Is being too willful also a mental illness?

You are an insecure person, you like to get the feeling you want from the people close to you, it's not a disease, it's just some normal needs of the psyche.

In fact, you love your boyfriend very much, so you hope that he can be as good as you imagined, you give him too much expectations, but he also has his own character, so there will be friction between the two people, so he will be tired, you think about it carefully, are you thinking too idealized about love, and how much love is there in reality between the TV series and the **? In fact, you said that you were angry, so are you really angry with him or do you just want him to coax you and spoil you?

In many girls like you now, frankly speaking, I am also one, but in the end, it is myself who is hurt!

You can find something to do with his hobby, you can ask his opinion, how do you get rid of this temper, ask him how he wants you to change, occasionally give in, don't be too tough or a very heartwarming thing!

Maybe you've been hurt emotionally?

Or have you had any unpleasant experiences?

It seems that you are insecure ...... in this relationship

Maybe you can try to calm down and think about what the real cause of your gain and loss is......Think about what the real reason for the union was in the first place......

Communicate with your heart and figure out what you really want......If in the end you figure it out or something, you still love him.

Then, you can communicate your problems with him well, and if you love each other, let him accompany you to face and solve them together......

Wishing you happiness!

It's kind of a heart disease. It's a persistent emotion, and it doesn't have to be like that if you love him very much. Maybe it's because your relationship is too close and too subjective in your heart.

You will think that he is your boyfriend, and there are many things that should be done, (you have long been divided in your heart about what he should do and what he should not do).For example: sending you home at night, etc., you think he should do it but don't do it, so you naturally get angry.

Your problem is not a problem that comes from your character, it's a psychological problem that you try to put on the inside"Yes"Remove it and think about it from a different perspective. There is no one in the world"Yes"No one should do anything for you, humans are selfish and do it only for themselves. (That's a good thing to do.)

Don't hurt others, don't ask others).

In fact, it is not only the intimate relationship between men and women, but also the treatment between people. Don't preconceive about what others should do and what shouldn't.

That way you find out that you will be happy with 0

Seeing you ask, in fact, my experience and yours are poured out of the same mold. In fact, you care too much about your boyfriend's every move towards you, you want him to follow your thinking in everything, as long as you don't take the right step, you will be very depressed and angry for a long time. But you have to remember that after you are angry, you should take the initiative to find him, don't think that this will be faceless, in fact, lovers don't care about the word face.

If your boyfriend really loves you, he won't remember it. When you're done, you'll find that you need him more than ever.

I used to be like this, and I was very hurt with my husband... In fact, these bad habits are not determined to correct their own words, no matter what others say, it is useless, it may be that the scope of your life is too small.

Actually, I think genetics is also a reason. Sister, you have to change yourself, or you will be more tired in the future.

Waywardness is not the preserve of women, and men are sometimes willful, but women's willfulness and men's willfulness are generally not the same. Waywardness is not necessarily a bad thing, but willfulness regardless of circumstances, occasions, principles, and internal and external willfulness is not advisable. Be reasonable in everything, and you must not lose your mind when you are willful:

Strong words, nonsense, such an approach will be disgusted by anyone.

Actually, you probably care too much about him, right? will have such a strong reaction to his every move, two people love each other is two-sided, to know how to understand and accommodate each other, maybe give everyone a little more free space, more chat, it will be fine. If there is anything, two people will communicate slowly and face it together, and many things will be solved at once.

I think it's because you're too possessive, you care too much about him, it's a psychological hidden disease, if you relax your mind, maybe you'll be a little better. Moreover, before you have to make sure that he loves you or not

I'm just like you. Actually, think about it, if you were to do this to him, what would he do?

You must have done this to him all the time. Don't worry too much about it.

To put it simply, everyone has their own life, and it is impossible to live around others, and even if you are not someone else, but someone close to you, it is impossible to take care of you all the time, and when you think about problems, it would be much better if you could think more from the perspective of others.

You've realized your shortcomings, so why don't you correct them? Start today and learn to be genuine with everyone around you. Try it, a little bit is enough, and the satisfaction will grow more and more.

Hehe. Don't too. Finish. Two people need to understand each other! And then what. It's okay to communicate with him more in the future, and whether he really loves you.

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The so-called willfulness refers to the fact that the individual has no restraint on his own needs, desires or requirements, acts according to his temperament, and indulges himself without restraining himself; resisting and disobeying external discipline; Don't do what others ask, or promise on the surface but don't accept it in your heart!

Most of the wayward behavior is the result of parents being overly tolerant and pampered towards their children in childhood. Due to the poor self-control of some people, emotional instability, impulsiveness, and often venting their dissatisfaction with stubbornness, excessive pampering encourages willful behavior; Some people are disobedient, and their supervisors are helpless, so they let themselves go, which over time leads to the formation of willfulness.

There are some people who are born willful and spoiled by their parents, so these people will be more willful, especially women, and willful women will have more men to tolerate. Being willful to familiar people may indicate that the two are close. To strangers is willful, it is not polite, and it does not know how to be humble.

A woman is willful to a man, perhaps hoping for a man's care or help. A man is willful to a woman, which shows that this man is more self-oriented.

People have the instinctive impulse to react intuitively to things and other people's behaviors, and after people are educated, they will be constrained by reason (including moral and legal concepts and the concept of social rules for dealing with people). When people are affected by bad emotions and reason cannot restrain their inner impulses, they will be willful. Occasional willfulness is unavoidable, and often willfulness is a manifestation of insufficient sanity, which will affect interpersonal relationships.

People will be willful, not only the embodiment of personal characteristics, but also environmental factors, as well as the possibility of instant performance; Some are congenital genes, some are created by the acquired environment, and some are willful when they have money and power. Waywardness is a kind of temper, which is formed by the people who often stay next to you too doting, so you have to do your own things, and willfulness is a bad temper.

Because some people are used to it, they will be willful.

Because you are rich, you are willful, because you are willing, if you live and don't go on with your own willful character, you have to worry about this and worry about that, how can you be happy when you live.

It should be a natural defect that cannot be controlled normally, and I am very sympathetic to this kind of person, after all, it is different from ordinary people.

Because there is always capital, or young, handsome and beautiful, or smart or rich.

personal living environment.

But it also depends on how capricious you are, you and your family and lover are okay with your little willfulness, as long as it's not a big deal, it doesn't matter, you have to know the severity. It's really annoying to be willful at work, and it's usually spoiled by your family.

Wayward people are generally tied to face.

It depends on whether you love face or don't care too much about other people's eyes and opinions.

I can't control my emotions.

Because we want to live only for ourselves, but most of us are morally kidnapped to live for others.

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