I love my boyfriend a lot, but he seems to have changed lately

It's only been three months since you've been dating, and you love him, but you don't know him. There is no equivalence between love and understanding.

The reason why you feel that he has changed now, or I put it bluntly: after you gave him your first time, his attitude towards you has changed, which may be understood as your misfortune and his luck.

Sadness and pain are only temporary, because for you, after the first time to pay and emotional setbacks, it will definitely make you feel at a loss, this is a normal psychological reflection activity, see it openly, after all, you and he have obtained what each other wants from each other, you want feelings, and he is a double harvest of feelings and bodies.

Gain and loss, the two cannot exist and stand on each other, it still depends on how you deal with it, he has changed for you, in fact, you can also snub him, if he really loves you, during the period when you snub him, he will definitely be aware of it, and then remedy.

And you can also judge whether he really loves you through this incident.

Don't believe that there is anything unspeakable about feelings or even breakups, it is all fiction, it is a rhetoric.

Whether he is willing or not depends on whether he is worth it and you cherish it.

I've been in love for 7 years and now I'm breaking it.

Please trust a woman's instincts, if you feel that a man has changed, it is definitely a man who has really changed.

It has nothing to do with the length of time, it has nothing to do with women, it is the reason of the man himself.

Don't blame yourself.

You can try to communicate to save it, but if it doesn't work, please leave him.

Your forgiveness and consideration will only make him more excessive, and he will not consider your feelings.

Make yourself happy.

In the beginning, men are always gentle and considerate to you, and if you want a man to treat you like this for a long time, then you have to make yourself his favorite for a long time, and sometimes self-reflect to see if there is something wrong with you, or if your boyfriend has been pretending to be ...... after getting you

Don't do this, what should you do if you hurt your body?

Live yourself, be yourself.

No matter how much you miss him, don't go to him.

Men are like this, the more they can't get it, the more interested they are, and those who are too easy to get their hands on don't cherish it.

Let him slowly discover your goodness.

If it's me, I'll divide it.

I don't want to make myself miserable anyway.

And it's not worth it.

It's only a matter of time before such a state is divided.

If you treat him too well, he'll do the same to you.

Men feel like their girlfriends have changed. Actually, it's because I've changed. Sometimes I want to separate or something, and I don't want to blame myself for all the problems that went wrong.

So they will find topics to say that the other party has changed. Or make a cold war move, or ignore it and let the girl slowly accept it and then propose to break up. In this way, they psychologically feel that the fault is not entirely theirs.

They won't feel like they owe you. Thank you.

Perhaps these twenty days have given him some time to calm down and consider the feelings between you.

It may be that he feels that life is more stressful, and he wants to think about how to give you happiness.

I shouldn't be able to stand it, you go and apologize, there's nothing you can't bow your head to.

Someone said you in front of him.

There are many reasons for this problem.

Either I have a mistress, or I'm really bored.

Maybe there's something you've been worried about lately.

It can only be said that this is a scumbag, because he has become dislike you, if he has changed his mind, then don't keep it anymore.

The saddest thing is the plastic boyfriends who have inconsistent attitudes. When chasing you, I treat you as a fairy, and when I am in love, I spoil you like a princess, but after a long time, I am only left with endless boredom. It is said that love is only a three-month dopamine secretion effect, and after three months, the relationship between two people will enter a run-in period.

Quite simply, he didn't aim to get married, so now his true form is revealed

Hot first and then cold, this is the general law, when he is hot, you don't have to be happy, so as to avoid, when it is cold, excessive sadness.

Human contact requires a run-in period, and lovers are even more so.

You have to break up immediately, since your boyfriend changed his mind when he fell in love with you, it means that he is a scumbag, and it can only be a waste of time to continue with such a man.

Since you can't die on your own, find a way to make yourself aware of the reality and see clearly the fact that the boyfriend in front of you no longer loves you, and only then can you start a new life.

If you have a boyfriend who has changed your mind, let him go, and live well by himself, after all, tying up a person who doesn't love him is simply a sin, not to mention that you may not be able to tie it up, and he will lose someone who really loves him.

Break up, he changes his mind and doesn't love you anymore, even if he keeps his heart, it doesn't completely belong to you, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

If you still love him very, very much, then you should talk to him well, ask him why he wants to leave you, and analyze whether it is possible to recover. If it's really possible, let it go as soon as possible, and you will hurt the most if you continue like this.

If you can't put it down, you can find a chance for the two of you to have a good talk and try to see if it can be recovered, if you can't, you need time to slowly put it down.

Your boyfriend's change of heart may make you very painful, but I think this kind of man will let it go, and if you really can't let it go, then change yourself.

1.Insist on exercising, a good physique is very important, and you can also maintain your figure2Change your dressing style and learn to dress yourself.

3.Keep studying, love one thing.

If you can persevere, I feel like even your boyfriend will regret it and even come back to you.

If you have redeemed it and still can't change the other party's mind, then give up. Don't give up your self-esteem because of an ex-boyfriend, you must love yourself first before someone will love you.

Try to accept this fact slowly, people who don't love you will not be good to you, they will only hurt you. Love yourself first.

I took a look, and your basic problem is that your boyfriend doesn't want to grow up and is indifferent to you and your loved ones.

The reasons may be:1The unsatisfactory performance of his career is transferred to his own life, which is manifested in the fact that he begins to indulge in games and is indifferent to his lover, which is an escapist approach. It is recommended to pay more attention to his work and try to communicate with him more.

2.After a long time, you will inevitably get bored and indifferent to you, perhaps because you are both focused on your work and do not pay attention to each other's needs in your emotional life. It is recommended to relax with your boyfriend, watch movies, and travel to alleviate the embarrassing situation.

3.He may want to break up, but he doesn't want to break up his relationship for many years, which has caused the current situation of breaking up.

Suggestions: 1. Communicate more and care more about each other, whether it is work or life.

2. Emotional matters must be learned to operate slowly, just like buying **, hoping that the stocks you buy will rise or buy potential stocks. He is irrational, then you have to be rational, otherwise it is you who suffers, how tolerant, women are men's schools, and his maturity and success are precisely invested and operated by you.

3.When you can't bear it anymore, you don't need to endure it anymore, let's leave, a good youth needs happiness to survive.

ps.I wish you all the best.

People will change with the change of environment, don't compare the current love with the feelings on campus. Each other is busy with work, and playing games may be a way to decompress work. After being together for a long time, you will also feel fatigued, and you have been in love for a few years, and now it is flat.

But once in a while, you have to inject fresh elements into your current life and surprise him. He may not be as bad as you think, maybe he doesn't want to be nice to your family, maybe he has his own difficulties! Two people should be honest with each other if they want to live together, and there is nothing to hide about the situation at home, after all, you have to know sooner or later in the future.

If you look down on him, leave him! You can see that you love him very much, and he still cares about you, find a time when everyone is in a good mood to talk about it, and don't go directly to the topic, and recall the beautiful things that just fell in love when you were studying! I think people have feelings.

If he can't communicate with you, write a letter to him. Then go back to your house for a while and see how he treats you. Give yourself some space and give him a little time!

Finally, I sincerely wish you to cross this hurdle in front of you!

If people really change, give up, the more you delay, the more you can't let go, and the more you delay, the more time will be delayed. I have a friend's boyfriend who has always treated her badly, and after waiting for him for five years, no one can be found, and she herself is in a hurry, and she started to look for it but has been looking for it is not suitable, very miserable.

I still can't let go of the 4-year relationship, give him some time, and communicate with him well. It's easy to let go, and while it gives you temporary peace, it's an escape. I think he still has feelings for you, but after two people have been together for a long time, it will become dull.

This is something that every relationship will experience, so you really have to think carefully about it and don't do things that you regret. Finally, I wish you happiness.

Let's talk about it first, talk openly, tell him what you think and worry about, and if it still doesn't work, let it go!

If you talk for a long time, it will be like this, you must be self-reliant, let him feel that you can't live without him, don't always put your heart on him, if you want to leave him, find your own friend life circle, live happily, don't stick to him all day long and let him take the initiative to find you!

It is advisable that you stay apart for a while. Two people will have emotional fatigue after being together for a long time, talk to him and calm down separately.

I may have the same experience as you, it's really hard to explain, I think I should ask him in person, if you don't want to forget it, find out the problem, eliminate the barrier, be together, be happy together! Don't be like me, you can never get out of the shadows!

I think if you want to get back to your good life, you have to understand your boyfriend, he is only temporary, and you have to remind him what he is doing now.

Your decision is right, girls should be self-reliant. A man who doesn't love you, even your mother will take care of it, and a man who doesn't treat him well is not worthy of your love. Even if you live together in the future, you will only be miserable.

Because he can't take on a home, he can't give you security. Let's face your life well, I believe that in the future, while stabilizing your own life, you will meet people who take you seriously. Take control of your life and trust your choices.

I think people change over time, space, and environment, so you have to learn to change, to adapt, to tolerate.

He's a face-saving person, maybe there's something wrong with it lately, you might as well have a good chat, see if it's wrong, and then think about what's next

Try to be cold to him and see if he changes! Ay... The emotional thing is ... I don't know what to say.

He focused on the game and gave him time. As a boy, I can appreciate the impact of being obsessed with a game on a person's life.

It's really not good, you try to be indifferent to him, hehe

I think your worst enemy is time. After all, you've been together for so long, and your relationship has begun to fade.

And then there's the reality of society... Now it's not as simple as the previous love, and there are a lot of problems involved, just like money. I think as a man, it's unforgivable for him to treat you like that.

Landlord,If it's possible,Or talk about it.,After all, that's your youth.。。。 Of course, I think if he still doesn't change, his attitude towards you is still like that. I mind if you are separated.,Although most of your youth has gone.,But the landlord still has his own life.,There's still a long way to go.。。。

There's no need to put your future on his own for him ... Have fun ...

It feels like the two of you are lacking in communication, and you should calm down and have a good talk.

It feels like your boyfriend is indeed a bit of a macho person, whether in career or family, and may have his own ideas and ideas.

In terms of career, your boyfriend has just entered the society, and there may be a certain contrast between the development of his career and his expectations, and there will be a certain amount of negativity.

Emotionally, you have been together for a long time, because you know each other, so the heat of the relationship will cool down, which is normal, but you don't doubt his feelings for you, otherwise it will only backfire, you should also make yourself more progressive, so that he can see a new side of you.

You want to communicate with him, but it doesn't work, it's just that you haven't found a way to communicate, or your problems are too heavy, don't make too many future life problems your boyfriend's responsibility.

What you need to do is to do what you should do every day first, care more about him, and let him feel your love for him, instead of running away.

Love needs to be maintained, you should keep good faith, don't be afraid to tell him something about your family, and believe that if he loves you, he will not look down on your family.