The reality is so cruel, how can family affection be so faint? What about friendship?

Friend, I'm not you, I can't fully feel your pain, but I think you have a heart that doesn't admit defeat, I hope you can stand up and let those who look down on you see what you are, either to prove that others are right, or to prove that you are right, what do you think, all the hardships encountered today are the bargaining chips for tomorrow's success, they are all wealth, be brave to face all this, don't think about what to do in case of failure, do not allow failure, the reality may not be terrible, what is more terrible than this is yourself, Overcome that cowardly heart and be brave enough to say to yourself: I am the best!

It's only 22, it's true, it's just the beginning of life, it's never too late to start, the key is to persevere, now try to find a job to do, it will be good, how can it be light, it's really normal, you are big, a meeting of 28 and a meeting of 22, really, there is that hateful kung fu you do something bad, don't complain, you didn't work hard at the beginning, now is the result, see clearly, just stand up. It's still a long way to go. Hard work will pay off one day.

No pain, no gain!

Today's sorrow is tomorrow's glory!!

A person's life will encounter countless sorrows and encounters, but some people will stand up after experiencing pain, and then rise up and work hard, and some people will give up on themselves and just let their lives go. If you don't have the ability, go and learn; If you don't have any money, you go and earn it. What you should do is to think about whether you want to rise or fall, and then find the goal to struggle, and you have to be mentally prepared, you will definitely encounter countless setbacks on the road of the fellow townsman, you must be able to persevere!

That's all I have to say, I hope you will be useful and bless you.

Perhaps everyone has found a more realistic problem, the indifference of family and friendship in today's society, and the loss of the initial feeling will make people feel that these emotions are unimportant, today I will talk about the reasons.

With the development of society, the current society is very different from the original era, which will lead to a change in people's thinking. The vast majority of people will be more realistic, will not regard family and friendship as very important, and feel that the most important person is themselves, as long as they are happy, they will not have superfluous thoughts.

People want to be treated well at the beginning, hoping to be treated well by the people around them, but if they hit a wall with their relatives and friends, and they don't come to the place where they need help the most, it will change their minds dramatically. For yourself, when you are the most depressed, the other party turns a blind eye, so once you cross this hurdle, then you will not have any good attitude towards them, in fact, they are just responding to the other party normally. People are very emotional, and at the same time, they will be influenced by the people around them, and when they are excluded or oppressed by the other party, they will change a lot of their thoughts.

In the final analysis, people's hearts are actually selfish, and they all hope that they can get the greatest benefits, and when they need to make a choice in front of family and friendship, they will still choose themselves without hesitation. Many times it is your own heart that is doing the trick, hoping that your own interests will be satisfied to the greatest extent, so that you will ignore the interests of others.

Nowadays, this society is really more realistic, many times only you are the most concerned about yourself, and other people will often ignore themselves for various reasons, so it will lead to indifference to family and friendship. In fact, when you contact people, you only need to feel with your heart and lower your requirements, so that you will get a sincere heart, so as to have a trustworthy person.

Nowadays, society is developing very fast, and people are more self-centered and self-centered, so it will cause indifference to family and friendship.

Because of work, many people put work first in their lives, so they simply don't have time to maintain these relationships.

A person who is not worthy of being together, treats his relatives lightly, and is also very cold-blooded will not be able to warm his heart no matter what you do.

In life, not to mention how much affection you have to have, first of all, if you want to gain a foothold in this world, you have to do a good job in the relationship with the people around you. This is true for both family and friends. As a student, I am not financially independent, I don't know the hardships of life, and it is difficult to appreciate the importance of networking.

But once we step into society, we will appreciate the importance of friends and relatives.

When the other half is very cold-blooded, the future will also be limited. People in this society like to be optimistic and enthusiastic, and they are willing to be friends with such people. If you are very cold-blooded, then you will also be subject to many restrictions in the workplace.

This is one aspect.

People who are weak in emotion, do you expect him to care more about you, of course we all hope that we can have someone who understands our hearts to accompany us. But if you meet such a person, he doesn't care about your inner thoughts at all. What you think, has nothing to do with him.

Then there are some people who lack love in their original families who will be obsessed with family affection, plus if you are unhappy in your marriage, you will be more worried about other people's family affairs, and your psychology is a little distorted and you don't know it. With such a person, you will not be happy for the rest of your life.

There are also quite a few people in this category who are very selfish, because they tend to keep asking for love in their growth trajectory, and then being pushed away again and again, simply give all the love to himself, and dare not take it out and share it with others. This is all sorrow for men.

The first is the nature of the growth environment, and the other is related to the current stage situation. The cold personality is not hard-hearted and insensitive, but it is just open-minded, casual, realistic, but not negative. So, it's understandable to be thin, but cold-blooded is more serious.

I hope everyone can find someone who is considerate and serious about you. In this way, I can spend the rest of my life happily every morning and watch every sunset.

Later, the rebellion either became vicious or repressed. Most of them become manic and violent.

For the person you like, you will definitely not be cold-blooded, you will become very warm-hearted, and you will become a warm man.

This kind of person was very lonely and lonely, and no one paid attention to him and helped him.

Treat such a person, why should you worry about it, naturally don't contact it.

Later, I will be lonely, lonely, and ruin the beginning.

There is happiness. Some are in the county.

These are people who can achieve great things.

Do you care so much about this, do you want to be such a person?

In the train of life, we will all meet different people. These different people have their own characteristics and bring us a variety of lives. Maybe when you are far away, you feel that family affection is very valuable.

Youth and ignorance when we are youngIn the time of youth and ignorance, most of us are based on friendship. I believe that when you are rebellious in your youth, you are very troubled by the nagging of your parents, and you think that you have no common topic with them. In fact, the parents' love is only different in the type of expression, and occasionally they will cause misunderstandings between each other because of love.

Some parents and children are not good at expressing themselves, and this misunderstanding is getting bigger and bigger. In the end, it leads to the fading of family affection in our hearts when we are young, and friendship becomes more and more important in our hearts. When we grew up, we discovered the importance of family affection, and when we went to high school or college to work, we found more and more that the world is very realistic, and there is nothing more important in the world than family affection.

As a result, when we look back on the mistakes we have made in the past, we become more and more annoyed, so much so that when we try to make up for something, we find that we can't fix it.

In fact, as long as our parents are alive, we still have a chance to get along. All the love in the world can't resist the sinister love of relatives, and all love can't resist the love of family is real. Too many things in this world are complicated, and the love of our relatives for us is the simplest, purest, and most selfless.

Especially when we are far away from home to work or study, we miss this love very much. Therefore, we need to be kind to our parents in a timely manner.

In our lives, there are actually many families, many relatives, and there are no more.

Seventy or eighty years of harmony, simplicity, sincerity, warmth, although the life at that time was not rich, some can even be said to be very poor, but there is no distance between relatives, care and assist each other, no words, there is a soul, she is sick, you can't help but think, she is in trouble, you will also sacrifice yourself to help, this is the blood is thicker than water!

With the progress of the times, the material life is becoming more and more abundant, the gap between the rich and the poor is also changing, and the relationship between people is becoming weaker and weaker. It is also a reality, people have their own aspirations, and you can't say right or wrong.

In fact, in our lives, there are many such situations: parents are there, brothers and sisters seem to have a good relationship on the surface, parents are gone, in order to do funerals, brothers beat each other and become disabled, there is a pair of brothers in my hometown, the father is gone before the mother, and when the mother is funeral, there is a big fight, and one of them is blinded in one eye. There are also fathers who leave first, and when the mother leaves, the brothers and sisters show their indifference to the deceased mother when dealing with the funeral, and the brothers and sisters immediately stop contacting each other.

The problem may come from her parents, maybe from one of the brothers, maybe there are more reasons, no matter what the reason, the brothers and sisters are born from the same root, why should they fry each other? No matter what interests or other grievances, they should not go beyond family affection.

I feel more and more distant from this real society! I will never be reluctant to follow others, so I will be hurt. Maybe I should go with the flow and be someone I don't even like, it might be better!

But you really can't do it against your will! Since you can't do it, from the heart, be a person who doesn't ask about the world, neither hurts others, nor hurts your own branches! Live your own life and say whatever others say about it!

Learn to get used to it! Learn to forget and sift!