How can we forget that we love others? But he hurt me

Updated on psychology 2024-05-27
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There's no need to forget it, when you walk through that familiar street in n years, maybe you will smile slightly: those things that you once couldn't forget with all your effort have passed quietly! I used to love someone deeply, and he hurt me, and I couldn't help myself when I just broke up!

    But a year later, I realized that he was no longer the most important thing in my heart! Take it easy! There's no need to forget!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, let everything tend to be dull, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Mindset matters.

    Forgetting a person is not so easy to forget.

    Try not to think about everything that cares about him.

    If you devote yourself more to your work, you won't have the energy to think about it.

    Good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's good to explain or give up as soon as possible, there is no point in going on like this, and in the end, you are the only one who will hurt the most! Perhaps, after a long time, the wound has formed a cocoon, dried up, fallen off, and healed ......

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Nine tricks to teach you to forget the person you shouldn't love:

    1.Mentally, recognize that he is inappropriate for you, and that there will be no result between you.

    2.Keep your distance.

    3.Don't make excuses for yourself.

    4.Clean up items related to him.

    5.Mobilize our own psychological defense mechanisms to balance our mindset.

    6.Participate in outdoor activities and social activities.

    7.Do something you genuinely care about or are interested in.

    8.Change some behaviors and appearances that can affect your self-confidence.

    9.Learn to express your feelings.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Go to the person who loves you dearly, and use the love he gives you to forget the sinful love that hurts you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The streets are full of lovelorn people!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's hard to try to forget love. It's even harder to forget someone you once loved dearly.

    What does it mean to forget? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......

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