How do you pick up a guy sitting across from me on the train?

As soon as I separated from my boyfriend, I hadn't recovered from my grief, so I got on the bus from Wuxi back to Nanjing Qiaochun. On the seat next to him is a good-looking boy, with good eyes, and curved eyebrows, although he is not particularly handsome, but he looks very comfortable.

I was tired and didn't have any thoughts, so I silently flipped through my phone, intending to take a break. Unexpectedly, the boy took the initiative to talk to me and asked me to get off at **.

I was overjoyed, and I felt that I was so old that I could still be accosted by a young guy, and I thought it was very interesting.

Truthfully. There was a chat without a match, and during the chat, I learned that the boy said that he was going to Wuxi to take the exam for the college upgrade, and by the way, he also asked me about some exams, do I look like a top student? What a vision!

I didn't want to feel it during the exchange, and the boy was deliberately asking me some personal information, about my age, about my hometown, etc., and I began to be cautious. After all, in the past, when you meet travelers, you will briefly talk about your hometown and talk about some places, which is similar to wanting to know about privacy, which makes people have to beware.

Finally arrived at Nanjing Station, quickly took my luggage, and politely said goodbye to the boy, he said that he could go to Xuzhou to play if he was free. also said that if you go to Xuzhou to play, you can go to him.

The stranger was on the side, and I wished me a pleasant journey, so I hurried out of the seat of Chanoy. At this point, the polite greetings should be over completely.

When I got to the door of the train, I suddenly noticed that he was right behind me, and I was instantly scared. But pretending that I didn't see it, I just wanted to get out of the car as soon as possible.

When I got out of the car, I breathed a sigh of relief. I casually turned my head, but I didn't expect him to be right behind me, following me closely! He smiled, said that he got out of the car to breathe two mouthfuls of Nanjing air, and then stuffed me with a paper slip, saying that it was his WeChat, so that I could add him, and turned to leave.

Frightened, he strode away. I finally squeezed into the noisy crowd and felt relieved.

In the past, I used to try to figure out someone's mind with the best heart, but after six years of going out, I had to gradually become vigilant and ready to protect myself at any time.

Girls really have to protect themselves when they go out alone, it's really too dangerous! (Nothing happened, but the thought that if it was a bad guy, it would still be on the train in broad daylight, and he followed me off!) If it is very unfortunate that we are in the same destination, it is hard to imagine what the consequences will be)

I hope everyone can travel safely and healthily.

There was once a legend that on a long-distance train, there happened to be a young girl sitting next to you, and she happened to be sleepy, and it happened that her head fell ...... your shoulder

Not much to say, dry goods! <>

Take the initiative to help Everyone will generally bring a big suitcase when taking the train, at this time it is a test of whether you are quick to see or not, no matter whether the suitcase is big or small, light or heavy, take it immediately, take the opportunity to talk, I will help you put it. The other party must be very grateful at this time, and then your conversation box will naturally open.

Sharing snacks Continuing from the above, since you have already helped someone put their suitcase, don't be stingy at this time and share the snacks you bring with the other person, but remember that the other person is likely to say to you out of shyness and politeness, thank you, I won't eat or something like that. At this time, you must not take back the snacks, ask again, at this time the other party will not refuse, and at the same time increase the favor.

When you see that the other party's things have fallen, you can remind them or take the initiative to help them pick them up, see the other party get their hands dirty, hand the tissues you carry with you to the black family, or your favorite songs, etc., in short, if you want to take the initiative to meet someone, you have to be a warm-hearted, and there will be more possible opportunities! <>

You ask me to answer Most people will not refuse other people's trivial questions, you see the other party playing a game, you can ask him what game you play, it looks good, or rather, I am also playing this game, which district are you, should we add friends. If the other party is reading a book or watching a movie, you can also ask like this, don't you see fate and it will come ......

Start with a simple greeting, and then praise the other person, this praise is also a skill, such as a young boy, you can praise him for being handsome, fashionable, and young!

What about girls? She must love to be beautiful, and you can praise her for being beautiful! Clothes, hair, figure, these can be praised. <>

People are like this, regardless of men, women and children love to praise, if you talk to a stranger, you first have to say hello, and then praise others, others are in a happy mood, happy will naturally open their mouths to chat with you.

This is the best first feeling for strangers. Pick-up is a natural success!

There is not much skill in accosting a stranger on the train, and the most important thing is to overcome your own psychological pressure.

The simplest statement is that you go to **, just the two of us are fellow countrymen, you are from your hometown**? Are you going to **? And the simplest sentence is whether the brother has fire or not, so that you can talk to him quickly.

Take the initiative to go over and chat with others, and as you chat, you will become familiar.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with being accosted on the train, but most of us are on the same train, and there may be fellow countrymen, let's talk about this fate, when you are on the train, you can often talk about a lot of things, and then you can also chat and maybe make some friends, why not? It's actually nice to be accosted, there will be someone who is willing to talk to you, and you also have time at this time.

One year I had a very deep impression that there was a very beautiful girl who accosted me on the train, and I felt very happy in my heart at that time, because she was so on the train at that time, and she chose to chat with me, and it would make me feel very happy, because he chose me because of my appearance, wahahaha. At that time, I talked to her a lot, about her hometown, she and I introduced a lot of specialties from his hometown, I think he is a very active and optimistic person, his home is in Changsha, and he is happy to recommend me to play in **** He likes it very much, and gave me a lot of benefits, what about me, I also told her about my hometown, and some things about me, so it is actually very happy to talk about it.

Accosting someone on the train is a normal thing, and it's also a very happy thing, everyone needs to spend more time on interpersonal communication, rather than boundless mobile phones, I hope everyone also has a time worth remembering being accosted.

On the train, you will inevitably meet strangers to talk to you, because I am a girl, and I feel that there are very few same-sex conversations, and once, because they went out on a family trip and asked me what to eat in Xinjiang. I always feel like I'm talking to someone of the same sex, there's always a weird feeling, you're kind to her, and she thinks she wants to do something, and she doesn't care about her, and she has to be rude to you, so I think it's good to talk to the opposite sex, it's nothing, it's better than the same sex anyway, but you still have to beware of others, don't be deceived because you can talk, and have a sense of protecting yourself.

It is actually quite common to be accosted by the opposite sex on the train, especially on long-distance trains, the long road is long, and you don't find someone to talk about life, talk about ideals, and how to pass this boring time.

The train is actually a very boring place, so you have a lot of ways to pick up a problem.

I suggest you try it like this:

If the other person is looking out the window with nothing to do, you can take the opportunity to chat with a question on your phone, or pretend to chat with a friend, and the friend asks a question that you can't answer (it must be a question that the girl is interested in).

The advantage of this is that you can attract the attention of the other person through a certain thing or problem or something of interest, so as to find a topic of conversation, and the other person will not mind. Logical.

Trouble her first, such as leaving her seat to wash her face or going to the bathroom and ask her to take care of her things.