Please help me with a psychologist, please be serious, thank you

It's not a psychological problem, older leftover men and women are often seen, what is the reason? Is it because the previous love has hurt you or the bigger the person, the higher the psychological defense, or the more similar things around you affect you, or you care too much about your girlfriend, or you are too careful, that is, as the saying goes, the heart of a villain is the belly of a gentleman, there are many reasons, the current love, not a simple love, that is a kind of comprehensive ability, just give love is not enough, you have to do a lot, you are still very young, maybe fate has not arrived, don't be in a hurry, find a good girl who suits youEvery time something goes wrong, please think about it from the other party's standpoint, and tell you a way, take a deep breath every time you get angry, you will be much more relaxed, and then talk to her calmly, I believe that you will improve the situation after doing so, however, the key is yourself! It's not psychopathy.

I think you don't have confidence in yourself When you have a girlfriend, you always feel in your heart that your girlfriend will betray you Because you don't have confidence in yourself from the bottom of your heart, and you don't have confidence in the love between the two of you personally I didn't think that if two people really plan to be together, the most important thing is to trust each other No matter what you do, you must know how to be considerate, and the most important thing is to respect each other Now it is no longer the society that men are inferior to women in the past It is not an era when women have to revolve only around their husbands The women who exist are proud of wanting to have a job of their own

Besides, you're only 23 years old now, so why are you in a hurry to get married? Generally, love requires two people to go through the wind and rain before it can be called love

In the future, you have to manage your temper Learn to be considerate and considerate of your girlfriend You have to trust each other If a love is based on distrust, I believe that it will not be long before we break up

First of all, you can be aware of when you start to learn to "think".

Believe that you know best what the way and content of your thoughts are, whether it is some inner dialogue or some image scene or situation in your mind.

Then, find out what you have in common with each of your "thoughts", for example.

After every thought, you go inside yourself and ask yourself.

What kind of positive meaning does it mean to me behind my thoughts? Is it protecting me? Maybe.

Was there a certain experience or experience that taught me to face something in this way? ”

Then, when you become aware of it, remember to be grateful for the way you "think wildly".

And, find some new ways to better adapt to your current environment and life by finding some new ways to better adapt to the positive meaning behind this confusion.

These are my suggestions for you.

As for the woman's translator, I don't know the specifics.

I believe that if you have done all of the above, the problem is no longer a problem.

Self-control is too poor, and sometimes you have to control yourself when you get angry.

It's too childish, it's like you haven't grown up, your willful personality is very similar to a woman! It's not that I said, you can't do this.

To be a man, you must be generous and patient, first of all, be generous, forgive others, and secondly, self-control, have feelings and do not show them, you will be angry if you say you are angry, and if you say you are sad, you will be sad, no!

To raise the bar for yourself, force yourself to grow up and that's it.

Don't talk nonsense, 23 years old is a leftover man, if it's not suitable, it's not suitable, you find a fixed working time, at most, you may say that you have a heavy tone, don't consider the feelings of others, think more about her feelings, don't think about anything in the future, just say anything, think clearly.

You are so scary, saying that she sleeps with the boss, didn't you lift a stone and shoot yourself in the foot? Which woman will be with you when she hears you say that?!

I would like to send you a heartfelt word: things can be eaten indiscriminately, but words cannot be spoken indiscriminately! Be careful when you talk in the future! Girls are for petting, not for scolding.

Normal people watching live broadcasts will not spend more than 1,000 yuan in gifts. After all, he is a stranger, and he is not a local tyrant, so he does not have the economic conditions to consume like this. If you are not watching a game anchor but an outdoor anchor, it means that you have lacked friends who have communicated sincerely since you were a child, and you don't go out to play and feel fresh.

And it is relatively light on money. I think that the live broadcast of the anchor should be consumed and sponsored, but my idea is not like this. I don't think I charge money because I think someone will charge money and pay gifts to the streamer.

If there is less than a few anchors, there are more than a few hundred, and tens of thousands of fans. One person spends one dollar a day. The anchor is tens of thousands of dollars a day.

So what do I do with his money. In short, there will be local tyrants who will sponsor him. He is not missing arms or legs.

I said that I had to give some gifts. Unless it's that kind of outdoor cycling live broadcast, brush up some gifts as a sponsorship. After all, others need money to travel around the world, so you can sponsor it once in a while.

You give him money and say thank you for the gift, isn't it the same as a beggar? It's just a little handsome. If it's to watch a beautiful anchor.

It means that you are not satisfied with your object, think that she is so beautiful, or that you are more sexual. The beauty anchor is nothing more than beauty + makeup. Before the news, it should be clear that the news was not a grandmother as an anchor.

It's okay to take a look. Maybe it's uglier than your wife. Are you willing to pay for an ugly pussy?

That's not how money is spent. If it's really lonely, I'll give you a few Japanese action movies, or go outside to relieve your boredom. The French side is unloaded.

But if you want to make sense, you can also do without removing makeup, and it is all up to you. I think you have lung fever, take more Jiangzhong brand lung heat diet tablets.

No, no, no, that's the only way you can feel the meaning of life. Everyone has their own way of life, everyone has their own desires, some people are aggressive, some people are willing to fall, but whether they are enterprising or depraved, it is their own choice. This career that you have been holding on to for two years is too short for the life you have already experienced.

You need to work harder, follow your own feelings, what is the gift for you, I wish you a smile in 2020!

Uninstall it, don't indulge in this, it's not beneficial, uninstall it ruthlessly, so as not to fall deeper and deeper.

Why don't you become an anchor? Then there is no time to look at other people's gifts.

I think then uninstall it. It's not easy to think about the money you make! Can't control yourself. Then uninstall it.