I want to break up, but I want to be friends after a breakup

Updated on psychology 2024-04-12
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Some things can't be faked to others, if you expect him to take the initiative to break up with you, it is also a kind of harm to each other, do you think this will make you friends?!What's more, there are many dreams at night, and I don't know what other unexpected things will happen in the middle. How selfishly you think about what kind of person you want to be with in this matter.

    If it weren't for him, you would be the one who would be unhappy in the future. What could be more important than your own happiness compared to being friends?! He also has his own marriage, and when you and your lover sit happily at a table of four, what else can you not let go?!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you check that he really doesn't have too many shortcomings, and the shortcomings are far less than the advantages, I think you still don't break up with him. But first of all, you can't have another boyfriend. He is very good, and it is not easy for girls nowadays to find a handsome boyfriend.

    You can try to change yourself slowly by liking one of his actions or any other aspect of liking him. Then you will have a happy marriage.

    If you're not too good, you can leave him, and it doesn't matter if you become friends or not.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Tell him clearly that long pain is better than short pain, and don't push yourself to the point where you can't retreat.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Make it clear to him that if he loves you, he will set you free.

    It's a relief for both sides

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Give up pain, but be happy, sacrifice yourself, make him happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is unlikely. Because you hurt him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Dad said after a breakup? You can't be friends because you've hurt one another;

    Mom says after a breakup? You can't be enemies, because you loved one another

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It varies from person to person, but it is possible to be friends after a breakup.

    However, it is rare to be friends, even friends may only be ordinary friends, because if they are separated, they will have their own lives and partners, and it is not excluded that there is a kind of breakup that is very good and reconciled.

    If you have loved each other deeply, at least one party will feel deeply hurt, he may be reluctant to contact again, he may be more hurt when he sees each other again, and it is better for the other party not to force it.

    It seems that after the breakup, everyone must understand the reasons for the breakup, learn a lesson, and recover as soon as possible in the next time.

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