Emotional problems, pressure on all points for enlightenment

Updated on society 2024-04-27
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since you like it, you can treat her sincerely, but you must understand your character, and you can't just rely on temporary feelings

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Step by step, first tell his brother that you are interesting to her and strengthen the relationship (preliminary matching); then discuss with his brother the plan to seize Fang's heart (usually ask his brother to help, highlight that you are more reliable than his brother, and attract her attention); In the end, I still have to ask his brother to pull the strings (such as going to the movies together, and his brother leaving under an excuse, etc.); Finally, everything is in place, tell her what you have been holding back for a long time!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not easy for buddies to meet the person you like, cherish it, losing it must be a regret in your life! If you don't give me points, I hope to encourage you, because I met before, but unfortunately I missed it, come on.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go with the flow, continue to contact, strive to be alone, the water is a matter of course, the wood is a boat, the porridge is made into a meal, as long as you get along sincerely, my brother likes it too.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you like it, try to chase it. It's nothing for a man to take the initiative. No shame ...

    If you miss it. It would be a shame ...

    Let's talk to your buddy first. See what he means. If you don't say. Sooner or later she'll be someone else's girlfriend...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe. Congratulations! When you meet someone who makes your heart flutter, you can meet but can't ask for something.

    Don't fret, that's a good thing, get ready for it! Love is not very smooth from the beginning of UI, plan it well, and think rationally. You can see that you are already very attracted to her, so find a chance to confess to her!

    Wishing you happiness!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Brother, you want to chase him, but you don't know what to do, right, I suggest you tell him to be friends first, because he and you are not even friends now, understand, only by being friends first can you develop further Tell him to see what he thinks If he says yes, you will have a chance, but don't say anything about boyfriend and girlfriend, Generally, such a girl will make you scared, and it will be difficult to do First of all, make sure that he has no aversion to you, and you have a good impression of what you want to meet, and when you are familiar, you can mention the matter of boyfriend and girlfriend It's not a good thing to pay attention to, and I hope my brother succeeds.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Dude, it seems that the truth is moving, chase it, and there is her brother to do eyeliner, there are not many good women,

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Cherish it, buddy! Tell her anyway! In this life, it is not easy to meet someone you love deeply!

    Do you want to regret it for a while, or for the rest of your life?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should be measuring your feelings by appearance and comparison now!

    If you haven't had a first time before, you will definitely be encouraged to pursue the ...... you love

    However, you should also understand how important a girl's first time is to him, if you can't be responsible, you don't have the sense of responsibility you should have as a man, you shouldn't do something you don't want to be responsible for in the first place!

    Love, compare to come, compare to go, no matter which one you choose in the end, you will regret ......it

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What a complicated love triangle!! It's like acting in an idol drama... I can't give you a definitive answer because I'm not Cupid.

    But questions like this must be chosen carefully. Because both are good people.

    It's me, if there are two choices, one is the one I love (he doesn't necessarily love me), and the other is the one who loves me, I will choose the one who loves me, because she loves you, so she is willing to give you unreservedly and treat you as her everything, (a girl's love is selfless, just like the first time she gave you).

    And to know if they fancy your money or yourself ...

    And ordinary!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Calm down and see how you feel. Since you're going to hurt one (and probably both) anyway, don't let yourself regret it! You have to make a decision quickly, it won't do anyone any better if you drag it out any longer!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is a saying for you, a man will meet a woman who loves him the most and the woman he loves the most in his life, one by his side and the other in his heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Body and appearance can be changed, but it is impossible to be inside·· Haven't you seen those horrors without makeup? A is the one who has always faced you with the most authentic side·· She's a good girl... In other words, any boy who knows how to cherish is to take good care of her and love her·· You should also wonder if you want to cherish it...

    b likes you now · · Why?? Someday·· Or soon... She's going to like someone else's... The viewer can see much better than you do... Don't be stupid... B than you can play feelings...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You're so confused! Choosing one will definitely hurt one, and you should choose A, after all, someone else is the first time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If I were a man, I would choose A

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is good to choose A, it is safe, and there are too many uneasy factors in class B.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Close your eyes. Which person is the first to appear in front of you! It's your choice in this life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think you should choose anyone, love triangles generally don't end well.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Have you ever noticed.

    You made A a spare tire

    B is for adventure?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Each has its own merits, and you weigh it yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The premise is oh, I don't know how old you are, hehe, if you want to get married, I believe how to choose you is wise, if you want love, it depends on who you really like in your heart, hehe, think about it, who to choose and who to give up, who is your favorite, good luck.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Find someone who loves yourself.

    I will be happy for the rest of my life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Choose A, that is the ultimate dependence of your heart.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    b, if there is only one marriage, you must choose a person you love.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Personally, I feel that it is better to choose A.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Everyone has a past, as long as it is good to you, why care about the past? Who has not made a mistake, as long as he is sincere to you, he is worthy of you at this moment, let go of prejudice, give feelings a chance, let yourself get a chance to be happy, and give him a chance to be happy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Alas, it's a bit hard. Try to accept him, if you really love him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You haven't shown up in his past, so why do you mind?

    As long as you're happy now, if he's really good, bless you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Everyone inevitably has a past, if it's love, it shouldn't limit each other, let him pass in the past, you look at the future together, isn't it? Also, if you think about things simply, you'll feel that happiness. I have a boyfriend who values character the most, since he is very good, then don't miss it stupidly, girls are possessive, but we have to learn to control!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Don't mention the past! Who hasn't passed? It's what counts in front of you! Who knows what will happen later! If you like it, you can be together!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Love the house and the house, love him and accept all that he has.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Because of the cause, the street is fruitful.

    If he's not the same person he used to be, then he's not necessarily going to be nice to you now, some people always have to go through a series of people and things to find what really belongs to him, and your boyfriend may belong to this kind of person.

    You should feel lucky.

    If you think about how good he is to you, you will naturally see it more openly.

    Besides, you and he are going to live today and tomorrow, not yesterday, don't think so much.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Isn't it very good to see what you're talking about, "His character is not bad, he's good to me, everything is for my sake, it's the type I like, you're just knowing this, and I'm not very comfortable, just separate for a few days, do something else, don't keep thinking about these things, just after a while." The run-in period is only.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you really love him, you should forget the past, you can't always live in the shadow of the past, everything has to look forward.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    As long as 2 people are happy together!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    That's your question, think about how ...... you would rather be with someone who has been at fault, or someone who hasn't been at fault but Ken will make mistakesPeople make mistakes.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You need to know that the past has passed and has happened, what can you do? What you want to live with him is the future, it is the future, since he is good to you, it is enough, why do you want to do so much? The rest of his life belongs to you, what you have to do now is to recognize the facts, then caring about his past will only cause your emotional crisis, there are disadvantages and no advantages, the most taboo for two people together is this, be generous!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    He has such an experience, so have you ever wondered if you will become her before?

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    1. Nothing you say can make you not care about his past.

    2. If his current performance still satisfies you, the past will be over.

    3. Keep him at a distance from other women, but don't let him be too tight.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    How to say, it's not up to you to decide what happened before, as long as the future days are good for you, instead of worrying about the past, it's better to look at the future, live a good life, don't let the past repeat the past, right?

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Believe in him together. Affection requires trust. Otherwise, there is no sense of society. You tell me.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Letting go is not disliking, there will be a lot of helplessness in a person's life. It's much better to leave a good memory than to leave some unspeakable damage. If you really like her, let her go. If she continues, she will be the one who will be embarrassed.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Influence her with sincerity, the man is responsible, in a word, you always have a chance if she is not married. Seek adoption.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Why do you care so much? You said no? He's already promised you, so you don't have to worry about it, you have to believe him.

    Who doesn't have a past? Now that he's been able to let go, you shouldn't think about it anymore. Who says two people who break up can't be friends again?

    Occasional contact is just a greeting between friends. You should be relieved, you should be calm. Cherish this relationship.

    It's good to be happy.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You can also be friends after a breakup, but you think too much, and pay attention to the opposite.

    Like me, although I know that she doesn't have a boyfriend, we keep in touch with her for the purpose of not wanting her.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    A lot of people give you an answer Actually, what I want to say is very simple, we girls are torturing ourselves, and the more you entangle yourself, the more sad and easy it is to upset your boyfriend, you shouldn't be bothered by these problems now, you should actively face it, and do your best to maintain your relationship. You said that he had loved someone before, but no matter how many girl friends a person finds, there will always be one who is the most favorite and the most difficult to give up, why can't you have a little confidence to do the one he loves the most? Even if he had a good and deep relationship with his ex-girlfriend before, wasn't it separated after all?

    Aren't you by his side now? No matter how good it is, it's not your own, now that you are his girlfriend, you have advantages and capital over anyone else, you should grasp this feeling, do your best to make him feel your love and dedication and your advantages, let him feel that he can't leave you, this is the key to solving the problem. You must care too much about him when you're so worried, but such worries can only cause problems for you.

    I used to be suspicious, always told my boyfriend that he felt very ridiculous and helpless worries, I always felt that he didn't understand me, in fact, now I know that it's completely unnecessary, he is yours is yours, if he is not yours, he will leave sooner or later, what you have to do is to be your girlfriend, keep him as much as possible, and let him love you the most! The boy's relationship is actually very simple, you have to protect it well! I'm sure you'll get through it!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Ay! Although you are in your twenties, I have not had much social experience from what you said above, and you are still very naïve. First love is like this, there is always a feeling of gain and loss, and there is no sense of responsibility, just get married and have children as soon as possible.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    If you are too entangled in the past, you will become a resentful woman in the future, and you must love yourself more.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    This is not stingy, love will make people suffer from gains and losses, and this is your first relationship, you cherish it very much, and it seems uneasy everywhere as if it were all your own. I think you can give your family a little bit more affection, not all between you and him, and your boyfriend has also made a decision, you have to trust him.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Everyone has a past, the past may be good or bad but it doesn't matter anymore, the important thing is the present, so you should pay attention to the present rather than dwell on the future.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    You care too much about your blankness. It's too much about his past.

    You should be confident because your boyfriend is now the only one who loves you deeply.

    Of course, many people have a past. And the past is not necessarily forgotten. Not to mention a human, even an animal is hard to forget.

    You see that his ex-girlfriend is still very concerned about him, so that's why I'm worried.

    Think about it from another angle, if you can be noticed by your ex-girlfriend, it means that your boyfriend is not bad.

    If you're still cranky, then ask yourself, can you break up now?

    If you can't, then you have to treat him well. Throw his past away with him.

    He doesn't think much about the past, but you talk about it a lot.

    Don't you want people to think back to the past?

    You have to understand. The two of them can walk together, that is the fate of the previous life. Cherish your present.

    Let it pass...

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Hello! One of the things that annoys you is that you care too much about this relationship, and you try your best to maintain this love, but love is like sand, the tighter you hold it, the harder it is to grasp. The second is that you are not doing it right. There may be some truth to your concerns, but you should consider the other side:

    First of all, thinking like this every day not only affects your emotions and hurts your body, but your boyfriend also feels that you don't trust him, which is not good for the relationship but even worse. Secondly, if your boyfriend can't forget about his ex-girlfriend, and the girl still pays attention to his actions, it proves that your boyfriend is a loving person who deserves to be loved. You should feel lucky.

    You already love him with your heart, usually communicate with him more, let him feel your love for him, I believe he can feel it, and there will be no situation you said! You think crankily every day, which will only benefit others! Show your love with action!

    I sincerely wish you all a speedy marriage!

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