I have questions about this relationship, should I ask about my boyfriend s troubles?

Updated on society 2024-04-14
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't ask just yet, if he's still like this for a month, you can ask.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe it's really a problem in my career.

    For men, money is the prerequisite for them to start a family and do whatever they want, so if they have a setback at work and things don't go their way, it's easy for them to lose enthusiasm for everything.

    You better comfort and comfort him first, don't give too many complaints, and accompany him through the difficulties, the so-called bad wife won't go to court.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The landlord's current mentality is obvious, I feel that he deceived you to account for sixty percent, did not lie to you accounted for forty percent, this forty percent is still your inner prayer, strong consciousness to pity yourself, the following is my point of view.

    One, you just started asking questions and generously stated that it was all your distress and his badness, and then you didn't want to add his good, you are obviously afraid that we will say the answer you don't want to hear in your heart and leave some hope, am I right?

    Second, since you don't want us to say that he is bad, or that we are afraid that we will extinguish the only hope in your heart, then it means that you still like him very much, and since you still like him, then no matter how we say it, you will still go to him to redeem him, since you like it, then go and continue to love.

    Three, I personally think that he likes you, maybe it's really because of business problems, most of the men are actually career-oriented, because they all believe that only career success is the most attractive, give him a month, let this time to calm his mood, and give himself mediation is also considered to give him mediation.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Have confidence in yourself, don't think too much, maybe he's just a matter of work, give him a warm greeting once in a while, give him some time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    - Go ahead, hit a **, when necessary.

    Be a day detective!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If I were him, I would probably think, "I've been on it all, it's boring." ”

    He doesn't necessarily want to dump you now, but your development will definitely not be good in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can ask him about some business things, and tell him to talk about the unhappy things and feel better, don't be alone Although you can't help it, but say it and relax appropriately, which will help you think and solve problems! If he says something specific, it will help you tell if he wants to dump you! If he doesn't even say anything like this, then he wants to dump you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In short, this person's quality is not high, and if he is in trouble, he will hurt others, and you can judge that he doesn't like you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Man, that's the case, if you give it to him, he'll give you a face. Destined to be a cup.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If he is cold to you because business is not going well, then his heart is too small! You should try to communicate; Tell him how you feel!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I really want him to say it, but not too directly, in writing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Since we are together, we have to communicate well.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Do you know him, get to know him well.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love is not to get bai, love is actually to let go. du

    It may sound weird, but love is like this kind of love is like the sand in your hand, the tighter you answer, the faster it will be lost.

    It's not time to talk about marriage yet, I still care more about the people around me, in fact, I'm a boy, and I used to care about my girlfriend a lot.

    I'm afraid that she will run away with others, but in fact, it is too much of a concern.

    Now that they are separated, they realize that love requires mutual trust in each other.

    Shift your attention to your studies and spend more time with your classmates, so that you may be more fulfilled.

    Hope it will help you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Long-distance relationships need lovers more copies

    between trust and reason. It might be better to have more magnanimity. If you keep an eye on it too closely, maybe DAO will backfire and push your sweetheart into the arms of others.

    From my personal point of view, two people who fall in love together, after the honeymoon period, may enter a plateau. During this period, I think it is when the two of them really start to run in. A little more forbearance and reasonable stammering, life is originally made up of those trivial things, after falling in love, everything will be dull, how to create some romance and freshness, it depends on yourself.

    This is just a little suggestion from me, after all, love is two people's own business, and the taste of it still needs to be grasped and experienced by the parties themselves.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First, you have a lot of free time, and if you give yourself a full schedule, you don't have time to focus on only this one problem every day;

    Second, you are easily disturbed by the external environment, and you may think that his feelings for you have cooled down because of TV dramas, news, and **, so the most important thing is that you are not confident, you must trust yourself and appreciate yourself! If you don't find something good about you, you can ask people around you to evaluate what you are good about, or make yourself good by learning personal hobbies;

    3. Dress up and hairstyle while being confident, you can change and dress yourself beautifully; At the same time, improve your self-cultivation and temperament, I believe you will be able to become the object of many excellent boys!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you really love him, learn to trust him. But a relationship that needs to be carefully maintained does not necessarily have results, won't you be tired, the relationship is originally "together, distogether", in the effort once, confess your worries and uneasiness, if he doesn't care at all, why should you be obsessed with him. Why should a man wronged himself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Two people are together just to be happy, especially a guy, what he wants is a girlfriend who is considerate and understands him, and if you keep asking him like this, it will be annoying! What you have to do now is to ask him to feel your warmth, you can ask if you want, you can pick a few questions that you think are more serious, to show that you care about him, the relationship between two people is a rubber band, you have to master the degree, not too far, not too close. And then create a happy atmosphere that will make him smile when he thinks of you!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The important thing for two people to do together is trust, and if you can't even do this, then you don't love him.

    Remembering that love is based on trust and directness, and if you want to have the most sincere love, then you have to trust him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That's right, I also had problems, it was all in the past, and in the end I didn't handle it well, and we broke up.

    In fact, what a man needs is space, what he needs is time to work hard, you shouldn't bother him, if he has you in his heart, even after many years, he succeeds, you have waited for him silently for so long, he will come to you. There's nothing wrong with listening to my sister.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's your sensitivity that annoys him and wears him up. Feelings are like sand in your hands, the tighter you grip them, the easier it is to leak through your fingers. The relationship is still if it is about to leave, and it is better to keep it fresh.

    Trust each other. You can do more other things to distract yourself. Know that this man is not all you have in your life ...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it's good that your boyfriend can last for two years, he is more sensitive, stingy, and jealous, and he will be unhappy when he sees other girls who care about him, which is a major hidden danger after marriage.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Even if you care about him a lot, you have to give each other a personal space and don't hold the other person too tightly, because this will make him feel breathless.

    You also have to learn to trust him, because the most important thing for 2 people to be together is to trust each other.

    Also, since he said that you are not cheerful and sunny enough, then you have to try to change, and if you really like someone, you must be willing to change yourself for him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You need to communicate, do your own thing, and don't get stuck in your feelings. You've trapped yourself in a strange circle of feelings, and you've learned to let go.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I can see that you like him a lot, but you can't be too annoyed, boys don't like girls who are too proactive. But if he cares about you very much, if so, it means that he still loves you, if not, then you have to think about it, if it is the former, it is best to handle your relationship well.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It is not difficult to see that you love him very much, but love is like holding sand in your hands, the tighter you grasp, the more you will lose, love should be like flying a kite, giving each other space to fly freely, but it is very skillful to grasp the line, think about it...

    I wish you a sweet love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Generally, the shelf life of love is only three months, and you have been together for two years, so you have to learn to adapt to the process of having a hot love to be dull, and any enthusiasm is going to be dull. Proper communication helps to stabilize the relationship, but don't be so sensitive, no matter how much you love your man, he can't stand not believing that he has a woman, you must learn to shift the focus of your life to other places, such as parents, siblings, and he is not the only one in your life.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your reaction should be that he can't give you enough security, so you don't trust him. And you're stuck in a vicious circle. Sometimes the appearance of a person is not to play all the roles of first love, current boyfriend, and future husband.

    When it's time to let go, you may find that there are so many good things about each other. Don't wait until you finally feel that a glance at the other person is superfluous.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Take a look at romance** and experience what true love is, love is giving, not returning! If a man doesn't explain to you, it means that he doesn't have much, if he really has something, he will definitely make up a reason, he has a lot of brains to think about, it's all women who are in love and pay more attention.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You are too distrustful, the most important thing for two people to be together is to trust each other, you have been suspicious, boys will think that you don't trust him, maybe in your heart too untrustworthy, keep talking about trivial things in life can promote your relationship and let him know what you are thinking.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Long-distance relationships are not very good to insist on, two choices, one is that you go to him, and the other is that he comes to you. If he doesn't come to you, it's up to you, if you want him to go to a city with him, if you don't want him to break up. My husband and I are like this, I love him, and I will go if he goes.

    Now that we're married, he's been nice to me. We were in a stable relationship because he knew that no other woman would love him as much as I did.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You should see a psychiatrist if you have had anything before that hurt you. If you don't have anything to suggest you break up, he's not your cup of tea, and you need a man who cares for you and tolerates you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you say or ask anything more than three times, the other party will be disgusted, if it is not annoying just on the surface, the heart will definitely be uncomfortable, often think about it yourself.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The person who loves you will never be annoyed by you, no matter how many times you ask him, but not necessarily.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If he loves you very much, he shouldn't be annoyed, because most of us feel that we are liked by ourselves, and the people we love are proud and happy when needed, of course, if he doesn't like you very much, if you ask him a lot of questions, he will naturally annoy you, after all, who wants to waste a lot of time on someone who is not so important?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Every man thinks differently, some of them may be upset when they ask two or three times, and some of them you don't feel upset no matter how much you ask.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Hehe, it's very similar to my friend's personality. He is also not very good-tempered, he gets angry easily, and ignores people when he gets angry.

    There are several methods that work quite well on him:

    1. If it's because of someone else or something else that makes him unhappy, deliberately says some nonsense to him, or it doesn't matter if he makes a fuss, pretends to be cute and pretends to be stupid, he will sometimes be amused by you, and then sigh and pass.

    2. If you provoke him to be angry and ignore you because of your affairs, you will first soften italy, and he will definitely ignore you to make trouble, and then you will deliberately pretend to be anxious to scold him, but don't really scold people, such as learning his mantra or the tone of his speech, such as deliberately pretending to be angry and saying to him: "Stingy!!" Why are you so stingy!

    Stupid! If he still ignores you, you will deliberately pester him and keep making trouble, the purpose of this is just to let him spread the fire, because he is introverted and angry and does not like to talk, he will hold it in his heart, you make trouble a few times, he can't help it, maybe he will say: "I'm stingy, how about it!"

    As long as he speaks, it's easy to do, just tease him according to the situation, if it's because of your problem that makes him angry, you let him vent his anger at you, at this time you pretend to be pitiful and coquettish, and the general boy will be soft-hearted (as long as he loves you very much), and the anger will disappear.

    3. If he is in a bad mood because he is not working well, or is very tired and tired, you should not quarrel with him, just tell jokes with him intentionally, such as: "Eh, I saw a story today", or gently chat about some irrelevant things with him, let him relax. It's best to know what he's interested in, and talk about what he likes at this time.

    If you're together, watch TV with him, hug him and talk about things on TV, and if you're not together, send some funny posts on the Internet for him to see. It's going to get better.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Then you will know it earlier, because men and women should communicate more and communicate more, and they can solve problems together.

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