What is Dabao s attitude towards the second child?

Dabao's words for the second child must be a loving attitude, that child still dislikes his younger brothers and sisters, he must love his younger brothers and sisters.

Some may be very good, very loving, and really share everything with him, and some may hate to reject the second child and beat the second child.

There may be a little rejection, just feel that the love of the parents is given to the second child, and then you don't care about yourself, and you may be a little sad.

My family Dabao likes his sister very much, and he has always wanted a sister, and this sister is his birthday wish, so my brother really loves Erbao.

There is a big gap between the two children in my family, and the eldest daughter is already very sensible, so she will let her younger brother love him very much, and I am very pleased.

Now parents have changed their concepts and have two treasures to take care of the emotions of the big baby, but some parents go too far to accompany him in order to take care of the big baby. For example, the younger brother in infancy grabbed the toy, and the mother asked Dabao to beat the younger brother and snatched the toy back, but the younger brother cried.

In fact, excessive love is doting on children.

I think it's best to have two children at most, because having too many children will be very messy and troublesome, and life is also very stressful, and every day is very hard, and I really can't stand such a big injury and consumption.

Be cautious around the circle. First of all, when parents feel bad emotions, first be aware of the emotion, and then try to find ways to adjust, such as sharing their feelings with their partners and finding solutions together, if the partner can not provide support, you can practice breathing relaxation, relaxation, or divert attention, such as reading, housework, exercise, etc. When a hedgehog hugs someone, it will definitely prick the other.

Therefore, only after dealing with your bad emotions can you maintain a peaceful mood and get along with your children.

Secondly, parents should understand their children's emotional and psychological changes, changes in children's living habits and learning styles will produce bad emotions, and they should try to accept and empathize with their children's emotions, give the greatest understanding and support, and truly share their emotional and psychological changes with their children. This is a very important point and also lays a solid foundation for a healthy and stable parent-child relationship.

Third, it is important to maintain boundaries and preserve space. Parents do their own work and household chores and do not have to "supervise" their children's every move all the time. Of course, some children's self-discipline may not be so good, when the child cannot manage their own learning, work and rest, the family should "remind", make a plan with the child, and reward and punish if necessary.

Fourth, the goal of raising children is physical and mental health, so in addition to learning, parents can arrange some activities and topics to promote parent-child relationship, so that sharing time becomes loveful, interesting and effective, so if you want to open some, don't be too entangled, each has its own benefits, and you feel happy.

It's good to have a second child, the reason is that Dabao has a companion, and he feels that he will be more satisfied when he gets old and has a dependent.

1. Dabao has a companion

When I was an only child before, if the child had older brothers and sisters, younger brothers and sisters, I felt that I couldn't stand it. But now that the second child is released, many families have two children, and your child will be lonely alone.

My colleague's granddaughter's cousin had just added a little brother, and she saw that someone else had a little to take care of, and she wanted one herself, so she went home and said to her mother, "You can give me a younger brother too." Originally, the mother didn't want a second child, but she couldn't help but add a second child to her sister, coupled with the persuasion of the people around her and the mobilization of the child, this also entered the stage of preparing for pregnancy and preparing for the second child.

It's actually good for a child to have a companion, the eldest wants a companion himself, and after having another child, he will definitely help you take care of it. Two children love each other, isn't it particularly happy.

2. I feel old and have a dependence

The eldest is big, has his own work and family, if he has a second child, he will help do this and that by his side, chat and walk with him, do you think life is still very promising.

3. Be more satisfied

Under normal circumstances, I hope that both children will be fulfilled, and if this wish is fulfilled, I will feel that my life is so fulfilling. But even if you don't have both children, it's not bad, and it's very happy to have two children.

As a mother, I still have some thoughts about having a second child. Dabao is not opposed to us having a second child, on the contrary, he is particularly supportive, which should have a lot to do with the family environment.

Having a second child is a more personal decision, and each family's considerations are different.

If we consider the impact of having a second child on the whole family, we can analyze the following aspects to look at this decision of parents.

First and foremost, we should respect our parents' decisions.

For the choice of parents to have children, the family burden and family happiness should be the main considerations. If the parents are determined to have a second child and the conditions allow, we should understand and support the parents' decision.

Especially in some traditional societies and cultures, the idea of having more children and more blessings is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. In this case, parents want to have more than two children that deserve respect and understanding.

Secondly, we should see the impact of having a second child on the whole family.

Whether it is the decision to have a child or the subsequent education and growth, it requires family planning and joint efforts.

The emergence of a second child not only has an impact on the family economy and organizational management, but also affects the growth environment and family atmosphere of the previous only child.

Therefore, we should plan our families to minimize or avoid these effects as much as possible.

After the most elevated congratulations, we should keep a peaceful mind.

When looking at parents' reproductive decisions, we should adopt a rational and peaceful attitude.

Many people may think that the family conditions are better, and they must have two children to be considered a "perfect family", but this is not necessarily suitable for Yu Gaopai himself, and it is not necessarily the best choice.

On the contrary, if you can't meet the energy and conditions of the second child, don't blindly follow the trend, pursue the so-called "human touch" and family harmony, "scramble and care", but it may have a negative impact on yourself and the whole family.

In short, it is a private choice for parents to have two children. We should respect the parents' decision, but also consider the impact of the second child on the whole family, and maintain a peaceful mind.

Only on the basis of rational and scientific assessment of one's own actual situation and family needs can we make correct family planning decisions and bring more sustainable, healthy and happy development to the family.

1. Turn off the scum and shout the key to see the parents and family.

There are pros and cons to one thing, and a second child is not necessarily bad for you. Whether you will have a little playmate or a little influence on you depends on what kind of family your family is, what the atmosphere is, whether your parents are patriarchal, and so on. If your parents are more open-minded and will not let you let it go everywhere because the second child is young, and will not let you lose anything, why stop it?

If your parents are patriarchal and you are worried about your status, of course Hongye has to come up with the right and effective solution.

2. Consider family conditions.

On the premise of looking at the parents, it is also necessary to help the parents consider the factors of family conditions. If the family conditions are good, after giving birth to a second child, it will not make you lose your original life, so you can not stop it; But if the family conditions are not good, it is not recommended for parents to have a second child, because it is difficult to raise you one, let alone raise a younger brother and sister!

3. It's also good for you.

If your parents add a younger sibling to you, it will be better for you to take a long-term view. If you are an only child, when your parents are old, the task of supporting your parents will fall on you alone, but if you have a younger brother or sister, you can support your parents together at that time, which will reduce a lot of burden for you.

4. Parents are not there to take care of you.

After many years, your parents are gone, and you are old, but your younger siblings are still young, and you don't have no relatives, wouldn't it be nice that your younger siblings who are in the same vein as you can take care of you.