Should I maintain such a marriage or should I leave it?

There is a big difference in the living habits of the northern and southern cities, has his son been awarded to his ex-wife, if not, he can no longer have a baby if he has a household registration for his daughter, and it belongs to the third child in the legal sense. The old man's thinking is very old, if you can do a good job of ideological work is the best, husband and wife should at least unite the front, there are no principled problems between husband and wife, it is better not to use divorce as a threat, it is really to the point where there is no room for adjustment and salvation, let's talk about divorce. I always say that I don't want to divorce for the sake of the future of my children, but in fact, I hurt myself, and I use the rest of my life in exchange, I personally think that on the basis of conditions, do more work and work hard to change the father-in-law's thoughts and husband's attitude to life before making plans.

Let's leave, cut the mess quickly, otherwise it can only be more and more annoying, and the more chaotic it is. Didn't you say that your thinking is not old? If you want to open a little, take your daughter with you, and you will find a man, who may be divorced or an honest and responsible man, who will at least love you well and give you a happy home.

Wishing you happiness!

People say that it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, and the family is the most complicated, sometimes it is not just a matter of two people, you all have children, children are innocent, and children who lack the love of a happy family are the most unfortunate.

Husband and wife should be considerate of each other, when you think of his badness, also reflect on whether you are not good enough, you want a husband who cares for him, and he must also hope to have a careful and considerate wife, sometimes it is often we ignore each other's feelings, so that we take it for granted that we do a lot of things, so it is a dead cycle, the more the two sides look at each other.

Some people say that people get along with each other many times in fact, they are reciprocal, you respect me a foot and I pay you back, you are good to me, I can see it, when I want to treat you badly, I will feel sorry for me, you...

Listening to your story, he was just murderous to you, and I didn't see you say that there was domestic violence, so I don't know if there is anything about it. My personal feeling is that a man who beats a woman must not be a good thing, of course, many things cannot be generalized, and sometimes it depends on the specific situation. Although many people think that divorce can quickly cut through the mess, but you also have to face up to the fact that the current does not mean that it is not good, and it cannot be guaranteed that it will be better in the future, men's thoughts are all hoping that their wives will be with their original partners, if you take your children to marry, it is not easy, having said so much just to let you think more objectively and comprehensively about your past, you have lived for three years, you have to think about whether you have ignored him a lot, you have to think carefully about what you can get if you divorce, What do you want to get, how many possibilities are there, what will happen to the child in the future, bring it yourself or give it to your husband, think about your real problem is a personality incompatibility or a character problem, your parents will not be with you for the rest of your life, and the child's household registration problem is not a problem as long as your husband and wife have the intention to solve it.

It's true that life is ordinary, of course, if you think you can't get by, you can't force it, everything has to look forward.

Think about it carefully, many things cannot be solved by divorce, and many things should be thought about before acting, and don't make mistakes again and again.

Let's leave, I grew up in a family similar to your daughter's current situation, as long as you are good to your daughter, you can actually make up for that father's love. It's not a problem that you don't have common interests.,But a big man shouldn't scold his wife.,Not even the most deserving respect.,It's not worth being together.,If his father refuses to give your daughter a household registration.,In the future, you won't be good to her.,For yourself and your daughter.,Leave.。。

Your marriage is destined to be a tragedy, regardless of the opposition of your parents, you think you are very happy, you don't look back when you don't despair, your current marriage has two people's relationship problems, his parents don't like your daughter very much, and you hide your parents and your husband has a child, in fact, you are hiding yourself, deceiving yourself, not real happiness, your husband is not willing to be in the same city with you, do you think your marriage can last long.

The pro is an only daughter, and I believe that the family conditions should be good, so when I meet such a man, there is no difference between there and no, but there may be no more suitable one in the future, and the marriage must be cautious. There are too many problems between you and your husband, can you be a good stepmother, and you will have three more children.

If you don't have feelings and can't give you a warm home, then leave, it's good to leave early.

Leave decisively, long pain is better than short pain.

Hey, I don't know if I persuade you to leave or not, it seems that you need to think about it again for the sake of your children, but look at this family, how do you live there, this kind of man, such parents, really feel sorry for your relatives.

Good morning departure! The longer you drag, the more you'll find yourself losing!

There is no common language, so it is better to break up than to maintain.

If you're not happy, leave.

It's better to be separated after such a painful life.

Being a man is on your own, and everything else is unknown.

What matters is that you are sure that your "he" really loves you?

If you use "maintenance" to describe your current state of marriage and future development, then I don't think you need to maintain it. But if you ask, is it necessary to improve such marriages? I'm pretty sure of you:

Spike thickness is necessary. Because it is much easier to improve the current state of married life than to give up the new choice.

If this is indeed the state you described, then you should think carefully about when your marital status began to become like this, and what caused it? I don't believe that your marriage is in this state from the beginning, because this state cannot lead to marriage, unless your needs are not emotional, but other aspects.

Since you can ask questions, at least it shows that you have a positive mindset about solving the problem, which I think is very important and a very good place to start. Since your description is so simplistic, it's hard to give more specific suggestions to improve your existing relationship. But improving the relationship itself is not difficult, you just need to understand the other person's needs and then meet the other person's needs.

The deeper your inner needs are, the easier it will be to improve your current relationship. Therefore, only by observing and communicating with each other can you find out that the other party's needs are in the first place, and then it is possible to meet him. Don't feel humbled and flattered because of this, emotional relationships are always a two-way street.

A healthy relationship between the sexes can satisfy both parties at the same time, and your efforts will be both fulfilling for the other person and for yourself. It's really not that hard.

Hello! Marriage must still maintain a good relationship, otherwise how to live life must be very difficult.

Whether your marriage is worth maintaining or not is your own business, and it depends on how you approach your marriage. What you want, your mindset matters.