As a woman, I failed in my life

Looking at your narrative, he was not very good to you before, a man who really loves himself will not make himself too sad, even if he has a bad temper, he will still love you and care about you as always after losing his temper. If this is really the case as you say, I think you should think about it calmly while you are not married. If you love him so much that you are reluctant to give up on him, then you will touch him with your tenderness and let him take his heart back.

Otherwise, you'd better give up. It's not a good thing to give yourself a chance to choose happiness again.

You do have a bit of a failure. However, if you don't even have the courage to break up, then an even greater failure awaits you!

You're breaking up with him now, it's just a broken love, you're losing four good years, and of course there are other important ones. But what about dragging it out? It is likely that you will be abandoned and lose more time than anyone else!

Don't you even have the courage to find someone who loves you again? Maybe it's a very open day before you go out!

Love is also a kind of war, however, there are no eternal winners and losers in this kind of war, or victory and defeat are not of much substance, believe me, he may not be your best choice, and occasional unsuccess is nothing, after many times of love, you will mature, and your misunderstanding may also be, if you leave him, can you still find a better man than him? In fact, you don't have to think so, in fact, there are a lot of good men, you don't have to worry too much,

Give him some space and give him some time, if you don't want to give up, let him come back slowly, online dating won't be too long, he will still feel that his wife is good in retrospect, but, emotional things, you will have your own experience, see if he loves you, if you don't love you, why do you have to fall to death in his tree?

Now that there is a breakup, then you will have a good life after having children! Really, not to scare you!

Can you still be a husband and wife without emotion? Divide!

If you don't have that courage, it's equivalent to finding your own guilt!

I've also come across it before.

Such a man is hateful.

If you can't talk about it.

There's no need to be together.

Don't get engaged yet, let's wait!

There is nothing I can do, and I am also depressed

It feels like you're used to his presence, and suddenly there's a time when you're not used to him. Everyone knows the story of the snoring.

Love is mutual understanding, not one aspect of giving. He should know that you have shortcomings. If you actually like it, you should be considerate of your character.

This kind of man is used to it... If you get it, you won't cherish it. It's okay to break up with her, don't let yourself be too tired. Be yourself!

You should have a good exchange of feelings, if you can't do it, just choose to leave, don't let yourself be so tired, live a little more freely, this kind of thing should not only be obsessed with that one, there will be many better ones in this world waiting to accompany you ......

If you don't say it, how will he know what you think???

You try to have a good chat with him.

I think I should tell him that I am unhappy, happy day and unhappy day for day, of course, be happy today, don't think too far,

You can be a strong woman, but you can't be a strong person in every aspect, when you are strong in every aspect, others will see you as an unapproachable person, you live in your own world.

I think why should people live so tired, I think women can't live without careers, but they can't only have careers. I think it's better to live an ordinary life, live for yourself, and have your own career, with the support of your family, enjoy family affection and love, and the small achievements of your career, which is also good.

To live the life you want.

Don't care about living a good life.

Just want to say so much.

The more you know, the more ignorant you will find yourself, you think too much, rest assured that the scale in your heart, and live well. What you see and what you see is not necessarily what you feel.

Girls should be happy and alive!!

If you think too much, you will only live a tiring life. I don't think about what you're going to get, I think more about what I've got, because you're better off than other people who are in difficulty, are you?

oh...

I feel a lot after reading it, but I don't know how to express it.

Still don't say it, I can wish you happiness

Blessings

You feel good, but I can't tell you anything, but what I can say is, go your own way and let others do it, and I wish you happiness and a smile.

Self-improvement, to have a skill.

You can combine the two.

Why do you have to do one or the other?

There should be different ways to get along with different people.

A woman can be a strong woman, but with a boyfriend you don't have to show yourself to be strong, which will put pressure on him, with him you can show your gentle and considerate side, but there is nothing wrong with being so strong in your career, on some occasions, you have to give your boyfriend enough face Men are very face-saving

Of course, women have to be themselves, don't deliberately be what kind of person you are, that will only lose yourself, it varies from thing to thing, on the surface these two kinds of people are in conflict, but sometimes it is also mutual, so don't define yourself which one.

Women should learn to be strong and not rely on men for everything, so they will be looked down upon, anyway, I don't like to rely on people too little

The most important thing for people is to live for themselves, and the most important thing is to make yourself more happy and happy.

Believe in yourself.

Be kind to yourself.

Enjoy your life.

Always put yourself in a good mood.

When you're not happy.

Tell your friends how you feel.

When things don't go your way.

Think of your friends in the network.

I think someone will share your worries.

Where there is a goal, there is hope.

Hopefully, there will be bumps in the road.

But after going through it.

You'll feel like you've grown up.

Smile at yourself every day.

There is hope every day.

Find yourself something to do.

Give yourself a goal to strive for.

In this way, we will not live in emptiness and helplessness.

Personally, I think I have a stable and happy marriage.

It is the greatest success in a woman's life.

If you have the ability, you will have hope, if you don't have the ability, find a capable husband, not necessarily he is rich now, but he must have a future and be able to give people hope, provided that he loves you, you love him, and you are working together to create the future, not just counting on him alone, but you don't do anything.

Find a good man!

Be a kind woman!

Be a virtuous woman!

Be a reasonable woman!

Be a woman who is willing to help others!

Getting married and having children, and then it is the cultivation of the next generation, this is the hope of taking greatness!

Women are hopeful in everything.

Take your work seriously.

To the family, hard work.

Be responsible for yourself and your love.

The most important point is to find a husband who loves you and be comfortable for a lifetime.

I agree with what the second floor said, as a woman, you should also have your own goals and dreams, women are the most beautiful animals in the world, we should cherish ourselves, express ourselves, and make our people's lives more exciting. More beautiful!

Think of yourself as a man when you fight.

Think of yourself as a woman when you enjoy it.

Self-love. Have your own business. Women at this time are very attractive. It doesn't matter if the long drift is not beautiful, the key is to live beautifully.

Self-esteem, self-love, self-improvement, never give up on yourself, love yourself,

Defeat all the men who are not good for you, and be a rich woman, but also be a strong woman!!

That's how to live!

Be financially independent and live for yourself. It is only when there is real freedom that there is hope for life.

I agree with the statement of the second floor. Women don't make vases.

Be a Chinese in your bones -- industrious and civilized.

At all times, you have to have yourself.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

Everyone wants to live in an ideal environment, but the reality is cruel, people can only grow up in hard training Don't be afraid of getting hurt It's better to die than to live.

To be a person who can live independently, you don't need to rely on anyone, you have to have your own economic foundation. Be in a good mood, and the person who smiles is the most beautiful.

Just find a way to make your life better, then the people around you can also live a better life!

Recognize and understand yourself, realize your self-worth, and then live freely and perfectly.

Stay strong ... Women should be self-reliant.

Go to work, get off work, do housework, and sleep.

Stay away from love, stay away from men, don't believe men's sweet words, find a job, and support yourself! It is happier to live alone than to live with two, and if you don't improve yourself, sooner or later you will fall! If you want to get ahead, you have to be a blockbuster, you will do it, take care of your body and cherish yourself!

If you look glamorous, live naturally and comfortably.

If your family is wealthy, it is natural to have a happy life.

Women should live on their own and rely on others to live.

Life is meant to be the same. Plain is the true meaning of life.

It's not that easy to get ahead, it requires you to have a strong will, work hard, and be responsible.

Don't give up easily, of course, that's not enough, you have to have the minimum capital to do it for you.

Laying the foundation for the business.

See the path in front of you and learn to move forward on this path.

If your heart is calm, no matter how you live, you will have a taste.

If your heart is restless, you won't be able to live!

Don't stress too much.

If you work hard, you will live.

Change your hairstyle, change your mood! Look at nothing different!

Do whatever you like.

I think to be a human being is to live so freely!

Hehe! As I thought, I've always been like this to live one day at a time, and how happy I am! Ay! Woman!

Hey, what if you're not reconciled, don't you want to live, are you willing to die?

Everyone's outlook on life and values are different.

Some live for material comfort, some for spiritual satisfaction, and some for responsibility to their loved ones.

Some are for a man they love, and some live purely for themselves (but this kind of person often has no praise, people have shortcomings, too selfish will maximize their shortcomings, and may get a moment of self-satisfaction, but it will become more empty after a long time).