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This may not be the most difficult question, but it has the most complex possibilities.
Example 1: Have you ever done something sorry for him that made him sad to death? Eventually, it will lead to a change of heart!
Example 2: Maybe you have changed, I don't mean a change of heart, but personality, appearance, etc., you are no longer the you he liked before? (Men are a little bit like the new and hate the old).
He really loves you when he loves you, and he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, don't blame anyone for changing their minds about you! Because you can't promise that you'll never change your mind. It's just that he changed his mind before you changed his mind and you were unbalanced! (Maybe you don't want to listen).
Maybe you're not good enough, because everyone has something to pursue and choose something better, including people! (It's just that he doesn't control his emotions and doesn't do a good job of being responsible for you for the rest of his life).
Marriage is a narrow door (rope): you have to tie the knot with reason, because you may meet someone you love more and love you more in your later life, but you must be mentally prepared to enter the narrow door of marriage.
Think about it, if he changes his mind, even if he stays with you, it's just a shell, and his heart is no longer with you, so what's the use? Men change their minds faster than flipping through a book! Maybe the day before, if you don't marry, the next day you can be a stranger (I know it deeply, so I learn to let go).
Besides, there are many good men in the world besides him, so why bother to be sad for an unworthy person? I wish you happiness soon!
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Because man is a fickle animal!
The world belongs to men, so it is natural for men to change their minds!
But if you're lucky, there are men who are slower to get used to.
Boys are not men yet, so they are more likely to change in the process of becoming men!
Change is true, unchanged is fake! In line with objective laws!
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When you fall in love with someone, it's mostly because they share the same views or opinions as you. He changed his mind because. He doesn't have anything in common with you anymore.
Change of heart, it's just that he sees things differently than you.
It's not the same anymore. Naturally, it will change.
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Nervous Cheap Is a woman bad for him Really, if two people are together, it's not a woman who is more tired But men will still change their minds Do you say it's cheap, it's nerve, the brain is in water, it's short-circuited, and I don't know how to cherish it.
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Because the woman did not fully attract his heart.
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Because man is inherently the most fickle animal.
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Let you wear a dress every day, will you, of course not.
Just like a man, he gets tired of a woman every day, so he will "wear" it (but he won't "throw" the original "clothes", because he will "wear" it again when he gets tired of other "clothes").
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Who said that, there are also a lot of women who have changed!
It's just that because the hearts of two people are not together, there is no point in being together!!
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Because there are many women who are also changing, so men are also changing, you know?
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Not only men's hearts will change, but women's hearts will also change.
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People who really like you won't change their minds.
When fate comes, true love will come.
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That's just a metabolic reason.
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Because they are flowery.
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If he changes, you can change it, and that's how the world is.
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In fact, it is the same for both men and women! No one is right or wrong! I want to open a little! Otherwise, I won't be able to live!!
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Think about it from another angle, won't a woman's heart change, remember that everyone changes.
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Yes, it's up to you to catch him.
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Some people (both men and women).
Think that love is just a façade!
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I often hear female friends around me complain that "when a boyfriend gets married, it's like a different person", and even some men have not yet entered into marriage, and after getting a woman, they no longer cherish women before.
Is this a woman's delusion, or has the man really changed?
Just like the problem that the subject is encountering now, the boy who used to be gentle with himself now begins to yell at himself.
What do these changes mean? First, men have changed.
In fact, people are always changing, but it is the difference between changing in a good direction or changing in a bad direction. No one, no emotion, will always be the same.
So, yelling at you now, a guy who used to be gentle means that the boy's attitude towards you has changed.
The reason for the change in the boy's attitude may be from the pressure of life, or it may be that the boy is empathetic. When all the tenderness and patience of a person is given to another woman, it is natural that there is no patience to speak softly to you.
Second, men are reluctant to pretend.
Humans are camouflaged animals, and not all tenderness comes from the heart. When a man sees a woman as a prey to conquer, he will put on his most beautiful clothes and say the most beautiful words, with the aim of nothing more than to make the woman fall completely.
When a man conquers a woman, she will naturally feel differently when she takes off her disguise.
Third, men's lives are going through great "changes".
Men don't want women to see their failures, and when the pressure hits, they get out of control and show themselves yelling.
So, what can a woman do? If the man is only occasionally emotionally out of control, the woman might as well not ask anything, say nothing, and give the man space and time to be alone. I believe that as long as the man recovers, he will apologize to the woman.
If a man suddenly puts away all his tenderness towards a woman, and the man's attitude towards other people does not change much, at this time, the woman should understand that the man is no longer in love.
Everyone will have emotional out-of-control times, and once or twice once in a while is not a problem, but if the man's attitude towards you has been so bad that he can't communicate normally, there is no need for a woman to struggle and entangle indifferently.
Leaving is the best protection for yourself.
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