Who am I recruiting to provoke me?! I m messing with someone

We've sometimes had the experience that when we're unhappy, we don't like to talk to our family members and choose to talk to friends. If she wants to tell you, she will naturally tell you, and she may not say it because she is afraid that you will be worried, or she feels that she does not need to tell you.

The next day you see her well, and it proves that she is no longer uncomfortable with that thing, isn't that what you expected? Don't care who is helping her out of her sadness, just care if she's happy, right?

Hehe, don't take these little things to heart. Whether the other party says it intentionally or unintentionally, you have a clear conscience, so keep your head up and go through each day with confidence. Don't be overly sensitive, be open-minded and generous.

If this kind of thing happens again in the future, you go directly to the other person's house and give it to him, and explain the reason.

She was in a better mood just now, do you want to ask her why she is doing this to you, why do you give you a look, and then make her cry, you are happy?

There are some things that are more pleasant when women say things to women. It's like sometimes you have to go out for a drink with your buddies.

If you really want to know why that's that, you can find a time to ask her again.

And one more point, why would she give you a tantrum and not a stranger?

It's because she knows you'll understand her and tolerate her. And strangers, it is impossible. So you're her bf

Okay, has the anger disappeared, happy new year.

It must be that you inadvertently hurt her heart, so if you really love her, reflect on it.

It may not be convenient to tell you, sometimes she doesn't want to say it, don't chase after it, she will definitely say it if she wants to say it, you have to believe her. Brother, don't be impulsive, take your time.

Didn't she happen to be those days! If so, forgive her! Because the girls were very uncomfortable in those days

Why do you have to force her to tell you everything, since people don't want to talk about it, don't ask.

Some things may be inconvenient to talk to you, so you don't have to think about it.

It's enough for you to care about her, and don't ask too much if she doesn't tell you about her.

Maybe you don't think it's good for you to talk about it, or maybe there are other reasons.

Interesting conversations. It's just a different idea. There is no way to run the development of society needs such people ... That's how the world is interesting. Go back and think about whether I'm right (after all, it's probably part of life).

Although it is talking about pigs, it reflects the helplessness of human beings in real life. Really, sometimes people are really helpless in life, and they can't tell if they are wrong? Recruit who to provoke.

The national award is very simple, in fruit language is tasteless, that is, with the way of others, but also the body of others, similar to this, his ancient text and modern meaning can not be translated sometimes.

Is this going to be a matter of principle? No, who has such a contradiction first, so it depends on who caused the incident, so we can judge who is to blame for the real thing.

I didn't intend to illuminate the moon, but the bright moon shone on the ditch.

Keep smiling and believe that every day is a new beginning.

Who did you recruit and provoke whom? How to describe it in an ancient language? Why? Why?

What's wrong? Isn't there something unpleasant?

Because you're used to it! Now you are also a middle-aged person to do things also feel powerless, just because you were young to do things competently, never need the help of others, over time everyone thinks that those housework is you presiding, do not need the care of others, so the in-laws and they will enjoy your care with peace of mind, they will have fun without worry, for the family they are also very relieved to let you take care of it, to put it bluntly, it is a recognition of you, maybe the two are still outside to say, the family affairs are very good with the daughter-in-law, and I will eat when the meal is over, If that's the case, it's a great encouragement, and if you don't feel well with a cold one day, you can tell your in-laws about the situation, and it seems that they will know about it and they will do it! The main thing is to do more communication, I hope you stick to it, maybe the title of the most beautiful daughter-in-law in China is you, and I will send you a cheer.

Every day you are used to cooking, they are lazy with you, and the housework is originally done by everyone together, and whoever is free will do it. Your in-laws may be too old for them to do it, and you should also understand that you should do it at a young age, and this is not to provoke anyone.

You are their daughter-in-law, and it has become a matter of course for you to cook. My in-laws are not very old and in good health. You can get out and walk more. Let them know that you're not there, and they'll all have to eat.

People can't be too diligent, and everyone has to know that shouting tired can't be pressed on themselves, I don't rely on others for anything, I'm tired at my parents' house, no matter what the bottom of my work and life is, I have to learn to say no to anything in the future, otherwise it will be your life.

Go back to your parents' house more often, and stay for a few more days as soon as you go. If you have nothing to do, go out to play, and if they dare to talk about you, they will go back: "Didn't you do the same before?" ”

Of course, good communication is the right solution, and both of you have their own responsibilities and obligations, so it's good to explain it.

Those who can work harder, and if they are uncomfortable, they can say it. When you enter a family, you are a family, don't treat yourself as an outsider.

Being diligent is a blessing, because there is no time to worry.

If you are uncomfortable, you can tell them before class that you can understand normally, but if you encounter something that you can't understand, then you are really hard enough and physically and mentally exhausted. However, the year has come down, if you are indeed unwell or may be late after work, you can usually have a good chat with your husband, let him talk to your in-laws about this topic, everyone has something to communicate, and their own son to communicate will be relatively better. I hope your problem is solved soon, don't be so tired!

Well, you've been doing it for seven or eight years, and it's natural to get used to it. Hi! Find an excuse to go back to your parents' house for a few days.

Let's see what the situation is saying. If the old man finds fault. So he opened his mind.

When you weren't married to his family, didn't they eat the same thing? You are a baby daughter at home, you have never cooked, should you be filial to his family if you marry him? There is no such obligation.

If you want to be filial, you must also be filial to your parents, your parents raised you, and you will marry when you can earn money. When I got to someone's house, I was still wronged. Parents will be distressed.

You go out for a few days under the pretext of something, or go back to your parents' house for a few days to see what happens to them. If the old man is really old and can't do it, then do it, there is no way.

Respect is mutual. I look so tired.

Because of what. Let's be clear.

To make it clear, a woman should do housework and cook, and when her husband is not at home, she should help her husband honor his parents.

I've walked many roads, I've crossed many bridges, I've seen many clouds, I've drunk many kinds of wine, and I've loved only one man of the right age.

Don't care too much about you in the eyes of others, do your part, face criticism or accusations from others, don't work with emotions, so that the work efficiency is not good, you usually need to look at yourself more, you can't change other people's ideas, then change your own way of living! Remember to smile and good luck, stranger.

You are not wrong, what you have to do is to be yourself, now people love to blind the public, what we have to do is to be ourselves.

Be yourself, others talk about it, and after speaking, it is estimated that he has forgotten about it, and what others do will also be what others say behind their backs, all the same.

It may be that something is not going well for you, and you can't think like that.

Because one is a vixen, and the other is a hermaphrodite, of course, they will be judged, and unless they stay quietly, they will be scolded!

You don't have to care what others think of you, just have a clear conscience, and as for others, let him go.

Then you don't do anything, don't care what others say...

Go your own way, let others say, don't always care about other people's eyes.

Just be yourself! Don't live in other people's spit, it will be tiring.

Be yourself and be worthy of your heart!

Be confident in yourself, be bold and don't be afraid.

Be yourself, do things with a conscience, and have a clear conscience.

Answer, don't wish others first, first find your own fault, it is your own problem.

Nothing, who will not be gossiped about, who will not gossip behind people's backs,

Who has no one behind their backs, people, can never be satisfied.

Be yourself, your mouth grows on someone else's body, we can't control it.

No one is perfect, just be yourself.

Ignore them! Do your own thing!

Go your own way and believe in yourself.

I didn't recruit anyone to provoke anyone, because I didn't have self-confidence.

Just as keeping oneself in a good state of mind and approaching the sages and the sages is like believing that the holy masters and sages will not be defeated by the devil's confusion, the normal situation is a state of equilibrium composed of many abnormal implications.

The villain is like a charcoal fire in a furnace, if you touch it, it will burn more and more; If you don't get into it, the sutra will slowly extinguish itself.

Stay away from the villain, and forgive them, you see that the earth is tolerant of good people and bad people, and the sea is tolerant of shrimp and sharks, and there is tolerance thanks to the "villain" He mentioned that "the villain has increased my social knowledge", "the villain has improved my prevention skills", "the villain has sharpened my will and mind", "I have been framed by the villain a lot, you will hone your mind like the sea, your will is like a rock, and your ability to bear pain has been greatly enhanced, and finally you have reached the state of being as calm as Zen and forgetting about things and me. With such a realm, why not be happy in life." You spend money to hire someone to hone you, and you don't care about it, the villain takes the initiative to serve, and he doesn't smoke a cigarette from you, and he doesn't drink a sip of water, shouldn't we thank him

There is an old Chinese saying that it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain.

The gentleman is open in his heart, and even if he disagrees with him, the gentleman will not be bad.

And villains are narrow-minded, unprincipled and bottom-line for the sake of interests, and they often do whatever it takes to achieve their goals.

The villain looks harmonious on the surface, but he is very dark in his heart, and he is a typical person who does one thing and says another.

The villain can't see it at once, you only know when you get along for a long time. Villains are most likely to bond with people who speak too straight.

I once met a little guy who seemed very kind, but I never thought of him slandering me behind my back, which was later told to me by a friend.

His denigration was so silent that I still feel a little scared when I think about it.

My colleague said that the reason why I offended him was because I had spoken out in public on a previous occasion against him.

But that time I was from an objective point of view, but he felt that I was deliberately embarrassing him, and I invisibly formed a bond with him.

Later I learned to distance myself from him and to be silent about what he said, which was the best way to isolate him and protect myself.

In today's society, there are people in all shapes and forms, and it is inevitable that you will encounter unsatisfactory people and things in life, so you must treat them with a normal attitude, learn to tolerate, and think about empathy from the position of others, maybe you feel that others are normal reactions. And I also have to find out the reason is that I am not tolerant enough, too calculating, read more books on interpersonal communication to improve myself, and pay attention to why people with good relationships around me are loved by others. In today's society, there are people in all shapes and forms, and it is inevitable that you will encounter unsatisfactory people and things in life, so you must treat them with a normal attitude, learn to tolerate, and think about empathy from the position of others, maybe you feel that others are normal reactions.

And I also have to find out the reason is that I am not tolerant enough, too calculating, read more books on interpersonal communication to improve myself, and pay attention to why people with good relationships around me are loved by others. In today's society, there are people in all shapes and forms, and it is inevitable that you will encounter unsatisfactory people and things in life, so you must treat them with a normal attitude, learn to tolerate, and think about empathy from the position of others, maybe you feel that others are normal reactions. And I also have to find out the reason is that I am not tolerant enough, too calculating, read more books on interpersonal communication to improve myself, and pay attention to why people with good relationships around me are loved by others.

Praise. The praise of the villain is the protection of himself, because for the villain, he always likes to expose the shortcomings of others, and exposing the shortcomings of others is equivalent to wanting to elevate himself, so we should not be stingy with his mouth, praising him makes him happy, and he has less chance of harming himself.

Disguise. In front of the villain, we must do a good job of disguising ourselves, and don't let him see your dissatisfaction and contempt in the bottom of your heart, because this is for ourselves not to be hurt.

Villains are everywhere, and you can't get rid of them anyway, unless you don't blend in with the crowd, be a complete otaku and a woman, and isolate the crowd. Human beings are group animals, it is impossible to isolate the crowd, and they always have to live and eat.

When you meet someone, it is usually called by fate, or it may be that you have to live a lesson in this life, so you have a good heart, learn to deal with all kinds of people, believe that the Tao does not lose people, and just be yourself.