I am anxious for everyone to help me solve my psychological troubles, and my family is very confused

Don't blame your in-laws for being partial, don't blame your mother for annoying you, who doesn't have a difficult scripture, what if you don't face it? If you want to open a little, make yourself easier, life can be lived, as long as the money is enough to spend, you can go out to run business, but don't be too tired, and find a way to make your husband a little responsible.

Judging by your description, it's usually your husband who does it again, if the business is tight, then you can run the business yourself. The effect is not important, mainly to show your husband, weakness is a woman's biggest **, cry when you should cry, and then complain to your husband, show weakness, arouse his sense of responsibility and desire to protect you, and then express your understanding of your husband's current difficulties, this is the most important thing, men need to understand, and then encourage him

You can run the business, but your strength alone is limited, the most important thing is to do ideological work for your husband, if he is also willing to run the business, then everything will be fine, so that the business will have a greater turnaround, and the family problems will naturally improve.

You go run the business.

It's so hard to be a woman.

I'm a person from the past, I should understand your feelings, it's a feeling that can't be let go, no matter how much others explain it, it can't compare to your own let goThere will be a solution to everything, it's just what kind of perspective you have to look at it, as long as the family is still healthy and alive, there is no big deal, I believe you can regulate! Come on!

Communicate with your family slowly, and keep the bottom line when you are a person and at home - the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, and the family should not be bullied by outsiders.

Remember, don't speak ill of your family, and don't retaliate.

My advice is a bit too direct, maybe the shirt is not easy to accept, it doesn't matter if you give points or not.

Best wishes. In the face of loved ones, or don't care, pay more...

Hand print messy is not a bad life, you are a complex person, see more worry, bother, think about everything is willing to think fully, but also bring a lot of unnecessary troubles to yourself, you have time to read more books, listen to **, go out for a walk, relax. You're a very smart person. Have money, but don't spend it indiscriminately.

How long has the landlord been like this, haven't you gone to see it? It's not the same thing to always be like this, or go to a bigger place to see it, Hefei can go to Boda to see, it's very good, and the service is also very good.

Give it a thumbs up. Understood, so you give me the best, thank you buddy......

It is enough for you to have this heart, and everything goes well for you is the greatest contribution to ...... family

If you want to be the end, then deserve to be the end, and if you want to live well, then your future will be wonderful!

Normal. Because the people in the family are always thinking about your future.

But when you meet your true love, maybe you should discuss it with your family (because true love is what a person should protect for a lifetime)|

No, if you think this mole looks bad, you can go to the hospital to get it off.

Hello, in fact, every family has a lot of things to deal with, the mood is determined by yourself, don't make yourself unhappy because of the trivial things at home, family things can be planned and dealt with by yourself, but don't affect your mood.

To know that we are always happy, we must be happy every day, every family has a difficult scripture, not your own family will be like this, everyone's family has cumbersome things, in fact, many things we can't think too much, just go with the flow, you will live a happier life, and everything will be fine if you are in a good mood. Good luck, come on.

In the question, you describe that you are now troubled by family trivialities, since it is a family trivial, you should put down your heart, deal with the family trivialities well, you really can't deal with them, let him go, because a person's good mood should not be troubled by some family trivialities, these things can be solved, if they can't be solved, go with the flow, you should now deal with family trivialities with a tolerant attitude, and should not be bothered by it, you have to stand in the other party's point of view, so that you can give yourself a good heart comfort, Go fix these things!

Since you are troubled by family trivialities, the only thing that can solve the problem is your family, and others can't help you with your mentality, so you have to put it down. The things at home must be properly solved, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, and we must find a way to use our brains to solve the problem.

Hello, every family has a difficult scripture, if the family encounters familiarity, you may wish to go online to consult everyone's opinions, maybe your mood will become better, after all, there are always more ways than problems.

I'm disturbed by family chores and I'm in a bad mood! That's because you're short of money, you don't have much left after a year of work, and you always quarrel with your wife, right? Don't think too much about it, it'll be fine later.

Whether you are in a good mood or not depends on your own mentality!

I feel the same way, but it still doesn't hurt my heart.

When all dignity is struck without a trace.

I feel so tired.

Be determined.

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I think this thing is to let others kill you, and you can't realize it, because it's human nature... I thought so too.,Study something this summer.,But it's still a waste of days.。。。

You control yourself, make a plan, make a list of things to do every day, and cross out every thing you do, so that you will have a sense of accomplishment...

You will only wake up after you have experienced something. Let's encourage each other ...

Personally, I think it may have something to do with your family conditions. You can try to do some particularly tiring work, not only to experience the hardships of life, to understand that it is not easy to make money, but also to let you understand the gap between work and study, how happy you are to study, and you can be more active and hard-working in the future. Hope it helps!

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In fact, it is very uncomfortable to have to spend a day in front of a book, you can take your time. For example, if you can only play with the computer for one hour a day, and then memorize a book for 20 minutes a day, your grades will improve over time.

Like me, I was forced to ask my parents to draw the TV card, and I couldn't help it.

The key is to rely on one's own perseverance and self-conscious ability.

Write your ideals and stick them on the wall. Motivate yourself while reading a book, resolutely do not give yourself a chance to relax, persist for a week, slowly develop a habit, and you will have the motivation to learn.

Analysis:

Suggestions: Hello! First of all, you should adjust your mentality! Set a goal for yourself every day, encourage yourself to study hard, use less Internet, and slowly you should be able to get better.

You can take your time, study for 1 hour today, and then 1-2 hours tomorrow, so as to slowly increase the time of reading, and when you get into a habit, you can read every day. That's great, but the point is that if you can't control yourself, it's in vain. As for "(scolding if you want to scold, please make me awake, please help me)", scolding will not solve your problem.

I also think that you should find someone to help you (i.e., supervise you).

Your self-control is too weak, you have to borrow external forces, such as disconnecting the computer from the Internet, moving the TV, trying to control yourself, watching TV at a time, how many books to watch, how to reward yourself .........

Your boyfriend is doing very well, give one a thumbs up first! Good boys are like that.

In fact, you don't have to be like this, first, in terms of buying things, if the old man follows, the money is also paid by them, and you are happy to let them choose for themselves. Later, when you spend your own money to buy it, you can make your own decision. You're a new daughter-in-law, and the money isn't from you, so you're welcome:

The master of the family is not you yet, so naturally you don't have much power yet.

Second, the husband agreed, why do you have so many opinions, and you still make the two old people unhappy? So as you mentioned above, his dad seemed unhappy, and that's the reason.

Third, it is the in-laws who are sincerely willing to be good to you, so they will take you to buy good quality together, and the marriage of your son is a big event, how can you be willing to choose an ordinary supply? Think about it from another perspective, isn't it?

Fourth, the newly married daughter-in-law has not made any contribution to a family, so people are soft-spoken, don't seem to be able to do it at every turn, as if they are very smart and have a lot of ideas. As the old saying goes: before the elders, don't show your abilities.

It means that in front of the older generation, don't show that you are very capable. This is not conducive to the unity of your family after marriage.

Actually, I think you should be happy, I don't know why you say something unhappy?

First, you are glad that the person you are going to marry is a very good filial son, because only the fate of a filial son will be good in the future, and the family will live smoothly.

Second, you should be glad that you have a pair of very responsible in-laws, and even the furniture has to be considered for you, how happy you are...

** Come to life problems and family confusion ...

This is called the blessed will not be enjoyed.

I think of the old lady who has two sons, one son sells fans, and the other son buys umbrellas, no matter how cloudy or sunny it is, if the old lady doesn't think about it, she will not be able to think about it one day, she will only be in pain. If you want to, you can live happily every day...

It's called life.

Are you happy? Will you be blessed? Blessed to enjoy your little sister.

There's nothing wrong with listening to them a little more, it's just that you're not comfortable with it for the time being. When you reach a certain age, you will find that 90% of what they say is true.

Moreover, the old people will grow old after all, and they will have a lot of unexpected ease.

If you still listen to their opinions, it will make them have a good impression of you, and when the time comes, you can also ask them to help.