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There is an old saying that things gather by like, and people are divided by groups, which means that there are hierarchical circles in communication between people. It can be seen that this circle culture has existed since ancient times, and the circle that the ancients said is very different from the circle that we call the circle of modern people. In the new definition of modern man, a circle refers to a collection of certain types of things, not a collection of people.

1. The important criterion for accepting newcomers in the circle of the ancients is that their conduct is not like that of modern people, as long as those who join the circle have certain skills, those who join the circle of ancient times must have the same character. And there is a saying that it is called seeing people's hearts over time, so it is a very long process to join a circle in ancient times, and it is not like now, it is enough to pass certain certifications. As a result, the circle of ancient times reached a state of human unity, which was much more durable and solid than it is now.

Second, the circle of ancients cherished the friends in the circle People in a circle in ancient times were not as far away as they are now, and there was little contact. They are often made up of classmates or fellow villagers, so the more they understand each other, the deeper the friendship will be. Like the famous Lanting assembly in history, it is such a representative of the circle relationship, and the circle will choose to face to face to increase the relationship.

In addition, there is a circle like the Seven Sages of the Bamboo Forest, and after Ruan's death, his descendants were treated with kindness by several others. <>

3. The circle of ancients progressed with each other Compared with the circle of modern people, the emphasis is on the equal status of everyone, or the right to participate in a certain thing, the circle of ancient times is more about learning, and this learning is not only confined to poetry and books, but also has the cultivation of life skills or other abilities. Therefore, in ancient times, people who entered a certain circle would teach each other, others would help them make up for their shortcomings, and they would also teach others their strengths to learn. Therefore, the ancient circle culture is more about people-to-people communication than the burden of people and things, which is worth thinking about for modern people.

The circle of ancient people is a group of like-minded people, their hobbies and interests are the same, each other's strengths can help each other improve, they mainly look at people's conduct to make friends, friends are very cherished, and they will gather together every three or five times.

The circle in which the ancients lived, to this day, is "like things gather, people are grouped", and people with the same nature will gradually get closer together.

It is inspired that we should pay attention to interpersonal relationships, not be too selfish, but also have a certain knowledge foundation, and read more books, so that talents will have more connotation.

There are many different circles of people everywhere... There are different hobbies.

You don't have to deliberately blend in...

Ubiquitous circle culture.

Circle culture is ubiquitous in China. Chinese people always consciously or unconsciously belong to various circles, and have derived many humanistic concepts with deep Chinese characteristics. For example, in the protégé system, there was an unwritten rule before taking the exam in ancient China, that is, to take the essay written by himself.

Go to the dignitaries and cultural celebrities who think they can be teachers, ask for directions, and ask for recommendations. Once recommended by someone, the reader is considered to be someone's protégé, and the two have a special nepotism that remains unchanged for life. Ancient scholars, often based on this protégé system, divided into many different social circles, these according to the size of the ring of a ring, and finally set all the way to the emperor, all the candidates who have participated in the palace examination, can proudly claim that they are the protégé of the Son of Heaven.

Pursuing the doctrine of being a good person, on the surface, is to choose the philosophy of life and self-preservation, but in essence, the ideals and beliefs of these people are covered with dust, and there is a deviation in the ideological line. On the surface, it seems that they are afraid of contact with contradictions and fear of offending people, but in fact it reflects that these people talk about their personal feelings.

You yourself say that you are studying, study hard, and your friends are not necessarily met in school, so it is good to go outside and talk to people more, and you can practice speaking and meet a lot of interesting people.

When you are alone, don't be too wronged yourself.