It s so uncomfortable in my heart, and I feel very aggrieved and uncomfortable

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you haven't paid yet, don't pay, you don't need to buy more expensive ones, I think the mobile phone is essentially a communication tool, what smart and what Internet access is an accessory, there is nothing to envy;

    If you want to surprise your parents and make them feel happy that their children have grown up, I will give you an idea, don't tell your parents that you didn't buy a mobile phone, and divide the money in your hand into 3 parts.

    Part 1: Buy something for your parents that you think they need, and Part 2: Buy a small box, wrap it, and say it's a gift for your parents.

    Part 3: If you really need a mobile phone, leave the last one for yourself to buy a general mobile phone, and use the rest of the money to buy some food to cook a meal for your parents, not necessarily a good one, but in this process, even if the fried food is unpalatable, they will feel extremely sweet, because they see the sensible side of their children!

    I think there is nothing to celebrate on my birthday, because it was the day of the 20th anniversary of the "Mother's Day", which was the biggest disaster for my mother, and I didn't understand it before, but later when my wife gave birth to a child, I deeply realized it, so I must be kind to my mother!

    Speaking of which, let's talk about Dad, if Mom is half of the family, there is no doubt that Dad is the pillar of the family, the current society has given us too much pressure to be a father, sometimes pay but not get in return, and even get unreasonable accusations, when you get home, if your child at the dinner table holds a glass of wine and says to himself: "Dad, for this family, you have worked hard!" ”

    On the day I was 20 years old, I didn't do anything, so I knelt down in front of my parents with a wine glass and said, "Mom and Dad, you two have worked hard!" Mom and Dad were so excited that they burst into tears!

    I hope my experience can help you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Why do your parents buy you a mobile phone, the first is your birthday, the second is that they want you to be happy, and you are now aggrieved Is it useful, can you solve the problem, in my opinion, you may be a little evasive when you encounter things, I think since you feel sorry for your parents' hard work, then you should usually do more filial piety than you are there now to think about it is much better, you should not refuse to receive the goods now, because this is what your parents give, but also the power to motivate yourself, you know. Parental love is the greatest in heaven and earth.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Shame is almost brave. Those who can face themselves are warriors.

    It is the effect of making you feel aggrieved, and the love of vanity is the cause.

    From this, we can see that the seeds of selfishness and vanity will only get the fruits that make you uncomfortable, not the sweet fruits that we think.

    If you plant the seeds of filial piety and love for others, then what you get is peace and harmony.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, I think it's better to show the real side, and it's not a bad thing to be extravagant with luxury goods once in a while. Then you just learn to be filial and sensible, can't you? That's what Mom and Dad want.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Anyway, what do you want this phone for??? Think for yourself, right? Don't turn the gifts your parents give you into a burden to each other. Think about it and you'll be relieved.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's up to you to decide. You're right, though.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Think of something to be happy about.

    When you're in a bad mood, sometimes it's because people think too much. Always thinking about something that will happen in the future puts a strain on one's psyche. Why think about something you can't do?

    Ways to relieve stress: Yell loudly for 1 to 2 minutes to vent the resentment in your heart; Sit on the sofa and listen quietly for 15 minutes, and you will feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved.

    You should listen to more ** and let beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

    You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

    You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in you from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries will be eliminated.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, it should be too much psychological pressure.

    Guidance: Find someone to talk to, just vent. When I encounter this situation myself, I am looking for a movie or **, tragic, sadistic, and happy when I see crying and crying.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Think about it seriously, what are you aggrieved? Why are you aggrieved? Find out the reason, I'm afraid you won't be aggrieved. Look at both sides of things, don't just think about yourself. Mutual understanding is probably the best way to go.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Venting, such as tearing paper or something.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Leave those trivial worries behind for a while and have a beautiful daydream in the morning. Don't blame yourself, but encourage yourself by saying, "It's okay for me to squander my rest time so hard." ”

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Cry out, or how do you usually use to decompress? It will be much better to vent it, and to enjoy the feeling of happiness with your loved ones or lovers. Scold.. Happy wishes.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are many ways to relieve your stress!

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