I can t think about it, why can t I think about it all the time?

You're a seed! It's still a mix! No ambition at all!

You think you'll be able to turn back like this? What do you think you can give her? Immature!

What do you say is the most important thing for men? It's a career! It's a good thing to be affectionate and righteous, but you can't do stupid things for the sake of so-called love!

Look at the brother who danced with you, where did your righteousness go? And where did your parents go because you left them? If you stand in front of me now, I'll slap you!"

Angry! Listen to me, go back and study hard, study for yourself! Lay a good foundation while you are young, learn to be a person and do things, and come out in the future!

Are you still worried that there will be no woman when you arrive?

Tragedy and suffering are inescapable of being avoided by everyone, and everyone has what they consider to be the most painful experiences.

The biggest lesson that suffering brings us is that the cognition of this painful thing is raised from one degree to another, so as to constantly revise our values and outlook on life, and you will become more mature because of it, which is a progress, so don't be afraid of pain, and don't think that pain will always be with you, people tend to be healthy rather than sick, and the injured mind will recover sooner or later.

Slowly, but coming!

Don't focus on every detail of this matter, some things can't be explained, it's like medicine is bitter, it's bitter, you ask why it doesn't make sense! The most important result is that you can't change anything, and the wisest thing to do about what you can't change is to remain silent and endure it.

For those we hate or betray us, although we can't be friends with them, at least we need to forget them and forgive them, for the sake of our mental health!

It's nothing, I have a crush on a girl, six or seven years, and when I confess, she said she couldn't get it, so there's no way, don't hang yourself on a tree, in fact, there are a lot of people who are suitable for you, and there is more than one type of girl you like, so why bother??? Besides, you can't just live for a woman, think about it, you have a lot of other things, all of which are very important!!

Support the upstairs! Brothers; Look like a man! That's how I got here! There's still a long way to go! No matter how good the scenery on the side of the road is, it's not ours, and there are better ones ahead for us! Those who can afford to put it down are the most remarkable; Come on!

Almost everyone will experience a breakup, but after the breakup, you have to get up. Especially if you are still a student, you should not give up your studies for the sake of falling out of love. However, it's good to think of love as a motivation to learn. Even if you fall out of love, you can pursue other girls again!

If you guessed correctly? You were in junior high school or high school, in fact, I can understand your feelings, because I was the same as you, at that time I also liked a girl very much, I changed because of her, and I worked hard, and in the end I did get along with a friend of mine! In fact, if you think about it yourself, in addition to that girl, you have many people who should fight for it, such as your parents, such as yourself.

If you like that girl, she is a passerby in your life, and you will meet better ones in the future, just like me, I hope you will listen to it

I don't care what the other party says before the breakup, because these words are not important, what is more important is that we must continue to summarize ourselves, use a positive attitude to make ourselves better in the future, and more and more progress is the best reward for life.

We have to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude to face everything, when things happen, some people know how to encourage themselves and affirm themselves, but if the pressure of life and work cannot be adjusted well, the motivation will become weaker and weaker.

In fact, no matter what situation you fall into, when you perceive that you are in a negative state, you just need to know the importance of a positive and optimistic attitude, which can also help you stop the spread of bad emotions.

A positive and optimistic attitude will unconsciously improve your interpersonal relationships, when we have some negative thoughts and emotions, we always hope that someone can listen to us patiently, because in the process of communication, your negative energy does not disappear, but is transferred to the hearts of others. In general, it is easier for others to understand your emotions because they know that your problems and troubles are not caused by them, so they can be a bystander and they will actively encourage you.

Understand that a positive and optimistic attitude is related to your own life, and if you can't maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, people's motivation to do things will become weaker and weaker, and eventually they will stop.

So it's important to have an optimistic and positive attitude, if we have more positive emotions, we can not only feel more happy, positive, optimistic and happy, but also expand our horizons, so that we can think and act in a good state of mind, and be more creative than usual.

The opposite of the wide heart is that I can't think about it. We often see tragic news such as a certain artist who can't think of depression and a star who can't think of jumping off a building and committing suicide are in the newspapers, and people sigh for it, and they can't help asking: "They have a successful career and a family fortune of hundreds of millions, which is a dream that many people can't ask for, why are they so depressed and suicidal?"

The reason can only be a confusing mystery that no one knows, but walking on the thorny road of life, mortals of flesh and blood are always indispensable to "can't think of": family conflicts, emotional breakdowns, career setbacks, interpersonal disharmony and ......Contradictions, setbacks, conflicts and unsatisfactory situations in life follow one after another, so people begin to lament that the world is difficult and begin to be passive and slack, but this does not reduce your pain, but will make your pain deeper and deeper.

Why do there are so many painful troubles in life? On the surface, people's troubles are brought about by unsatisfactory lives, but in fact, people's troubles are not caused by much misfortune, but from their own inner cognitive defects and deviations.

1 Negative pessimism. There are two sides to the balance of things, but they like to look at things negatively and estimate the outcome of things pessimistically.

2 Admit death. People who can't think about it often stay at a certain point in their thinking, do not easily change their attitudes and understandings, and go down the paranoid understanding, even if they hit their heads and bleed, they do not look back.

If you admit death, you will have the pain of not being able to ask for it: you want to have something, but you can't have it and suffer; Suffering from not getting the money, fame, and power you want; Someone who loves them, but the other person doesn't love them and suffers.

3. Unreasonable beliefs. the belief that unhappiness in life is caused by external factors and, as a result, people cannot control their own suffering; believe that every problem in life should have a precise answer and a perfect solution, otherwise, it will be very painful; Thinking that you must be loved and praised by those around you, if you don't do what you want, you will suffer.

4 No curses. People who can't think about it always follow the same old path when thinking about problems, and they take the problem too hard and lack flexibility.

When you can't think about it, you will close yourself between the copper walls and iron walls, hide in the high-cracked room of glass, want to be happy but can't be happy, always think that others are better than yourself, always worry about the sky, always put a corner of your heart in the barren desert of the soul, so you will gamble on your door when you are worried about it. In fact, there are many diseases and troubles that are the brains of the cautious mediocre. On the contrary, you can "see the point" of everything, no matter what kind of encounter you encounter, maybe these ordinary three words will guide you to feel a light, a touch of coolness, and a burst of relaxation.

People who come out to work in society.

There are often a lot of different aspects of stress.

A lot of the time. Saying that they want to die, but they dare not die, many people feel that they will not be able to bear the pain of the moment before death.

Second, in fact, in my heart, there are still things that you can't let go, such as your family, the people you cherish, your dreams, and your important things.

People tend to be more sad and sentimental at the end of the day and at night.

But every next day, the spirit often gets better again.

It feels like it's lonely and brings negative emotions at night, especially in a more peaceful environment.

Actually, you don't have to worry too much about other people's different lives.

In the same way, you need to have your own life.

And your current persistent pessimism will cause a lot of pressure on your physical health and psychology.

You need to divert your attention and vent your emotions.

You can find some friends who are close to you near where you live, ask them out, go shopping, or find a place to play, eat and drink, or something.

This is a better method.

Life can't be said to be beautiful every day.

But people always need to find a way to cheer up when they are lost, so that they can have the opportunity to feel the beauty of life again.

Life is also rotten, but it is only a few decades.

So. In fact, you should also cherish it.

I wish you happiness.

Pronunciation. xiǎng bù kāi

Paraphrase. I can't think about it xiǎngbukāi I take the things that are unsatisfactory and boring in my heart very seriously, and I can't let go of these little things.

I can't figure out the meaning of the relevant words.

The meaning of inverted thinking: upside down, cranky.

The meaning of inverted opening: to open in the opposite direction to normal operation. For example, reversing the car. Jujube chain judgment.

The meaning of the willow stool was changed: Liu Kai (947-1000) was an essayist in the Northern Song Dynasty. The original name is shoulder healing, the word Shaoxian (a Shaoyuan), and later changed its name to open, the word Zhongtu, the number of the eastern suburbs of the wild man, Mr. Supplement, the name (now Hebei) people.

Kaibao years of Jinshi. He served as Changzhou, Runzhou, Quanzhou, Guizhou and so on. advocates retro and opposes the decadent literary style of the five dynasties, but the works lack literary brilliance.

There is "Mr. Hedong Collection".