My retreat drove him away, and I want to get it back

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you have broken his heart.

    How is it possible to continue to be friends.

    Or meet silently.

    Or start over.

    Accept him or not, that's just a question for yourself.

    Don't think too much about it, just ask yourself about your feelings for him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't do it, why do you want to eat back grass when it's already like this, why bother with it today. Keep your self-esteem up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm also in love with girls like you, but I'm still willing to be friends with her. Because if you don't even have to be a friend, it's impossible to chase her. If she doesn't say yes now, I'll wait until she says yes. Until she finds her significant other.

    If you like him, tell him.

    I don't like him, and he doesn't want to be friends anymore. Then let it be!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it's all the objective reasons you say, then it doesn't matter if you accept him. Don't try how to believe in love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As long as he truly loves you, you don't have to be afraid. If you love him too, then this is a wonderful marriage. Be sure to redeem it!

    If you don't undo it, that's the biggest mistake of your life! However, you have to think carefully before marriage, otherwise, you will make a big mistake after marriage! If he truly loves you, you must redeem it!

    Take advantage of the now, hurry up and think about it, and get it back quickly! I'm sticking with you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you like it, chase it.

    Otherwise, you will regret it.

    If you like him.

    You must chase him back.

    Otherwise, there is no regret medicine in the world.

    See what kind of attitude you have in your heart, and then measure his place in your heart.

    You'll be here to speak out and ask for help.

    I believe that he still has a place in your heart.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you love him, don't hurt him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    From birth to death, everyone will encounter many difficulties and setbacks, which are inevitable and inescapable. Life is a big meal, frustration and difficulties are the spices of life, without these sweet and sour tastes, the value of tasting in a good-looking meal has also been lost. Each of us is fortunate to be able to survive in this world, which is God's gift to us and the best gift in this world.

    We should be glad that we grew up in such a country without war and famine, so everyone is happy and lucky.

    If love comes, don't resist, don't say that the future will be bad. "If you lose your horse, you will not be blessed", how do you know that the future is not good? People are worried, knowing that this is not good, why should you immerse yourself in it?

    Happiness is created by yourself, and what you choose, you will get? If you choose to be miserable, depressed, and don't believe in love, even if happiness and love are in front of your eyes, you won't enjoy it. A Turkish poet said:

    If you want to get something, you have to give it first. "Do you want to have a good relationship? Do you want to be happy and happy every day?

    Why not choose them? Why bare yourself in depression every day? All actions in this world follow a formula:

    In = out pay = take.

    Think about what you give or not, what will you get?

    If you think about things from a different angle and treat things in a different way, you will find that the sun shines on your body and face, how happy it is. No matter how short life is, no matter how rich people are, the final result is to face death. Cherish every day, every day is your special day, everyone is something you need to face with a smile, even if it is an enemy, smile at him.

    The annoyance will naturally disappear because it is afraid of the sun. Laugh and laugh, from now until every day in the future, I believe that you will be a healthy, happy, and lively girl. Believe that there is true love and it will definitely come to you.

    Only when you have a dream in your heart will it come true. Let the sun shine on your heart!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This depends on whether it is worth redeeming, if it is worth it, then you should try your best to redeem it, if it is not worth it, then don't even turn your head back.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Come to think of it, different choices can lead to different consequences, which in turn can have a greater impact.

    I don't know what your relationship is or what happened between you, but the fact that you're here to ask us for help shows that they are not an insignificant role in your heart, and that some people miss it and can't get it back.

    Now, only now.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't even know if it's redeemed or not, so what else do you know.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you really like your lover, I suggest you try to redeem it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you like it, you can stay. If you don't like it, let it go. Is the earth so big that it is still missing?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Before you decide, ask yourself a few questions:

    1Why should I redeem him?

    2What would happen if I were to redeem her?

    3What will happen if I don't redeem her?

    4Is it worth it for me to redeem her?

    5 Does my heart really want to redeem her, not an impulse in a moment?

    If you think it's really, really worth it, go for it. If you don't feel so wishy-washy. Don't be discouraged, maybe the better one is waiting for you later.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you still love him, you have to redeem him, I had an experience, because of a little thing, I broke up with him, and I have always regretted it, and in the end I redeemed him, and now I am very happy, I believe in you, you have to believe that you have a future, you have to work hard for your future. Believe you and redeem it!! If you love him and still have him in your heart, you must redeem him!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't take it back. Together you will be tangled again. Breaking up will be uncomfortable again. Toss it a few times. The original feelings are gone.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love is inherently selfish, and if you can't accept his situation, you don't have to save it. You can find a sunny afternoon, find a café, sit down, and have a good chat.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If his pneumothorax can be cured, then it will have no effect on the future, and it is normal for you to worry about the future, not selfishness, who doesn't want to make the future safe, this is human nature, and if you want to redeem it, you have to find a way to solve your knot.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You're so willful... Not to be assertive yet. Such a good man will force you to break up...

    You have to know how to cherish it... Since you like him, go to him and give each other a chance, but your shortcomings must be changed, otherwise it's hard to say if you can be together in the future...

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Suggestion: Go to the doctor first to consult whether the pneumothorax will have an impact on your future life, how much of an impact it has, and whether it can be **. After that, trust yourself to make the right choice.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Full of your mother.

    Have you ever asked yourself what the hell is going on?

    Just because I've been sick.

    That's how you treat him.

    Besides, this disease is cured, and your mother's so-called influence has no basis, is your so-called love just someone else's blind giving?

    Your love will not stand the test.

    Because you are not prepared to suffer together.

    When it comes to something like this, you back down.

    Love is an insurance.

    Both parties have to go through pain and suffering, but together, what are you afraid of, making the man feel so cold.

    You didn't tell him the real reason for the breakup.

    Hehe, he got it, and I was curious about his thoughts and expressions.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you hesitate, don't be together again, maybe your happiness is behind.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's okay, there are better ones in the future, waiting for you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There is still a feeling between you who loves you, but you are a little tired, but you regret it when you separate, you can't let go of this relationship, if you love him, you go to redeem him, and bet your happiness on that once

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you don't think you can try to get together, you can divide it.

    When two people get along with each other for a long time, it is inevitable that when they are separated, they will inevitably think like you, and the time you think about will make you slowly forget him, what you said you think about so much means that you have really fallen in love with him, it may be that you can't accept the feeling of not having him by your side for a while, you have to think more, whether your one is worthy of being with him, don't blindly think about the past.

    Think about whether he is self-motivated and good for you, before and in the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In fact, I don't know if you want to save your relationship, everyone is very confused on the emotional road, you said that you cried for a day, that's normal, after all, he is your first love, and he is also the man you paid! I had the same experience as you at the beginning, I didn't leave him, because he was the man I gave for the first time, I cried and was sad and I don't know what I will do in the future? To tell you the truth, if I am still the same as before, this is your current situation, I will leave him!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    must be redeemed, all love, can't let go of each other, what else can not be faced together, but will regret a lifetime, don't all for those self-esteem, bitter their hearts, and their lovers still care about who proposed first, then you take the initiative once, come on, go and fight **, don't let happiness slip away

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Objectively analyze whether you are suitable in the end, two people together not only consider feelings, but also consider personality, objective environment, if these are suitable for you do not take the initiative, what age is it, everyone is eager for other people's pay, feelings are not waiting for it, it is to fight, and then talk to him, see what he thinks, and tell him that you have feelings for her.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Alas, Xiao Beisheng is newly married, and it would be good to reconcile immediately.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's better to let it go, although this may not be the answer you want. But don't get it back、、、 there's no need for this, let go and be friends, and you can also contact. Do you think about what you can do if you don't let go and save it, continue to be the way it was、、、 this will only make the two people more painful, although the first love is unforgettable, but you have reached a dead end、、、 relationship is a matter of two people, and there is not much to say、、、 think about it yourself, "Explain that I used to be the same as you, and I found that I really can't go on."

    Not a month to break up and pull 、、、 dizziness next time I finished talking about it again, no longer a city. You are also an only child、、、 in fact, you already have the answer in your heart, but you can't let it go、、、 discuss it with him, see if you are for him or for your family、、、 whether he is for you or for your career.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Do you love him? Just ask yourself if you really love him in your heart, and don't let go if you love him! God gives people the right to get true love only once!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Let him go out, precipitate your feelings, and see if they are really inseparable from each other, and you both gamble for each other!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    How many couples has been saved by this passage? Should this relationship be salvaged?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Why did you go earlier, why are there so many people like you in society...

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Or don't want it, maybe he already has a new life, a new beginning, if it is destined to be missed, it means that the fate is shallow

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    What did you do in the first place, you were dreaming when he chased you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Redemption means that you are not as reserved as you were at the beginning.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    No, delete you, maybe people have given up or have a new object to pursue.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    No. It's not that you don't live!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Then go for it. Pursue your own happiness.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Forget it, since it didn't start, it didn't mean to miss it, so it's over like this, just keep it as a memory.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It is estimated that people are also famous.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    How did you do it in the end?

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    After a breakup, should I get back together? See if there are these five performances.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Whether or not to redeem after a breakup is actually not so reasonable.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If you work hard, you won't regret it.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    How many couples has been saved by this passage? Should this relationship be salvaged?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Whether it can be recovered after a breakup mainly depends on the attitude.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    It shouldn't be reversed, the relationship needs each other's care and distress, he doesn't care about you, you are hot, only your pay, in the end, you will be very tired.

    Look far, look away, this kind of unreliable love, in the end, you may need to pay so much that you can't afford it.

    In the end, only I was hurt and cried.

    It's not worth it.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    I don't think it should be reversed, you said he didn't keep you when you broke up, you messaged him, he didn't care about you, he cared how you could be like this.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    He may be proud, he may not love, not necessarily, I think the best thing to do is to make it clear to him right away and tell him all your true thoughts.

    You say you ...... because you don't think he loves you enough

    If he and you continue to be with you after understanding your true intentions, then everyone will be happy If, after explaining it, he still breaks up, I advise you to break up.

    Better a finger off than always aching.

    I used to die and live because he didn't love me enough, but fortunately he finally came back to life.

    Finally, I wish you happiness2

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    I think it's necessary, he doesn't care, you don't have to think too much, he usually doesn't care so much, it means that he doesn't care much about you, when you propose to break up or miss it, you have to regret it, you may not belong to him, he is not your only choice, the forest is very big, why do you have to go around a tree

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    You shouldn't have tried him in the first place, but now ... You bear with it first, endure it for 2 weeks and don't call him ** or send him a message, see if he will call you first in these 2 weeks, if he calls, it means that he still cares about you, if you don't take the initiative to contact you for 2 weeks, I think you still have to think about this kind of boy, what do you think?

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