My personality is weak, how can I become strong?

You're a girl, it's normal to have such a mentality. It's not easy to change your personality like this! Ordinary girls will cry when they are aggrieved and anxious, which is not good, but it is not bad.

Even I, at work, are sometimes as negative and pessimistic as you. But then I figured it out, and the more you do this, the more annoying you become, the less confident you become.

So I play with friends, or in other ways to forget about work or life worries. But at work, do your own thing with your heart and don't think about what you used to work for. Sometimes talk to your best friend.

How to have a boyfriend, just look for him!

I am very wronged, and I can't be comforted, and others can't see it. It's even more uncomfortable to hold it by yourself!

In fact, if you want to change your personality, you can only face your difficulties in this way, nothing else.

But then again, a girl like you is actually very attractive!

To be precise, it's unlikely that your personality will change. The nature of the country is easy to change and difficult to change, everyone understands this sentence. In fact, you should see the problem of your own character from another angle, timidity, crying, and weakness are not the characteristics of traditional Chinese little women?

What you are born with, God will definitely make up for you through other aspects, such as the love of your parents and your considerate husband, will make up for this small defect. You've just magnified this little problem with a magnifying glass, and you're already over-focusing on it. Once you get nervous about a common problem, can you still find or solve it?

I think that if there is a problem in your work, you also attribute all the responsibility to your character, calm down, and analyze the specific problems in detail. If you have a correct mentality, if you don't understand at work, find a confidant to help, don't be so pessimistic, everything will be fine, God is fair to everyone. The ability is limited, and only these can be enlightened.

People must understand that not everything can be forced, and we can only envy others for what they are, but don't blindly worship and change yourself.

I'm in a very similar situation to you, I'm inferior, I'm not confident, and I've just come out of work, I've done a few jobs to train myself, but I can't hold on to each of them for a month, and now I realize that I can't do anything, I can't do anything that seems simple, hey, I have a boyfriend, but unfortunately he can't always be by my side, I really hope he can come to me immediately when I encounter difficulties, but it's impossible! I can only rely on myself.

You know your shortcomings, so why don't you use your shortcomings as strengths!

Do you know what fierce people are most afraid of, that is, they are most afraid of weak people! Weakness does not mean that you will cry and be afraid when you encounter something!

The word Jing is very useful for everyone, and when you are wronged, you must be calm and don't mess up. Use your brain to analyze the problem! Be good at using your wits and your weakness to deal with problems!

Use your brains to exploit your own shortcomings!

It's good if you go out to study abroad, or go to the military for two years There are examples like this around, hehe

It's good to be a soldier and train for two years.

You're not confident! Be strong! Exercise more, read more, make more friends!

When you are in a bad mood, try to distract yourself, don't focus too much on those things that have passed, this will only make yourself more depressed, in life, maybe you should learn to laugh, only laughter, can make people come out of the shadows. It's not impossible to find a boyfriend when you say it, but don't tell your heart easily, some guys don't like their girlfriends to say this and that to themselves, they will feel very annoyed, and when they are impatient, that is, when your relationship comes to an end. At that time, you may be sadder and less meaningful to life than you are now.

This kind of practice can only make you happy for a while, not for a long time. If you want to really come, you still have to rely on yourself. Got it?

You should find a boyfriend who is stronger, it will be much better!

Learn to talk and don't take unhappy things to heart. Make a few more good friends, you can fight with them if you have nothing to do**, you can chat, you can ask them out to dinner, you can go shopping with them, you will find out. Life is actually very happy

It's a bit hard to change your personality, but you don't have to change yourself.

1. Read more. Reading books can not only improve people's knowledge level and resist irritation, but also help to develop the ability to think independently. Reading 10,000 books, walking 10,000 miles, and reading more books can also broaden a person's horizons.

Only by constantly enriching knowledge can we get along with people better. In daily life, only when you can mingle with everyone will you let go of your personality.

2. Strengthen exercise. Wenwen's weak appearance will give people a feeling of weakness, strengthen exercise to have a good physique, strong bones, will give people a healthy and upward feeling.

3. Learn to reject others. Whether in life or work, if you have the ability to help others who are reasonable in their reasonable requirements, then go to help. For those who are unreasonable or unable to help, they must shout socks and learn to refuse decisively.

4. Have your own opinions. Since everything must have its own opinions, it is impossible to infiltrate or follow what others say. After all, everyone's position is different, and that point of view is also different.

Only those who have an assertive mind can take on the responsibility of life, rather than being weak and submissive.

5. Be able to refuse comfort and have the courage to go out and challenge. Many people prefer to enjoy a comfortable life, a comfortable environment, and a comfortable life, thinking that it is the best life, so they do not get the opportunity to exercise themselves. Only when a person dares to go out and accept the challenges of life can he have the courage to take charge of himself.

If you have enough courage, you will not be weak.

6. Be self-confident. If you want to change your weak and honest character, you must first have enough self-confidence. Self-confidence plays a key role in a person's success or failure, and only by believing in oneself can one have enough courage.