I met someone I liked on a blind date, but he didn t take the initiative

Updated on society 2024-04-04
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm a girl, I agree with the idea that girls can also take the initiative, you don't care if he is annoyed or not, if he doesn't like you, it's not annoying and it's okay, at least you have a 50% chance of success.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What's wrong with girls taking the initiative, after all, it's for their own happiness!

    Don't miss your chance! Wishing you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hey, how can I not touch it, depressed, take the initiative to be Don't let happiness run away, I can't stand it, this boy is also very shy, I'm like this, which girl I like, I'm embarrassed to say Oh, wait for others to take the initiative

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Someone told me that women chase men compartment yarns.

    Although I didn't chase the person I wanted to chase, I hope you can get your happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Upstairs, did you copy it?

    Friends, grasp this feeling and try to chase it!

    As the friend above said, happiness is your own!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it's better to say no. Because since you can't like each other, then you should make it clear to the other person in time and don't delay each other's time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can try to get along for a while, and if you don't feel like it by the end, then you can give up. Because after the two got married, they have been together for too long, if it is only one aspect of the effort, that person will be tired, and conflicts will break out at that time, so it is better to end it early.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you feel that it is suitable, you can continue to get along and adapt to it, and if you feel that it is really inappropriate, you should refuse it directly and tell him not to drag it out.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In love, it must be a man who takes the initiative, and if that man doesn't take the initiative, I'd rather miss it! I've never been a person who will take the initiative to contact, if I don't dislike this blind date, if he takes the initiative to contact me, I will respond to him very friendly and polite! If he doesn't contact me, even if I have a crush on him, I don't care if I don't force it!

    If the conversation is good and he is sure that it is my boyfriend, I will be more proactive than I thought! If you have a general understanding of the situation, you can prescribe the right medicine. If you really like the other party, the other party does not take the initiative to contact you, then you might as well take the initiative, no matter what, at least to determine the other party's true thoughts, if the effort is still fruitless, then there is nothing to regret, you don't dare to try.

    Like is like, don't like is not like, never like to consume other people's time and feelings, for the person you like, you have to work hard to fight for yourself, don't like the person will never pretend, you know, you spoil the sincerity of others, sooner or later one day will be trampled on by others. In any case, it is better to act than to move, give yourself a chance, and give others a chance, there are not so many rights and wrongs in the world of feelings. Both men and women must keep information exchanges when they first meet, and you can ask each other how their impression of themselves is, and ask for advice.

    I watched a show that said that the blind date man has been unsuccessful for more than 100 times, some get along for a few months at most, and some of them break up after a few days, and finally summarize the reason, even the first time they meet, they ask a lot, and they don't get along, who can stand it, so sometimes we have to find the reason, don't miss a good marriage.

    The other party doesn't like you too much for the time being, but as long as you don't reject you, you still have a chance. The other party doesn't take the initiative to contact you, but you can take the initiative to contact the other party! Because the two of you are not very familiar with each other, I think you should make an appointment to get to know each other more, and only when you know each other well enough can you have a common topic to talk about, such as making an appointment to eat and watch a movie.

    Only by having more contact and understanding can we shorten the distance between each other and cultivate feelings.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since he doesn't take the initiative, then you take the initiative, don't care about anything, whoever takes the initiative will drop the price, whoever takes the initiative will lose, and so on, since it is love, then it doesn't matter who takes the initiative first, if you don't have feelings for him, then change it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the blind date is a woman, there are two reasons for not taking the initiative to chat. First of all, she thinks that you don't meet the requirements and can't meet the expected standards, so she naturally won't take the initiative to chat; The second is that there are better people who show up, but you can't be sure if they will succeed or not, so you have to be left as an alternative.

    1. Make steps Sometimes the blind date doesn't talk to you, and it is very likely that you don't meet the requirements. At this time, you can post a beautiful ** in the circle of friends, or something you are good at, such as food manufacturing, dancing and other plus points. This will not only increase the topic, but also show personal beauty.

    2. Avoid sensitive topics: Talking to each other about getting married and having children, and how to spend your future life are taboo on blind dates. Because the other party will feel that this is a loveless marriage, and just use her as a tool to have children, the failure rate of blind dates will be greatly increased.

    Questions. The place where she was sent to work was also played together for a day, and they still had feelings for each other, and then I went to work in other provinces, and then I didn't reply to the message after that.

    Maybe it's still relatively unfamiliar, or maybe she went back and thought it wasn't a good fit.

    Questions. The time we spent together was pretty good, I don't understand.

    You can ask her directly what she thinks, you don't have to wait all the time, you can't guess it, after all, it's a blind date, if she doesn't want to, forget it.

    If she wanted to, it could be urgently addressed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The blind date is very inactive, if it is his personality problem, you can take the initiative, if he does not take the initiative because he does not like you, he wants to refuse, no matter what the situation, if you like him, you can take the initiative to pursue him, for love is worth it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If your blind date is not active, we have to take the initiative at this time, because if two people go on a blind date, if both of them don't speak, they will definitely not get along, you can take the initiative, so maybe she will take the initiative to chat with you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your blind date is very inactive, it depends on whether he is a person of that kind of personality, if he is a person of that kind of character, then you have to take the initiative, you have to take the initiative to talk to him and chat with him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Take the initiative to contact, don't be alone in unrequited love, and don't guess alone at home.

    Also, if you want to lower your expectations for love, you should first treat the blind date as an ordinary friend

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your blind date used to be very active with you, and now suddenly it doesn't take the initiative, then it must feel that it is not appropriate after getting along, maybe because you are a little busy at work, you can take the initiative to contact and see.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you like him very much, you can take the initiative, and then you can also take the initiative to provoke the topic, you can also ask the other party to eat or watch a movie, if the other party's attitude is not obvious, you can make it clear to the other party in time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you pick something that the other party particularly likes to discuss, the speed and frequency of the other party's reply will be much higher, so I have always asked everyone to know more about each other's preferences, whether they are blind date or in love, which is very, very important.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The blind date partner is not very active, so as a boy, you should take the initiative to chat with her, which can also promote your relationship to warm up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can take the initiative – however, don't take the initiative for things that have to do with emotions. Just like an ordinary friend to say something innocuous and try the other party's meaning first.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This shows that the other party doesn't like you at all, do you still need to ask? So now, it's up to you, and if you like it, then you feel like if you don't like it, then let it go.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    At this time, you have to take the initiative a little more, love must always start with someone, if it's not the other party, then it should be you, it doesn't matter if the boy takes the initiative.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Then I think you can ask her and ask him if you like it. Or the ideal type, because if you don't take the initiative in general, you should not like it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think if you want to have a relationship with the other person, then if the other person doesn't take the initiative, you can take the initiative a little bit, and if he is still like this, then there is no need to continue the conversation.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If your blind date is very inactive, then you give up on this partner and look for a better one.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If the other party doesn't take the initiative, then you are the master!

    If you have a crush on him.

    Now there is no boy or girl who takes the initiative, that is, whoever wants to take the initiative will take the initiative.

    It won't affect anything.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think if you have a crush on your blind date, then be brave enough to take the first step instead of waiting for the other person to take the initiative.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The blind date is very inactive, is to ask the reason, to see if there is any idea?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Everyone's blind date may just be that two people have agreed to their parents, so when we go on a blind date, it is very normal not to call the blind date, but if we don't call the current object, he likes us a lot, in fact, I think it can also get along appropriately, and then decide.

    Although we don't call the blind date, it is very likely that we will find him good in the process of getting along with him, because when we first met on a blind date, we just got to know each other roughly. Because the other party likes us, he will also be more attentive in this process, and then when we get along, we can also feel each other's feelings.

    There may be times when our first impression is that we don't treat each other very well, but after slowly getting in touch, we will find that he is actually a very interesting type that I like. What's more, the purpose of the blind date itself is to find a partner, so if we have the possibility of development in this process, we can also actively try. It's not just about giving the other person a chance, it's also about giving yourself a chance, because sometimes we can't judge the other person's words based on our first impressions alone.

    If we decide not to contact him again, we may even miss out on a good person, and it doesn't hurt to get to know him better. In the process of continuing to get along with him, I feel very comfortable, or there is a possibility of development, which is naturally very good. Sometimes we have more contact with each other, understand each other a little more, to know whether he is suitable for themselves, finding a partner itself is not a simple matter, we need to look at the other party's attitude towards themselves and their own conditions, so in the process of getting along, we can also further understand these things.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You should get along, you must try to get along with each other, so that you can know a situation of the other party, and then choose to separate if you feel that it is not suitable.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Should. You should try to get along with each other, so that two people can have the possibility of development, don't refuse, and avoid leaving regrets.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You shouldn't get along, because you don't like each other in your heart, so the two of you don't develop together, and you have to make it clear to each other.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Blind date in modern society is a very common way to find lovers, especially some older people, the family is always anxious to give themselves a blind date, although the blind date is regarded as very helpless by young people now, but it has to be admitted that there are still many couples who finally went to the wedding hall through the blind date, so there is no need to resist the blind date. If you meet someone on a blind date, and the other party likes you very much, but you feel average about the other person, should you go on?

    First of all, you must know why you don't like the other person, this should be the best for you, because this is your feelings, if you think the other person has any shortcomings is youVery intolerableYes, then there is no need to continue at all, because sometimes love at first sight is very worthy of reference, and some people just don't have an eye for themselves, so they make a decision after understanding their true feelings.

    If the other party has no fatal flaws that you can't accept, but you just feel that you haven't developed a good impression of the other party, then you can actually try to develop. After all, blind date and our free love are very different, we will have a situation where we don't know each other well in a short period of time, so if you can still accept each other, but the time is a little short and you don't know each other well enough, then stillIt is possible to get along with each other, inGet to know each other wellMake your choice later.

    In fact, no matter which way you choose, the most important thing is to follow your heart, some people go on a blind date completely to deal with their families, so even if the blind date object is something they don't like, then accept it all, in fact, this kind of thinking is not right, since we want to choose someone who spends our lives with ourselves, we must choose the right one, and it is what we like. So even if it's a blind date, you have to follow your heartIf you like it, you accept it, and if you don't like it, you can take it nextThere is absolutely no need to make choices that you don't like in order to cope with others.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think it's better not to try to have a relationship with the other person, if you don't like the person and you force yourself to be with him, you won't be happy, and it's a waste of other people's time.

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