Who can break the knot in my heart?

Feelings are like that, if you die, I think he might be sad for a while, but he's more about getting relief. In that case, why don't you leave him and find a better boy, I'm sure he'll kneel in front of you and ask for your forgiveness.

To love him is to tolerate everything about him, but Shi Ke is familiar with it, so let it go, find a better one, and wish you a better one.

If you experience it, you will grow, do more meaningful things, and when you have achievements, you will slowly forget.

My personality used to be a bit similar to yours, and I stammered when I met people or spoke in front of others. Later, I asked a cousin who was a few years older than me (he was a business entrepreneur himself, and he was very good), and he told me that I actually had low self-esteem and had no confidence in myself. Then I asked him what to do.

He also said: In fact, it is very simple, self-confidence can be found by yourself, it can be trained, self-confidence is not a very mysterious thing, that is, you affirm yourself, and then don't care too much about other people's opinions, just do your own to make yourself satisfied! He asked me to try to deal with acquaintances around me first, then with strangers, to attend some friends' gatherings and take the initiative to express my opinions and opinions.

I tried to do it, and slowly my heart stopped beating wildly in front of strangers, I felt that the other party was also a person, why should I be nervous, and I made a generous statement during the interview to find a job as a salesman, the company has special training for us, and I am very active in the training! Now that I'm thick-skinned, I think people are invincible, why should I care about other people's eyes? I even have some actions that others don't like, but no one dares to say that I am not confident in myself, and no one dares to say that I am not happy with me!

I even make jokes and play with dry humor sometimes! That's who I am, from being a very introverted person, to being an extrovert, anything is possible, and it's important to believe that you're taking the step to change!

I'm sure you're OK too!Take more blows, take other people's blows as a grind, and even treat them as enjoyment in the end! You're invincible! No one can defeat you unless you put yourself in a situation of failure and carve a loser's label on your forehead!

It is recommended that you sign up for a training course in speech and eloquence, after which you will find that you have changed a lot.

You lack nothing but self-confidence and an enterprising spirit. It's normal to be introverted, anyway, I'm an introvert when I'm supposed to be introverted, and I'm extroverted when I'm extroverted. Life is like a play, why not be so persistent for decades, let it go!

Communicate more with people and participate in activities, and you will be cheerful. Glad to help you!

Yes, it's because you've never vented, your life is a bit bumpy, and it might be better to vent in your own room. Communicate with others, try to be more open, take out the guts hidden in your heart, come on, you can do it!

I think you're lacking in self-confidence! I also had a time when I was quite depressed. My advice is that you find a dao that interests you, learn it, and make yourself active.

I can't say it well, just keep yourself busy, get in touch with more things, you will discover your strengths, and then your self-confidence will come up, and people will be much easier.

You need a chance to open your mind and try to have a fight with someone else, or a beautiful inner person.

Have a good chat to improve your confidence in communicating with others. The courage you are talking about is actually self-confidence when communicating with others, and the more you communicate with others, you will gradually become more cheerful and more confident.

I feel that it is the environment that you are copying has affected you, and the knot that hits your heart now is the word "afraid", you are afraid that others will bully you, what do you think of you, you yourself are too worried. In fact, thinking about human life in the world is also bitter and tiring, why do you need to think too much about things that have not happened or things that have already happened. The more I think about it, the more tired I become, find more friends to chat, go out to do some public welfare activities, and get in touch with people and things, and slowly I will get better.

I want to open some.

It is both a disadvantage and an advantage. Take advantage of it yourself. If it is too open, the necessary communication will not be done well.

Yes, you just have an inferiority complex, it's not a big deal, language expression can't force this thing, it's not that you can practice, as long as you have the ability and capital, you will definitely be looked down upon, so the direction of your efforts should be to improve your ability, rather than deliberately even eloquence.

Hmmm......First of all, you have to build up your self-confidence and find the best point for yourself! You can go to participate in one.

Zhi some group activities to exercise the communication between people, let go of their hearts, in short, the best way is to let go of yourself from some social activities! This will not only improve your communication skills, but also open your mind, and you will also find a lot of friends, so you can easily cope with it even in front of your boss! In fact, there is no knot, mainly because I haven't found a suitable way to release myself!

Methods can be found in social activities.

Before doing things, when you are timid or embarrassed, you say to yourself, "Why are you so afraid? If I don't do it well, will I die? ”。

In this way, it should help you!

Friend bai, everything will be fine, finding a job is a laborious process, don't be discouraged, there are people who have to stay in a tree... Choose a tree and perch, try to express, you will definitely succeed, believe in yourself, don't care too much about other people's eyes, just live your true self, come on.

There should be no knots in the heart, just.

Copying is a matter of mentality, adjust your heart

State. Maybe you care too much about what others think of you, and you yourself say that you are still very active in your heart, as long as you can show that side of your heart, you will be successful. If you were able to be so high-profile before, why can't you be high-profile now.

Think about why you used to be high-profile, how you were high-profile, and then continue to be high-profile now. Do you think there's something pressing you down? It is recommended that you go to the seaside, or the prairie, any place where you can make your heart wider, and let your heart fly.

Is your own circle big? Expand your circle and get to know others! Maybe you can get your answer from a friend.

Life is your own, and it is better to know more about talents.

The necessary experience of life, the skin is not thick enough, I am afraid of this and that, it is recommended to buy a book on my own nature, learn to understand the root of people,

Maybe you're scared of tomorrow, and I suggest you go to see a movie, Three Fools Make a Mess in Bollywood

It might help you a little.

The past is always gone. Life has to go on.

Ask a psychological counselor, dozens of dollars an hour, this kind of question is more safe to ask a professional.

If you can think of that, it's a sign that you've found a problem.

If you can talk about the problem, you're solving the problem.

I don't think it's anything, not all extroverts and eloquent people must be successful in their family careers. Edition.

If your supervisor thinks you are introverted, does the indirect right tell you that the position you are applying for lacks some courage for you? If you're engaged in scientific research, you still need a personality like yours. Your personality is related to what you experienced as a child, but I don't think it's all about it, if you think you're not happy with your current situation, then you can try to change it, and if you feel comfortable living now, that's okay.

As for the opposite sex and the boss, there is more contact with the opposite sex, and she is not introverted, boss, everyone can't communicate with her as a friend, or what is the boss, as long as you work diligently and show your talent generously, even if you are introverted, your boss will also appreciate you, and will not deny you because you are introverted.

In fact, you don't have any big problems, but you are under a lot of psychological pressure.

This is a psychological problem, and it is recommended that you find a psychologist to enlighten you.

Damn, you're a pig, you don't want to repeat your family's history, then you have to take good care of a person you love, don't let him be sad, you see, aren't you acting in history now?