During the confinement, my husband quarreled with me all day long, and my mother in law fell into co

Can't live, this kind of life can be lived, my husband doesn't care so much about my mother-in-law and is strong, I will definitely be very unhappy living there, and then the bitter thing is myself, it's better to leave home early.

I think that during the confinement, my husband quarreled with you all day long, and my mother-in-law fell into confinement sickness, I think this really can't go on, and when I go out, I need to rest the most, and they have to quarrel with you during this time, so I don't understand you very much, and I think I should leave.

During the confinement, the husband quarreled with you all day long, and the mother-in-law was strong, and then let you fall into the confinement disease, it really can't be passed anymore, you quickly take your children and move out of them, and then find a better lawyer to prepare for divorce.

If your husband often quarrels with you during the confinement, and your mother-in-law still helps her husband, then you can't live this life, there is no need to live it, divorce.

During the confinement period, due to the fact that the baby has just been born. The family was very happy. Too much attention may be given to the child. A little bit of weakness will feel that the child's mother has not done a good job, so it is easy to have contradictions, at this time both parties should understand each other and tolerate each other.

I don't think it's necessary to live this kind of life, as a man, I can't help take care of it during the confinement, and I quarrel every day, so I don't have a sense of responsibility at all. Very uninteresting.

This is a phenomenon of family disharmony, which is why this phenomenon is caused, so we should usually understand and take care of it more and suffer less sin.

I can't get by, I haven't thought about my wife's feelings, such a person doesn't deserve you.

The children are all born, if it is not because they can't go on, it is better to insist on it. Communicate more between the two of you, have a deep heart-to-heart talk, and ask your husband if you don't do well and correct what is wrong.

If your mother-in-law lives separately from you, you look at your relationship with your husband, and if the relationship is good, wait a little longer, and slowly clean up your husband and mother-in-law.

I think if that's the case, then you should take care of your family's feelings after confinement, after all, you still have just given birth to a child and have to think about your own child.

For the sake of the child, you should persevere, you must know that a child without a mother is very pitiful, but he should be strong and independent, and no one will dare to bully.

It's just the opposite, my husband is very good to me during the confinement, but my parents quarrel with me because of the husband of my sister who got married, and when I cry, except for my husband who said that you can't cry in confinement, I keep making me laugh, and my parents are directly invisible, and my heart is cold.

I think you should divorce and take the children away if you have the ability, otherwise there will be times when you will be wronged in the future.

Live separately from your mother-in-law, don't rely on the elderly to take care of you, and communicate more with your husband.

If you have the money to take the child to your mother, you can wait until the confinement period and take the child back to your parents' house, or rent a house outside. Then use the money in hand to take care of the children with the mother, and when you can go to work, you can earn money to raise the children by yourself. The most important thing is divorce, I generally rarely persuade people to divide, a man when his mother and wife have a conflict, do not know how to deal with it properly, pull the bias and only protect the mother, I will find a way to deal with things, after all, marriage is not child's play.

After this period of time, your mentality should be adjusted for yourself, not for others, and when the confinement is out, the child will calm down and think about the future road, and it will be decided, which is a problem during your marriage, but now it is manifested, and it is precisely appropriate to behave out of place and let the pure be pure, because it is better to let you know these in advance, than to develop to such a good time after several years, so it is a good thing, stop loss in time, and sober up in time to decide how to go in the future.

Calm down and do a good job of confinement! Learn to take care of yourself first! Do your career well after the confinement, and the day you bully them on the day when your wings are hard, let the whole family kneel and beg you! Those who achieve great things are not informal.

If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan, and if you can't bear it, you will make a comeback. If you are strong enough now, divorce directly, and you must be ruthless in beating dogs!

People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden.

Although it is not nice to say, but the truth is that your husband's family does not pay attention to you, especially your husband feels sorry for you at all, and when his mother cries, his balance tilts to his mother and treats the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

I can't figure it out, and maybe the family itself is not very good. Let's talk about it after the confinement first, if your husband doesn't give you a reasonable explanation, I'm afraid that the two of you will not have a good time in the future.

If the husband is not good to himself, then there is no point in staying, people must learn to stop losses in time, and don't waste time for unworthy people!

You can move out, because the two of them are probably arguing with you, and if there is no way to satisfy both of them, you can go back to your own house.

First of all, you must maintain a good attitude, you can move out with a smile on your own, after all, if you are easy to get angry during the confinement, Xiaocong will also leave some confinement diseases, which is also very bad for your health.

First of all, you can do the intermediate work by yourself, you can comfort your husband on the one hand, and comfort your mother-in-law on the other hand, and you can help ease the relationship between the two of them.

In this case, you, as a daughter, must stand up and speak for your mother, otherwise you will also break your mother's heart. But the best way is to communicate on both sides, tell your husband that your mother is not easy, Duan Que asked him to persuade your mother-in-law more, otherwise who is unhappy, you will not be able to sit well this month. You must know that this situation is still based on communication as much as possible, and it is not easy for you to make a choice, so try to show weakness and let your mother and your mother-in-law understand you.

The reason why your mother frequently quarrels with your husband and mother-in-law is that she feels that the other party has not taken good care of you, thinks that she takes good care of you, or is not very suitable for the way your husband and mother-in-law take care of you, so she will quarrel with your husband and mother-in-law.

Although the mother and daughter did not have an overnight feud, it is obvious that your mother is on the weaker side, and you are confined.

It must be at your mother-in-law's house, so your mother has traveled thousands of miles to take care of her, and you still have to be more considerate of this heart, otherwise your mother will be easily sad.

Of course, you also have to find your husband to communicate, talk about your difficulties, and let him communicate more with your mother-in-law. At the same time, you also communicate with your mother and tell your mother-in-law that it is not easy, so that people on both sides are calm, and naturally there will be no quarrels.

And your mother rarely lived with your husband and mother-in-law before, the two families have different living habits and different parenting concepts, so it is naturally easy to quarrel, so let the two families be more tolerant is the solution.

At this time, you are still in confinement, and you can't do many things by yourself, so it's better to show weakness, so that your mother and your mother-in-law will temporarily give up arguing because of you, after all, both of them understand that a woman's confinement is a big deal, and if you don't sit well in confinement, it is easy to have sequelae.

Therefore, your attitude is also very important, you must not quarrel with your mother or mother-in-law, but you should try to let them understand you, and run in more, so that you can get along.

In this kind of hailstorm, don't choose to offend your mother in order not to offend your husband and mother-in-law, this is a very stupid behavior, or do more ideological work with your mother, so as to solve this problem perfectly.

If it's because your mom did something wrong, you can choose to apologize to your husband, and if it's because you did something wrong for your mother-in-law and your husband, you should ask your husband to apologize to your mom.

In this case, I think we should adjust accordingly, indicating that the contradictions between them are better, and effective communication is the fundamental way to solve the problem, or to separate the mother from my mother-in-law to avoid conflicts in the spring, and I should also learn to regulate my emotions.

I think you can let Mom go home first and try not to let the three of them show up at the same time, so that you can avoid a lot of conflicts.

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Hello! I've kept you waiting. How can there be no bumps in marriage, especially young people, quarrels are common, how can they be separated as soon as they quarrel?

Quarreling with his daughter-in-law in confinement is a man's fault, there is no doubt about this, but men are mature late, he doesn't know what confinement means to a woman, if he knows that he is wrong, and the matter is not too serious, forgive him This time, marriage needs to travel and run in, and whose life is a chicken feather. Besides, confinement oneself has to take care of one's own emotions, this is a lifelong thing, one accidentally leaves the root of the disease, or because the child is angry that there is no milk to eat, or he is in trouble, and the child suffers. I hope it can help you ruin your posture, and I wish you all the best!

First of all, during this month, the mother has to endure the reorganization and adjustment of all aspects of the body, and the endocrine estrogen and so on are in a state of chaos. Therefore, postpartum depression is a very common situation, and the mother-in-law is generally old, and suddenly faced with a little life, her energy and time are occupied, and her mood is naturally not good. Thus, during this month, both mothers are in a bad state both mentally and physically.

Once a person is not resting well or in a bad mood, they are particularly easily irritated, emotionally vulnerable, and magnify many small things.

Secondly, there is a common concern: differences in the parenting style of children are also one of the sources of conflict。There is a lot of controversy about how young people accept doctors online, accept new parenting ideas, and the way they raise children are still meeting with children.

Second, the collision of different living habits, the collision of my own living habits of more than 20 years and the living habits of my wife's family for more than 20 years, will be reflected when I am resting, and there will definitely be fire.

How can we minimize the contradictions of this month? First of all, mothers must learn to empower others, all are children, even if some bad parenting methods do not affect the child much in 30 days. Learn to close one eye when it comes to things that don't violate the big principles.

During the birth period, it is good to raise the body and feed the baby well.

Secondly, the family should be considerate of the mother, not discriminate, and more tolerant and caring。Everyone lives within their own boundaries, and there is no blame for what is as peaceful as possible. Besides, family members should also help.

In addition, my mother-in-law takes care of her children a little more during the day and rests more at night. At the same time, I also learned to understand my mother-in-law, so it would be good.

During confinement, the mother should not have too many mood swings. At this time, the mother-in-law should try to let the mother go.

During confinement, it is best to compromise a little bit and not quarrel with others, because at this time you are being taken care of by others and belong to the weak.

If you really can't do it, go back to your parents' house! After all, you can't be angry during the confinement period, and those contradictions will be slowly resolved later!

If you quarrel with your mother-in-law, then let your mother-in-law leave the house, and then you can take care of the children by yourself.

Be sure to relax, shift your attention to your child, don't get angry, the body is the most important thing.

It's still not right to quarrel with your elders, you should apologize, and if you can't get along, you won't live together for the time being.

This is normal, don't go to your heart, comfort yourself, encourage yourself, and you will get better.