwilling, after all, you have paid a lot in this relationship, so it will be very uncomfortable.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The closer and longer the relationship, the fewer other people to choose from, and the more painful the breakup will be. Constantly shape your own independent personality, and constantly improve your three views, only you have a relatively clear view of the three views and love after you find your own similarity will be easier, and the success rate will be much greater. You also have to understand that the things that love and love contain are different, and the life that can last together and feel comfortable with each other is the most likely to go to the end.

    Falling in love is just an experience, and you don't have to decide what pressure is bound to this life, whether it makes you miserable or makes you grow up depends on yourself, and emotional happiness has to be grasped and fought for by yourself. Falling out of love signifies the end of an intimate relationship, and the process of forming this relationship is that you are adjusting to each other.

    It's like being used to eating food in a certain restaurant, and suddenly one day the restaurant closes and disappears, and you invest so much in this inappropriate relationship, and you can't get back what you paid before, which means that all your investment is in vain and gone. Now, this person has no relationship with you anymore, and you no longer have any contact. What a lonely heartache it must have been.

    The beginning of any love is beautiful, human nature itself misses beautiful things, since it breaks up for some reason, it is equivalent to losing the opportunity to find the beauty back, so it is natural to be sad.

    If you don't want to be together, then welcome a new life, the past love will be regarded as an experience or a dream, and you will slowly grow up because of it! I am the best teacher. Only you know when to take a brave step.

    Try to enjoy the freedom that comes with separation. Be grateful for the opportunity to reflect on yourself. Now that your life has shifted focus, you may even discover new interests or familiarize yourself with old forgotten hobbies.

    It's an experience in life, and people will have a lot of passers-by in their lives, telling themselves that it's just a part of life. Trying to love yourself is the most important thing right now.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is actually a very normal emotion to break up by yourself, but you are very uncomfortable, which shows that you take this relationship seriously, so you are reluctant and very sad and uncomfortable. Since you have proposed to break up, it is recommended to sort out this relationship as soon as possible, let yourself get out of this relationship as soon as possible, adjust yourself, live with a smile, and meet a better next relationship.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No matter who mentions the breakup, as long as you are in a relationship, you give your sincerity, and after the real separation, you will be uncomfortable, not that you will not be sad if you mention the breakup.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A couple of lovers choose to break up, in the previous experience, all the happiness, all the happiness, or meaningful things will end with your breakup, although the two of you are over, but those memories in your heart will not end, it will always be with you, because the breakup you proposed by yourself is equivalent to you cutting off these memories of yourself, looking at these future expectations, so the uncomfortable feeling does not have to be less than the other party.

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