Haven t been in love because you re ugly?

Usually, but not necessarily.

Men are accustomed to thinking with the lower body of visual animals, the first instinct to find the opposite sex object, is to look beautiful, figure**, of course, each individual aesthetic is different, some like slightly fat, some like the backbone, some like charming, there are habits to neutral style, and so on.

The same is true for women, you look at the popular students in the film and television industry, which one is not handsome? The crazy little girl excitedly called her husband directly, which shows that the woman is indeed a visual animal. In addition to appearance, wealth, social status, and knowledge are also very important, but the former is the first condition.

In non-populated campuses, communities, enterprises and other groups, if a person is surrounded by a large number of single members of the opposite sex of the same age, but no one cares, it is likely to be ugly and unbearable to look at, such as improper facial features, dark and rough, too short, obese or too thin, and unpleasant voice, if there is no solid family resources and outstanding talent, then who will be interested? There is also a very low possibility, this person is too beautiful, too handsome, if the family is powerful, or the individual has outstanding talent and greater social influence, such as celebrities, it will make others ashamed of themselves, dare not approach, dare not climb.

No, it's because fate hasn't arrived yet.

Of course, it's not self-confidence, feelings need fate.

Not really, it depends on the individual.

1. Fate has not arrived;

2. Abandon inferiority, meet the future with a confident smile, and the charm of self-confidence is unstoppable;

There is only one disease in the world, and that is the disease of poverty.

Gong Ci (Gu Zheng) five-word rhythm poem.

Ugly is worthy of falling in love. It's not that if you don't have good looks, you can't have a good love.

It is undeniable that people with advantages in appearance will also be treated more favorably in life, and they are even more important in love. Everyone has a love for beauty, and it is normal for a partner to have requirements for appearance. But this does not mean that without good looks, you can't have a good love.

Psychological research shows that people will evaluate and value their partners like other items when choosing a partner, and the more equal the quality of two people, the more likely they are to choose each other.

When choosing a partner, people mainly focus on the following six factors: appearance, material or property, status or fame, knowledge or learning, social demeanor or character, and personality. These elements are more or less equal, and even if they are not equal, they can be balanced by making up for them as a whole.

So physical appearance is certainly an important factor in the opening of love, but there are many other factors that can allow you to reap love when you are lacking in physical appearance.

I like the movie "Mo Di" (also known as "Painted Heart World"), the heroine has no dazzling beauty, is born disabled, walks staggeringly, and can't hold things steadily. No one gave her love since she was a child, but she found her love, a grumpy fisherman. She painted the colorful world with her own hands, and not only the people who bought her paintings felt her love for the world, but her husband was also full of love and reverence for her.

The movie is based on real events, Mo Di is a "lame bird" abandoned by God, but she has never lost her love for life, she poured all her enthusiasm into life, wrote a legend of flapping wings, and wrote a myth of love. Appearance does not represent everything, and appearance cannot be the criterion for judging whether a person can reap love.

No. It is also everyone's right to fall in love. Although people are visual creatures, they will consider each other's appearance before falling in love.

But that's not the only criterion for judging whether a person is suitable to be together. Appearance is genetic, and it can also be improved through acquired modifications. If a person rejects another person because of their appearance, although it is not reproachful, it will also miss out on some very good people.

Be bold to love, and you will always meet someone who likes and appreciates you.

Personally, I think that whether it is worth falling in love is not directly related to a person's appearance and appearance, whether a person is good-looking or ugly, he has the right to fall in love and pursue his own happiness.

As the so-called lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi, it is not that a person with a relatively high appearance will definitely be able to get the love he wants, nor does it mean that a person is mediocre in appearance, or even that he is not worthy of love if he is ugly. For two couples, what really attracts each other should be all-round, the external image is only one of the very small aspects, the reason why two people are attracted to each other and appreciate each other, or is that the two people, the three views, are generally close, and the two people can understand each other and tolerate each other.

Especially for those who have a mediocre appearance, but have a certain connotation of knowledge, it is easy to be appreciated by others, and it is easy to be admired by other members of the opposite sex, so even if their appearance is very ordinary, they should not be overly pessimistic, or they should cultivate and establish their own self-confidence, explore their own advantages, and boldly pursue the love they want.

At the same time, in the process of falling in love, we should not judge people by their appearance, but also observe each other's advantages and strengths, after all, the understanding and evaluation of a person is all-round, no matter how beautiful we are, there will be a day when we look old, we should not be too entangled in these external factors.

Hello! Don't ugly people deserve to be in love? I think that no matter how ugly and handsome you are, you have the right to fall in love, and it's not that you don't deserve to fall in love, it depends on the beauty of a person's soul, although you are ugly, but you are kind and have a good character, I think even if you are ugly, you also have the right to fall in love.

Long ugly people. Talented, capable, and qualified. There is no obstacle to falling in love. Ugly people can't be motivated if they don't learn. is not qualified to be in love.

Everybody has it. The right to fall in love, it's just that you haven't found the right person yet.

Definitely not! Does being ugly have anything to do with being in love? Is Jack Ma pretty?

This is everyone's right, it only means that you haven't met the right person yet. Fate has not yet arrived.

There is something in the eyes of the lover, but you haven't met the right person yet, don't be discouraged.

Everyone has the right to pursue love and not to feel inferior.

I guess it's my problem. Isn't it more introverted and cold.

Yes, but it doesn't have to be that no one likes it! Maybe it's because of the higher vision and higher ability? I'm surrounded by girls who haven't been in love at this age.

There are so many elements.

Maybe you weren't very urgent before. So inertial thinking is formed. Of little consequence.

Either that, or the looks. Stature. Family. Nature. Conduct things for people. And so on. (Didn't mean to bash you.) Seek truth from facts to help you solve your problems. )

The so-called fate has not arrived, but it is just a fart. But you don't have to worry that no one wants it = women are 7000w less than men these days. You're just a fragrant bun. Just go with the flow.

If you have what you like, go and chase it bravely! If you don't have something you like, live yourself.

If there is someone who likes you, try to get along. (The first priority is to protect yourself.) )

There are many reasons why you haven't been in love, and we don't know if you look good or not. It's possible that you're good, but you don't usually have much contact with the opposite sex...There are many possibilities, don't think about it, just make yourself better, fate will come sooner or later.

Then you should be confident, a person will eventually grow old, it is so good how cold it is, remember, everything is only with love. It has nothing to do with looks.

Of course there is, it's not that it's not pretty, but some people are more rational and focus on their studies or what she thinks is important, and she will think that the boy can't give her a future. Or she wants to find someone who likes each other.

Oh, this little beauty Some people like not to look at height and appearance, it's very important inside, it's not because of personality Maybe others think you're an iceberg beauty, maybe Oh, then you give people a sense of distance Try to deal with people in a different way There will be unexpected gains I wish you happiness.

I haven't talked about it, it's not that you don't look good, you just have to work hard to make yourself good, and looks are not a problem.

Hehe, you're yearning for love, it's okay, wait a minute, there will be good guys like you, you say that, you can probably guess what kind of girl you are. It's not that no one likes you, it is estimated that you are the kind of girl who is not very easy to contact, others have a crush on you, dare not confess to you, fail, and can't be your friend.

Hehe. It's okay to find a husband directly in the future, It's not interesting to find a boyfriend, now boyfriend and girlfriend, to say that it's ugly, are looking for a pao friend, Have fun together, open a few rooms, maybe when they break up, it's not a good thing for girls. It doesn't matter to the boys.

Cherish your body.

Why can't it be understood that girls have clear self-values and plans? Or are girls more ambitious and unwilling to compromise? Maybe it's a good girl with a strict family education?

Of course, there is no shortage of what you say, but do you think you have to fall in love in college? In addition to love, there are many things to do, libraries, courses, lectures, public welfare, clubs, etc.

If you like it, chase it, and if you find that it is not on the same plane, add value to yourself and try again.

Falling in love is not only about appearance, but more importantly, about how you feel in your heart. It is more meaningful to fall in love with someone who has inner beauty, because Haru and they can love you with the beauty of their hearts and make you feel real warmth. It is also meaningless for a person to be good-looking, but not able to understand you and bring you real happiness.

On the contrary, a person who is not very good-looking, but can care for you in every detail, take care of you with gentle love, comfort you, and encourage you, this kind of talent is the most worthy of having. In love, the understanding of the filial piety is the most important, and only by truly understanding the other party can true love be generated. Therefore, it doesn't matter if your face is not good-looking, it doesn't matter if your appearance is not high, a person who is really good to you is the most important thing.

In short, what you care about when you fall in love is not your appearance, but that gentleness, affection, and truthfulness. As long as you have a kind heart and a true love, then falling in love is also a very beautiful thing. When falling in love, many people care about their appearance and think that only people with high appearance are worthy of falling in love, but in fact, appearance is not the most important thing, and it is okay to fall in love with someone who is ugly but good to you.

Looks are very important, but it's not the only factor that determines the success of a relationship. An ugly person, but who is very good to you, maybe the security, warmth, love and support they give you will make your life more colorful. The foundation of a romantic relationship is built on trust, understanding, respect, and love.

A person can be beautiful and stalking, but if he does not have the above basic elements, then the relationship can also fail. On the other hand, someone who is ugly, but who is very good to you, may also become your lover. They may not be the perfect person in your heart, but they will give you endless love and support to make you feel safe and valued.

In addition, a romantic relationship also needs to be built and developed together. A beautiful person may have more external resources, but an ugly person can also give you more internal resources, such as love, support, trust, etc. In a relationship, you can build trust and understanding together, develop together, grow, and embrace each other.

In general, love is a combination of fate, it is not only the appearance, but more importantly, the inner relationship. An ugly, but nice person to you, could also be your lover. As long as you can build and develop a relationship of trust, understanding, respect and love, you can make your relationship even better.

The most important thing in falling in love is feelings, and appearance is just a plus. A person may not be pretty, but he is friendly, kind, patient, and giving to you, these are more important factors, and they can satisfy your soul more than appearance. Moreover, you can also learn a lot from him, and his character can influence your behavior and thoughts.

People are born with no beauty or ugliness, only differences in characteristics. The reason why women are ugly is because they don't know how to dress up themselves, deviating from the recognized aesthetic image, compared to the beauty of the soul, the ugliness of appearance is the easiest to solve, and if you master some aesthetic logic, the ugly girl may be a beauty.

First of all, physical appearance is only a person's physical characteristics and should not be the only criterion for judging whether a person is worthy of dating or marrying. A person's inner qualities and character traits are just as important, if not more so. An ugly person who is kind to you may have a very lovable personality, kind, intelligent, responsible, and self-motivated, and these qualities are likely to lead to more long-term happiness.

Secondly, falling in love and getting married requires the joint efforts of both parties and the decision of sensitivity, rather than a unilateral choice. If you feel that this person is very good to you and that you are willing to be with him and her, then it is your own decision, regardless of what the outside world thinks. Moreover, the appearance is not fixed, and people can make themselves more beautiful by changing their image and maintenance.

In the end, everyone's standards and values are different, and everyone's inner thoughts on this issue will be different. It is important to think carefully about your thoughts and feelings and make the most appropriate choice based on your values and personal circumstances. After summarizing the above, we should conclude that:

If a person is very nice to you, you can consider having a relationship with him, even if he is ugly on the outside. Because as long as there is a spark in your heart, appearance is not important, and it is possible for a person to be braver, more confident, and more happy because of his appearance. Finally, we should also recognize that appearance may also change a person's personality.

Some people may become conformist because of their appearance, but there are also people who will be braver and more confident because of their appearance, and they can even become a better person.

Therefore, in my case, I would fall in love and marry someone who is ugly but who is very good to you, because appearance is not everything, a person may become braver, more confident, and more happy for you because of his appearance, and these are also the most important elements in our marriage.

It's not that I said, but the first person who can ask this question is very low. Everyone's aesthetic standards are different, what does it mean to be ugly? What does it look like? What's more, appearance is a choice given by God, but the superstructure can change the temperament.