I ve been in love for 2 years, and my boyfriend doesn t go to the woman s house

There are both personal and family reasons, and you can't think about things unilaterally. Here, I give my opinion:

First, the man does not have enough money to go, because if he goes to the woman's house once, the cost is still there, and if the man's income is not very good, then this is the main reason;

Second: If you are separated by a relatively long distance, and the man is busy with his work and career, it is really impossible to have time, which is also very possible.

Third: The man is not completely sure whether he has the idea of getting married, and he is still in conflict. Seeing his parents means that he is very likely to get married, so he will avoid meeting his parents.

Fourth: Is there any unsatisfactory place in the woman's family and other aspects that causes him to be not loyal enough to the love between you?

Fifth: It is not excluded that the man already has a new love, and the love between you is weak.

Oh, I've been with my boyfriend for three years, and I haven't officially met my parents, the reason, my family doesn't agree, if your boyfriend doesn't want to come to the door, it's probably because he is not ready to get married, or your family invisibly puts pressure on him to scruple, or maybe he feels that he is not capable enough to come to the door now, which requires your careful encouragement, if these are not, and the worst point, he doesn't want to fix your relationship in this way, which also means that he doesn't love you enough, talk to him well, Whatever the reason, there will be a solution, either you accommodate him, or he clings to you, or you break up (which is the worst) hoping to help you.

There is no confidence . It's good if you encourage him, because he also wants to go to your house to meet your aunt and uncle and cheer him up!

There is no certainty in mind. Or leave a way back for yourself. Or think it's not ripe.

However, the two-year period is still uncertain, indicating that the relationship is limited.

I don't think I love you enough.

But it's not absolute.

I'm sorry, but it's not interesting.

Well, there may be other reasons, you always go straight to the point and ask him if he doesn't do it.

Don't be shy.

Summary. Good evening, dear, in response to your question, the teacher's opinion is as follows: I have known each other for a year, and it seems that the two people are already very familiar with each other, and it is estimated that they should also plan to get married.

If that's the case, then the teacher thinks it's likely that your boyfriend isn't ready to meet your parents, or that he doesn't think he's accomplished enough to meet your parents like this.

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I offered to take him to see my mom but he didn't want to. But he was willing to take me to meet his family.

Good evening, dear, in response to your question, the teacher's opinion is like this: I have known each other for a year, and it seems that the two of you are already very familiar with each other, and it is estimated that they should also have the intention of getting married. If that's the case, then the teacher thinks it's likely that your boyfriend is not ready to meet your parents, or that he feels that he hasn't achieved much and is embarrassed to meet your parents like this.

But since he is willing to let you meet his parents, it means that in his heart, he still wants to marry you very much.

Can you tell me about the huge disparity between your two families?

I'm relatively young, only 18, my boyfriend has been selling messy friends for six or seven years, my mother is more anti-neutral and argues that I am in this relationship, and my boyfriend said that he was too thin and didn't make any money, so he didn't dare to go to see my mother, saying that he was afraid of being told by my mother.

Therefore, when a person has no confidence, his heart is inferior, especially in the face of his mother-in-law.

On the one hand, your mother is more disgusted with this love, and on the other hand, your man's career has not improved, so in such a situation, he will definitely not go to your house.

Are you already planning to marry him?

Not yet, I still have to prepare for college, he said he will wait for me for three years, my boyfriend has already come out to work, and I am still studying. My mom didn't agree because she was afraid that my boyfriend would interfere with my studies, and every time I went out to play with my boyfriend, my mom was very much against it and would always urge me to go home. My boyfriend and I haven't done that yet, and my boyfriend is afraid that even if I don't stay with him in the future, I'll be clean and clean Iwahiro.

That's why I've been with him for so long, and I'm still alive for the first time.

Uh-huh, then you should have a good relationship, right? You should be happy with your boyfriend, right?

Hello, I would like to share my thoughts and suggestions from the perspective of a bystander, I hope it will be helpful to you.

Our Chinese tradition is that meeting your parents means that the two of you are almost at the point of talking about marriage.

After reading your question supplement, as you said, the man feels that his marriage is very stressful and does not want to bear it. You should have read about the siege, marriage is a wall, maybe he understands that if he gets married, he will not have so much freedom, and listening to a girl obediently when he is in love is not the same as obediently listening to his wife after marriage. The nature of the restrictions is also different, one is temporary, and the other is one-time.

I think that the man may not want to get married yet, even if he has no intention of leaving, in short, the ending of love is not certain, it may be a comedy or a tragedy.

I suggest that the woman find a time to have a good chat with the man, love is mutual, both people need to communicate, if the man is still in the attitude of wanting to "play" (that is, there is no clear whether he wants to get married), then I hope the woman will also think about it, whether she has identified the man, if she really wants to live with him for a lifetime, then the woman should work hard and impress the man with her sincerity.

Finally, I wish the lover to finally become a family.

He's not ready, or maybe it has something to do with his personality.

Or not confident, or feel that the time is not ripe.

There are all kinds of ideas,,It's up to you what you think.。

People who think about it are always happy.

It's the same explanation.,He doesn't like you very much.,Or you've been together for 2 years and he's not willing to go to your house.,If he still likes you, he'll definitely go.,It's just that the ugly daughter-in-law always wants to see her in-laws.,It's a truth, you know.,He doesn't want to go because he doesn't like you.,You have to be careful.。

One, the man's recognition of you is not yet!

Second, the man has something to hide from you!

If you were going to get married, then you should have gone to your house to meet your parents a long time ago.

It should be said that you have been in love for a long time, and the two parties have learned a lot, it is time to meet your parents, and your boyfriend should go to your house to meet your parents.

It should be, two years is not long or short, and if you don't have the desire to get married, don't go.

Are you really in love? Or just talk about love, if it's the latter, or don't see each other!

It depends on what your parents think, if you are of marriageable age, you can go.

The first time I went to your house, no one greeted him, I don't think it's a big deal, the boy made himself so pretentious. So if it's because he's having a shadow for the first time, it's just an excuse. Girls should hold it in their hands and hold it in their mouths.

But if it comes to your house, but no one entertains him, and his parents don't come out, then it's wrong with your family, if it's because of this, you can be unhappy, but you can't affect the future, after all, it's you who love each other, if you really want to be right, you shouldn't feel embarrassed.

Generally speaking, boys are more afraid of going to the woman's house, and there are probably several aspects of fear, one is that the other party's parents have a bad impression of themselves, which will affect the relationship between you. The second is that I am afraid that I will be asked this and that after I go, I will feel very pressured, and the third is that I am afraid that when I go to meet the woman's parents, I will be more relaxed than I am, and you will have a more formal relationship.

1 He may have been a trouble-prone and selfish man. What he said gave me the feeling that this man was not a responsible man, maybe because he was small, and he didn't know much about human feelings.

2 He may also be someone who is reluctant to formalize a relationship with you. This possibility is not very large, because he asked you to accompany him to buy things, pick him up, and he will go, which means that it is still possible for him to go, but there are conditions first.

So I think he should belong to the first situation, if you really like him, then teach him more or wait for him to mature.

I think maybe he still thinks that the two of you are not to this extent, although you have been in a relationship for three years, but your boyfriend has no idea of getting married, so he doesn't want to meet your parents.

Of course, it may also be because he is relatively shy, can't speak, and is afraid that he will not bring Hu Heng to your family's approval, so he wants to stabilize the relationship with you, after thinking about it clearly, give himself a little more time to argue about being a girlfriend's house.

Your boyfriend is afraid of meeting his parents, maybe your boyfriend knows how to face your father, mother, and family!

If you pretend to be a high school student and start falling in love, it's not big now, and it's not time to talk about marriage. It is impossible to go empty-handed, and he is afraid that your parents will not accept it.

It is precisely because your parents are against you and fall in love with you that he does not dare to go to your house, for fear that your parents will kick her out, and you sue Hu Xing to sue her, your parents are no longer against you falling in love, and Tan Hu then guesses that he may be willing to go with you to meet your parents.

You are still students, you must focus on learning, you can't fall in love with you, and you can't meet your parents.

I have been with my boyfriend for more than two years, but I chose to break up because of family reasons, and the girl should understand the boy's family, why she doesn't agree to be with each other, maybe because some parents think that the two families belong to the wrong situation, and they don't want to be with each other at all.

It is believed that breaking up young people as soon as possible before they get married is also considered a timely stop loss. If you wait until two people really think about getting married, they find problems with each other, and it will be easy to cause losses.

Many couples are faced with being in love for several years together, and their feelings for each other are also very deep, and when they talk to their parents about wanting to get married, their parents will oppose some of the young people's ideas. Parents will find out what the boy does in the Leaky Orange Hall, and if he feels that the boy is a person worthy of being entrusted for life, he will also feel at ease to hand over his daughter to the other party.

But if you know that the other party is a person who is idle all day long, no parent will rest assured that she will marry a woman to such a person.

Because there are many family reasons, facing the union of two people is not only two people considering marriage, but also two families choosing to come together. Knowing that the three views of the other party's family are different, the family's educational background is also different, even if young people choose to come together through their own efforts, there will still be various contradictions in the future. Therefore, there must be a reason for the opposition of parents, and we must not always consider that parents interfere with young people in love, and there is no pair of parents today who do not want their children to live well.

As a girl, you should consider the problem from the perspective of your parents, who are also afraid of women once they enter married life. When you want to escape in the future, it's too late, rather than waiting until then to let your daughter suffer again, it's better to let your daughter choose to break up with the other party in advance. Women should regain their confidence, find their own new relationship, don't hang themselves from a tree, but burying the so-called new love will also allow them to have a good life.