What people or things in your life have you encountered that you think are better than others?

Being greedy for cheap, or even just a little cheap, is also one of the characteristics of smart people. If it's work, they are very calculating how to come a little late, leave a little early, and sneak out in the middle. Do things for the public and others, and rub some oil.

Eat an extra bite of food at the dinner table, and shorten the bill by one foot. When playing chess, steal a piece, no matter who wins or loses in the end. Expose a scar, watch a joke, and use the ability of the tongue to be fun.

But in the end, there are thousands of things to lose. If a person is put on a "non-credible" headdress, it is worth nothing. On the contrary, if there is the word integrity, it is valuable.

Integrity is a valuable intangible asset for a person, especially for those who have great rewards. Capability will determine the final value of the asset. Li Ka-shing made his fortune on good faith.

When a superior hires a person, in addition to ability, it depends on whether the person is reliable or not. When we elect a person, in addition to ability, we also need to see whether the person is credible or not. Credible and reliable, that is, honest, is a person's character, and anyone will notice.

Even a cunning person is willing to make honest friends. Who isn't afraid of being tricked by others? Who is not afraid of being deceived by others.

If a person is credible, any opportunity can be had. or money or things, or rights. Give you a company, that is, the company commander; Give you an army, that is, the commander.

Give you a school, that is, the principal; Give you one, that is, the general manager or chairman. Give you a field and you can make a fortune. Give you a country, and you'll be **.

But if no one trusts you, you really have nothing. There will be many crises in a person's life, but the biggest crisis is the crisis of trust. There is no opportunity without trust, and opportunity is a priceless asset.

Those who are not trustworthy will lose their chance, even if they have the opportunity. For example, people are written on it, but in the end, it still becomes a dead letter.

Think you're smart and make random claims. It refers to overestimating oneself and acting subjectively. People who think they are smart are actually the stupidest, and they often appear to be very clear and shrewd!

For example, a person who thinks he is smart is always happy with his achievements, lest others not know what he is doing, and the result will be self-defeating.

When I was in kindergarten, I liked the oblique bangs of Disney princesses, so after a handicraft class, I thought I was ingenious and cut my flat bangs in the corner alone. Then my bangs became stepped type, do you think that's the point of the matter, no, I was also pulling another little girl and forcibly cutting her hair. It is said that it was the teacher who forcibly dissuaded me that afternoon, so that the girl's uncle did not beat me, and when I returned home, everyone took turns to ridicule me, and ten years later, this incident is still the laughing stock of the family.

Blindly overestimating one's own ability is a manifestation of a fool, and only those with connotation are truly strong. Such a person thinks he is smart, thinks very highly of himself, and does not learn from others with an open mind, so it is difficult for him to improve.

We think we know more than we actually do, and almost everyone thinks that we are smarter, prettier, and more skilled than the average person. At work, we always feel that we are more efficient than others; At meetings, we always feel more attractive than the average person in the room. Overconfidence is especially harmful when it comes to learning styles that require more hard work.

Once we think we have understood, we will immediately give up our efforts to continue to find the inner relationship of knowledge, let alone consider the application of knowledge and skills in different contexts.

There is a young man who has traveled a long road of life, and when he arrives at a ferry, he already has seven backpacks: "health", "beauty", "integrity", "cleverness", "talent", "money", and "honor". The ferry departed calmly, and I can't tell how long it was, but the wind and waves surged, and the boat was bumpy and dangerous. The captain said:

The ship is small and the load is heavy, and the guest officer must discard a rucksack to tide over the difficulties. The young man was reluctant to lose any of them, and the captain said, "There are those who give up and those who take, and those who lose and those who gain."

The young man pondered for a moment and threw "integrity" into the water. Although, he later achieved something in his career, and the money was endless. However, because he abandoned the most basic "integrity" of being a human being, he finally failed.

Everyone is so smart, why do some people succeed and others don't? Because cleverness is hierarchical, the first layer is cleverness, that is, frequent tricks on the heart, with anyone, even relatives and friends. played back and forth, and in the end, as Cao Xueqin said, the agency was too clever and mistook Qingqing's life.

Although a little clever can be proud for a while, it is difficult to succeed. The second level is great wisdom, also known as wisdom, which is the far-sighted type. They tend to be wise and foolish, clever and clumsy, and brave and cowardly.

The kindness and sincerity of their hearts make people feel trusted and relied on, trustworthy, and followed, so they will have more opportunities to achieve success. Great wisdom may suffer some losses, but it can always succeed. That's why people say that suffering is a blessing.

People who want to succeed must be prepared to suffer losses.

That is, when the company organized everyone to travel together, I carried a bag, thinking that the company would definitely let us do adventure games, so I didn't take a lot of things, I felt that I was very smart, but in fact, the company didn't have that kind of idea, just wanted us to play a good time, and all my things were not particularly suitable for playing there.

Once again, I was picking apricots with my mother and sister on the mountain, and a bag containing apricots was broken, but it was very troublesome to go back and take one or change it, so I pulled out a grass vine and tied the bag, and then the list could be used normally, and there were a lot of apricots.

We know that when cooking porridge in a pot, the pot often overflows, and at this time it is always necessary to look at it, which is very inconvenient, and it often overflows when you look at it, wetting the gas stove, damaging the gas stove, and it is very dangerous. How to not overflow the pot, that is, after cooking the porridge and putting the water, pour some sesame oil on it, and it will not overflow. I think this method is very clever and many people don't know it.

Every day, I have a fat kid with an umbrella in my school bag, even on a sunny day.

One day after school, it suddenly rained heavily, the whole class was watered, only my daughter brought an umbrella, and when I got home, the child excitedly told me about the scene at that time, and praised my mother for taking precautions.

For example, in every exam, I don't want my friends around me to come to see my test papers, so I change all my test papers to wrong answers, and then change them back when I am about to hand in the papers.

Take some grades as an example, every time the results come out, I will calmly accept that I will not be very excited to compare with others, to ask others what their grades are, I only pay attention to my own efforts, and I don't want others to compare with me, which makes me have more troubles and pressure.

In this society where the ratio of men to women is seriously imbalanced, it is even more difficult for a man like me to marry a wife who has no car, no house and no savings.

When I was 32 years old, I had not yet found a wife, and I became the laughing stock of the whole village, and my parents were heartbroken about my marriage, so I made up my mind to marry a second-married woman.

At first, others didn't understand, and then I felt that my choice was correct, what happened to the second-married woman, the second-married woman is more mature, after getting married, my wife took care of the house in an orderly manner and was filial to my parents.